To balance relationships - Page 6

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

I find Saanjh, Vandana & Suman irritating. They behave as if Arjun is committed to Saanjh. Manipulation or no manipulation, I don't support Maya breaking the glass and hurting herself but I don't term Maya as a manipulative woman based on these incidents without knowing the other side of it. If the male lead does the same or plays the tricks to get the girl he loves, that is fine with the public. But if the female lead does the same, they find fault with her.

Originally posted by: lumos_31

Then I think you shouldn't term the other parallel lead as irritating without knowing the other side of it too

Originally posted by: lumos_31

@katrinasalman

There's no question of male and female. Again, do not generalise everybody, because I personally think that such behaviour is not acceptable may it be a male or female.

Yes, you sure can post whatever you want, and so can I. And like I said earlier, I'm trying to show people the other side of the same coin, and not tell people what to post or what not to post.

Also, I never said Saanjh is a saint. She's as flawed as Maya is.

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

In other shows, we find the male leads trying many ways to woo the female lead. In this show, it is the other way round. That's the only difference.

There is nothing wrong in wooing somebody. Any person would think at least 10 times before committing. Same is the case with Arya.

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

In other shows, we find the male leads trying many ways to woo the female lead. In this show, it is the other way round. That's the only difference.

There is nothing wrong in wooing somebody. Any person would think at least 10 times before committing. Same is the case with Arya.

Originally posted by: Sanjana212

I agree. If a male lead would have done the same thing as maya, he would have been called romantic. Aww how romantic 🥱 and if maya does it she is manupilative. 😡

Originally posted by: Nithunavi

Exactly ! Male if did he would be considered romantic hero even though he's a stalker that wud look cool.
But now our maya is unlike gopi bahu, ishitha bahu that's why she's chudail.
Enough of this goody-two-shoes, crying baby babu's .
We like Maya's nature of giving back to back. Having a spine for herself. Independency, her way of handling things around.
She doesn't sit quietly if vandana throws her stupid sarcastic statements. She gives it back 10 times. She's very much flawed yet so right. With so much emotional baggage in her, many fears, problems from her own father she stood with an empire made by herself. She's not having anyone to care or love her but she doesn't need anyone's pity. She can very well fight herself.
"If u throw her to wolves she comes back leading the pack "
She never thought about love kinda things or any boy. She never wanted anyone to come closer to her heart. Arjun was only an employee for a long time but that changed bcoz of arjun being a good guy who supported her. She has fallen in love for the first time. Gave place to someone first time.

But saanjh she has everyone & all ppl who loves her, have everything a young girl needs. She's just insecure. She can propose & make a move but she isnt instead she's just insecure. The family of arjun isn't concerned abt his thoughts only they think saanjh wishes & dreams. No fault in thinking of saajan. But they shud first make things clear with arjun, ask his opinion.
They can't decide who shud arjun love.
What the hell is saanjh ka hisse ? Is vandana out of her mind ?
For a damn dress she made a scene & atlast all blamed arjun. May be he's not perfect but he isn't insensitive.

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

There you are. You have hit the bull's eye saying that Vandana does not make any effort to understand Arjun's feelings. Whether her thinking is right or wrong, it is necessary to ask Arjun instead of taking her own decisions. Arjun has got every right to choose his partner whether it is Maya or Saanjh or any other XYZ. This is my unbiased reply.

Originally posted by: katrinasalman