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kavita

@kavitha_r

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: aekiel
The actors playing Ayaan and Saanjh (Sumit and Aneri) look similar in age, which is why most aren't against Ayaan-Saanjh.

However, as I've said before, it looks illogical simply because of the age difference between the two at this stage in the serial. It's effectively pairing an 18 year old and a 24 year old together, and sorry, that looks unacceptable now. Five years down the line, if the show takes a leap, I wouldn't mind it, but right now... 😕

Having said that, all steps seem to point to Ayaan Saanjh, right from his words at the end (I'm not Duffer, and it's Bhai's loss etc etc) and, as you said, him being part of the hug at the end.

If the CV's at the beginning of the show wanted to pair Ayaan and Saanjh (they would've definitely had an outline because this is a finite show), why create a background where the two characters have such a big age difference?

So, so disappointing, but well atleast ek "Indian television par pehli baar" might be a "real pehli baar"- pairing an eighteeen year old teen and a 24 year old lady together. 😆

Age isn't a problem. It is only a number. There are so many people who marry the girl who is more than 5 years elder to them. It has got nothing to do with the maturity level. Maturity is all about understanding the person and being sensitive to them. If Ayaan understands Saanjh, why not? if Arjun had to feel the pinch, he would have stopped her parents finding a match for Saanjh. if Ayaan loves Saanjh, he can wait for 3 years. What is the big deal?

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486792

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Brilliant post Di!!! 👏👏

I will say this.Both Vandy and Jahnvi are massive disappointments as mothers.I cannot understand Jahnvi at all.Is she a 15 year old lovestruck teenager?? She is aware of Ashwin's reality and she has faced his atrocities too.Yet she claims to be in 'love' with him.She has become a slave of Ashwin's non existent love.The tagine of the show 'Hadh Se Zyada Kuch Bhi Accha Nahin Hota.Pyaar Bhi Nahin' is more applicable to Jahnvi than Maya.Ashwin is the guy who ruined her life and made her daughter's life a living hell.He ruined Maya's childhood and abused her physically,mentally and emotionally.Still she is prepared to overlook all that and accept Ashwin with open arms?? Wasn't all these years of suffering enough to make her disillusioned??

Maya so awesome today.Jenny was terrific as usual.👏👏She was like the overprotective parent who is scared and worried for her child.She nailed that scene.Maya knows that she cannot lose her mom.Before Arjun she only had her mom.Her mom means the world for her.Maya's love for her mother is one of the deepest and most beautiful forms of love.

Then comes Vandana.What is her problem??Arjun has made his choice.He wishes to be with Maya.Come on is he a child?? He is a grown up guy and he can make his own decisions.I know that as a mother Vandana has the right to worry about her son but she shouldn't impose her choices on him.And I feel that it's injustice to Saanjh too.She has her own life.She cannot give up her life and individuality for Arjun.And she is Arjun's friend.Even closest friends have certain limits.Those limits should be respected.Sometimes I feel that Vandana is not ready to accept that Arjun has chosen someone who is not the one she prefers.

The main reason for Saanjh's heartbreak is the encouragement by Vandana.Vandy should understand that she cannot impose her wishes on anyone.Be it Arjun or Saanjh.

Ayaan was extremely caring and supportive towards Saanjh today.If the track is executed properly then I won't mind shipping Saanjh-Ayaan too.For now I want Saanjh to get her life back on track and focus on her career.She can also enjoy her own life and be happy.Is it necessary to have a BF or GF to remain happy??

And if she falls for Ayaan later having moved on from Arjun completely then it will be great because it will be her own choice and not imposed by someone else.

BTW I remember one of your earlier posts in which you mentioned that Saanjh means Durga whereas Ayaan means Shiva and you also said that there was a possibility of them pairing up.It seems so apt now.

Edited by ---Andromeda--- - 8 years ago

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Pesi

@pesi11

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Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: aekiel
The actors playing Ayaan and Saanjh (Sumit and Aneri) look similar in age, which is why most aren't against Ayaan-Saanjh.

However, as I've said before, it looks illogical simply because of the age difference between the two at this stage in the serial. It's effectively pairing an 18 year old and a 24 year old together, and sorry, that looks unacceptable now. Five years down the line, if the show takes a leap, I wouldn't mind it, but right now... 😕

Having said that, all steps seem to point to Ayaan Saanjh, right from his words at the end (I'm not Duffer, and it's Bhai's loss etc etc) and, as you said, him being part of the hug at the end.

