Saanjh can take the burden of my relationship

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riyya6

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Posted: 8 years ago

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@ shruthiravi mayb saanjh will understand what arjun felt for her if at all it goes ayaan saanjh angle ... coz then saanjh will be forced to see and accept ayaan as a better half from fren , and it will not be easy for her... or perhaps if ayaan confess to her she will tell him I only consider you as a fren not more than that ... then only she will be able to see that both frenship and love is different ... you can't mix the both...

What is EHT .. saw comments on this but what is it

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#32

Yes riyya it can also happen, as Ayan can come close to her unknowingly, maybe it will start of just to console her, but then it can go a romance way.

EHT is Ek Hasina Thi. It was a thriller in Starplus by the same PH. Superb show. I miss it.

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Dhrishti

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Posted: 8 years ago

#33

I agree, in this situation Prem was rational and suggested some much-needed distance from the Sharma family which is the best for everyone but Vandana had to disagree, not wanting to let go of Saanjh -_-

Saanjh needs to focus on herself now more than ever.

And yes, Aayan seemed to care for Saanjh much more than Arjun has so far

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CutiepieAD

@CutiepieAD

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Posted: 8 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: shruthiravi
@aditi one more thing that children has to take care of parents, if you look most of the previous generation it is like that.
The impact of saas-bahu type of relations is what Maya is or what Saanjh is going to get or Arjun and Ayan is going to suffer. Because I feel as individuals both these girls are fine it is trying to fit into stereotypes that is creating problems for both of them. Yesterday Saanjh said for everyone's happiness I have to shallow pain. Why? She has every right to be sad. Let her go mad for few days, then slowly she will recoup. She will have to.
For protecting mother Maya has to lock her up. Why. Allow her to go. Sit alone for sometime. She will be able to feel sane. But she wants to be a good daughter while Jhanvi doesnt want to be a good mother.

I could very well connect to all the 4 characters. They all have their own share of concerns, their own cages and their own dilemma's. The attachments, obligations forced on them pulling them down

You are right! It isn't Maya's duty to protect Jhanvi , but she is just being a caring daughter.. same with Saanjh who is having a plastic smile just to give happiness to her family..

BTW yesterday in the family hug even Ayaan came and he was sitting with them as a part of Saanjh's family... Whereas Arjun helps Maya to overcome her problems n that phone convo was beautiful...

So maybe as u said these 2 will suffer due to Saanjh and Maya's ways of dealing with their families..

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 8 years ago

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@aditi suffering is for all the 4. Because Arjun and Ayan is also not independant from family. All of them are tied one way or other. Ayan respects his mom, Arjun loves his brother, so lot of things are there.

See previous generation had an entitlement mentality which I feel mostly our parents generation gave and they believed that is right.

Our generation is at cross roads we want to be dutiful but cannot give entitlement attitude and this affects most of the present generation. The pain to cut the balance is seen in every life.

Our previous generation was Beyhadh. And we thought we need to be beyhadh also. Whether manipulation or subserviance as these were the 2 extremes. There was nothing in between. But slowly people are learning everything needs a limit.

Edited by shruthiravi - 8 years ago

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K.AJAY MANIKANTA

@ajay227

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Posted: 8 years ago

#36

I loved that small Ayaan-Saanjh scene...nd as u felt d same way i too felt that Ayaan will be xtended family of Mathurs when he shared d family hug!!!He also said he isnt a loser to let go off a girl like Saanjh which speaks more!!!!Hope to see it happening!!!And d less said abt Jhanvi, d better...this woman gives me head ache!!

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#37

Yes Ajay. The most beautiful thing about Ayan-Saanjh was Ayan valued Saanjh. Arjun doesnt value Saanjh. He takes her presence as granted. If she confessed and he agreed also she will always be taken for granted and he will go his way. A girl like Saanjh doesnt deserve that to be frank.

A marriage is a life long thing. You should be with the person who values you.

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