If the CV's at the beginning of the show wanted to pair Ayaan and Saanjh (they would've definitely had an outline because this is a finite show), why create a background where the two characters have such a big age difference?

So, so disappointing, but well atleast ek "Indian television par pehli baar" might be a "real pehli baar"- pairing an eighteeen year old teen and a 24 year old lady together. 😆

its definitely not for the first time...watch suhani si ladki. sayyam who is 19 paired opposite krishna who is 26 😉

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Isha Kumar

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Posted: 8 years ago

#14

I don't think they ever revealed ayaan's age
Maybe he is in college because he is doing a post graduate degree.. that makes him around 22-23 years of age
There could be a good chance of ayaan and Saanjh being very close to the same age ;)
Plus Arjun was a duffer maybe that's why he kept failing in school :P but it could also be due to him loosing his mom and he couldn't focus on his studies

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pomegranate

@pomegranate

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Posted: 8 years ago

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I watched Monday's episode properly without any net interruptions. The reactions all around were hilarious. First Vandana acts las if a murderer just walked into her home then goes running to saanjh, did she think maya killed her and took her place? the situation was terrible but everyone was crying as if somebody died. Arjun Rejecting saanjh is a nationwide travesty, maybe modi should declare a period of mourning just to emphasize how big of a loss this is.

Now coming to yesterday's episode. Janvi gives delusional and gullible a whole new meaning. This is why I think she is playing maya somehow, she cannot possibly be this stupid. I'm at a loss of words right now.

Jennifer was brilliant as usual. My heart broke when she was begging her mother to not leave her, then of course she slowly descends into madness. it is fascinating to see her switch. when maya becomes vulnerable, a stronger more dangerous version takes over. Someone made a good point that, in this world crying and begging does not always work. it did not work for maya all those years ago and it still doesn't, therefore she created an alternate version who knows how to get things done. even after all this time, she does things using methods that helped her years ago.

Ashwin and Janvi are responsible for maya's madness and they will be reason for her undoing even now. there is no solution to her problem unless she gets rid of her parents, sadly.

Maya was right to lock up her crazy mother than she dragged ashwin out of this house. Maya mehrotra is insane but she is absolutely bindass😎 I totally cheered her on but if you ask me, it is better to put janvi in a psychiatric facility, that way she wiill be safe and maya will get some peace of mind.

Vandana is another mess. she is right that because of arjun's decisions, she does not have to break her relationship with saanjh but I hope there is at least some guilt in this woman. her encouragement is one of the reason why saanjh is having a harder time dealing with this, now please no more false hopes or using her as a weapon against maya, She will definitely pit two girls against each other, but I'm more worried about what will happen to maya. no matter how "right" vandana is in her position, she is still mean minded, she will push maya into a corner.

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Nithunavi

@Nithunavi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: ishakumar
I don't think they ever revealed ayaan's age
Maybe he is in college because he is doing a post graduate degree.. that makes him around 22-23 years of age
There could be a good chance of ayaan and Saanjh being very close to the same age ;)
Plus Arjun was a duffer maybe that's why he kept failing in school :P but it could also be due to him loosing his mom and he couldn't focus on his studies

Agreed Isha...! They haven't ever revealed the age of ayan in show.

He must be some PG student. So it's around 22-23 like u said or they are of same age.

Edited by Nithunavi - 8 years ago

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@aekiel

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Posted: 8 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

Age isn't a problem. It is only a number. There are so many people who marry the girl who is more than 5 years elder to them. It has got nothing to do with the maturity level. Maturity is all about understanding the person and being sensitive to them. If Ayaan understands Saanjh, why not? if Arjun had to feel the pinch, he would have stopped her parents finding a match for Saanjh. if Ayaan loves Saanjh, he can wait for 3 years. What is the big deal?

Age is just a number when you're 23-24 plus and know what you want in your life.

Age isn't only just a number when you're 18, and your SO (especially if that happens to be a girl) is 24. A LOT can change in your life between 18 and 24, and your way of seeing life at 24 hugely differs from the way you see it at 18.

Ayaan can wait for 3 years to become legal, but would Saanjh's parents want to wait so long?

Of course, I tend to see relationships from a more practical POV, and not in a romantic la-la land sense

Peace though- I'm not about to waste more time debating this topic.

People who want to ship Ayaan-Saanjh (they don't look bad together I admit!) to leave ArYa alone will always find reasons to make it look acceptable.

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incrediblycute

@incrediblycute

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Posted: 8 years ago

#18

vandana came in Arjun's life when he was 6yrs. old.So,they atleast maintain a 7yrs age gap b/w brothers.But, age diff b/w sanjh and ayan not mentioned

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#19

@aditi andro Saanjh doesnt mean Durga but it means Sandhya or twilight where day and night meet. It is the threshold. What I meant was there was an epi where Saanjh says she is Durga, Maya made her Durga, immediately I went and checked Ayan meaning. It came out Shiva. It is not a very common name of Shiva. With other clues and also of logic of the story I thought that pairing is possible.

There is also one more reason behind it. Cinevistaas is the PH. When I was analyzing EHT the hero's name is Dev and the story shows Sakshi vs Goddess Durga now and then. Devga was the pair everyone knew and for Dev meant Mahadev Shiva's name from romantic angel. Most interesting point was what Dev calls Payal. Sunshine. I immediately connected MB, kept Dev as Arjun, Durga as Panchali as she says a dialogue " Aag se Janmi" and Maa Durga playing illusion with Payal. It was not adding up. First Dev didnt exhibit any qualities of Arjun. He was steadfast in his pagal mission Nithya. Doesnt matter he has to bend rules if it comes to that. Arjun think twice, confused whenever rules have to bend. Nothing for this guy. Second his survival instinct. That car driving scene was amazing. And illusion I couldnt connect illusion. I was like when Maya lifts against whom Arjun will point the arrow. Karan. But how. Again it didnt connect. I was going round and round with MB. I knew it was there but still couldnt connect when the marriage track was happening. And when Dr Dayal offered the deal to Dev, I banged the head against the wall. It was there in front of me. Simply I couldnt connect. I was so much into Devga the romance, I forgot Devga was a clever perception by CVs but in reality only the friendship of Dev-Nithya existed. And Dev need not only mean Mahadev , it can also mean Vasudev. Place him as Krishna, Durga as Arjun. Bingo you had the cocktail. Dev misleads Sakshi as he plays with Sunshine or Payal as Sakshi goes behind him and when Durga comes to protect him, power goes from Sakshi's hand as Suchitra comes behind Durga. The game was power.

So this time I was checking the perceptions bit more closely to catch things. Once I got the hint, I started connecting that's it.

Guys I also agree to many of you Jhanvi should be in mental asylum and not Maya. I seriously feel she has something like Schizophrenia or is she playing the game. I really felt sorry for Maya yesterday. She never gets security in a relation. No one loves her. She doesnt know how to get love.

@pom Vandana needs to understand she has to let Saanjh go for sometime. But she wont. Yes she will want Saanjh as a weapon against Maya as she feels Maya can take her power while Saanjh will be a sweet bahu

@aditi you know what is hardest for the mother to do. Stand at a distance and watch the child fall. Even when heart says go and pick up the child, stay there so that the child gets up on his or her own. Because that ability to get up on its own and come to mother a child has to be given strength. Everytime the child is cuddled child will not have that ability. It will help in the long run. But Vandana does not understand it

@Andro yes Vandana has disappointment. If she was Arjun's real mom she would have manipulated Arjun to leave Maya. But since she got Arjun only now she cant say anything

Guys I also agree to you Ayaan age is not mentioned. Also we have our batting legend Sachin Tendulkar who married a woman 6 years elder to him and living a happy married life. So Saanjh elder to him doesnt matter.

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shruthiravi

@shruthiravi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#20

@aditi one more thing that children has to take care of parents, if you look most of the previous generation it is like that.

The impact of saas-bahu type of relations is what Maya is or what Saanjh is going to get or Arjun and Ayan is going to suffer. Because I feel as individuals both these girls are fine it is trying to fit into stereotypes that is creating problems for both of them. Yesterday Saanjh said for everyone's happiness I have to shallow pain. Why? She has every right to be sad. Let her go mad for few days, then slowly she will recoup. She will have to.

For protecting mother Maya has to lock her up. Why. Allow her to go. Sit alone for sometime. She will be able to feel sane. But she wants to be a good daughter while Jhanvi doesnt want to be a good mother.

I could very well connect to all the 4 characters. They all have their own share of concerns, their own cages and their own dilemma's. The attachments, obligations forced on them pulling them down

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