To balance relationships - Page 7

Originally posted by: lumos_31

That's not the point. Im sorry but this male female thing is totally out of context here. What is wrong is wrong. If Saanjh irritates, Maya manipulates. Its as simple as that. Who is right for Arjun, or if neither of the two is right for arjun, that only time will tell. We can only have preferences n choices, we can't judge somebody and say that Maya understands Arjun, hence she is the right one for him, and Saanjh irritates Arjun hence she is wrong and doesn't deserve him. Neither you or me know what the creatives have planned. The show will (hopefully) try to be logical at its best.

Originally posted by: SaurabhKiRadha

Lets agree to disagree

@ bold see you have no problem with OBSESSION but u don't like small fights/disagreement because this will have bad effects not obsession. Which i don't agree with you

You want maya to become positive because u like maya with arjun ( N there are people who like saanjh with arjun so they will want maya to become negative ) and i would like to see this show follow ing its theme they promised in realistic and unbiased way.

You are ok with dual face strategy of maya , smile on face and manipulate behind. Its ok to get crazy about person ( so much that u can hurt urself physically ) as long as u don't show that person that your crazy n pretend to be different personality. Because this way at present she is not hurting Arjun. And Changing for love can be to any extent . I disagree coz compromise should be arjun accepting high profile maya and maya accepting middle class arjun rather than showing world by forcing his habits on urself . And u disagree with me coz u feel it is compromise and changing for love.

@red no comments i will simply wait for track to get onair

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

Do you call S-A fights as a small fight? It is a small fight as long as it is limited to them but when Arjun had purchased a dress for Maya, it had gone upto Vandana and Suman. Is it a small fight? Vandana has made such a big fuss for a dress. Is it a small fight? Arjun did not give any right to her to interfere in his relationships.

Yes, I like Arya and many people in this forum like Arya. You are getting defensive about Saajun because you want them to see them as a pair like Vandana and Suman. As for the strategy, yes, things has to be done strategically. If you show your desperation, people run away from you. That is what is happening with Saanjh.

When marriage itself is full of compromises, relationships run with compromises. You will understand this only when you fall for someone.

Maya isn't negative. She is gray. When many have accepted Arya, the cvs will have to consider this. Otherwise many will stop watching the show.

You don't want Maya to be positive because you want Saanjh to be with Arjun. Obsession is fine. if the person gives me the space I want and gives me the respect I command & demand, then why not? You're biassed about Saanjh and we discuss Saanjh, Maya, and Arjun in almost all the topics. I don't want to say the same thing again & again. And yes, we will agree to disagree because there is no hard & fast rule that I should agree with you and vice-versa.

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

If you are watching other shows, it is the male leads who does as what Maya does and perhaps even worse than that. Any person would think 10 times before proceeding with the relationship. Even if they are rejected, they still try to make a place in that person's heart which isn't wrong at least for me. That is better than irritating a person. Period.

Originally posted by: SaurabhKiRadha

@underline you are crossing your limits of healthy discussion, this are called accusations. NO ONE can say to me i like this i like that i will tell what i like n what i don't .

I said lets agree to diasagree first , what ever is highlighted in bold in your post is said by you nothing extra is added to which i disagree.

@ green S-A fights they will decide if it big or small themselves.

@purple i know that but at present it doesn't apply to Maya's action in MY POV.

Originally posted by: lumos_31

So what if it is like that in other shows? We're not even discussing other shows here, we're discussing beyhadh. And I would prefer somebody nagging me than making me do what that other person wants without even me realising it. Its going to be a huge blow on my own self respect. Also, if that somebody is a male or female, my views don't change, the way u have assumed that they do.

Originally posted by: lumos_31

@katrinasalman I prefer to do things of my own free will, but if u give me a choice between Saanjh or Maya, I would take Saanjh any day (provided I'm a guy). Maya doesn't present anything, she directly makes u act according to her wishes. Forces u rather, and u fall for it without even realising. I would get annoyed, irritated with Saanjh but atleast I will not have the sick feeling of coming to the realisation that I was manipulated and made to act in a certain way..

My heart went out to Maya in today's episode, I really really hope she gets rid of her demons soon. No enemy even should suffer the kind of torture that maya has suffered. But the kind of person Maya is today, she is dangerous, for whatever reason it may be but she is a danger to arjun, saanjh and herself. That's a fact and no amount of justification can prove it wrong.

Originally posted by: SaurabhKiRadha

@katrinasalman ' Even you have accused me that I want Maya to be +ve because I want Maya to be with Arjun so I have said what you've underlined."

I disagree i didn't accused you kindly read post written by you coz u contradict yourself

There is a possibility that Arjun's love can change Maya. I don't want her to be negative because she shares a better chemistry with Arjun than Saanjh. If you say that If Maya gets healed w

You want maya to become positive because u like maya with arjun ( N there are people who like saanjh with arjun so they will want maya to become negative ) and i would like to see this show follow ing its theme they promised in realistic and unbiased way.

In blue ur post

In black my ans . I just repeated what you said .

Regarding nasty alpha male leads initially even i liked i supported manveer manyta n uday. I never liked 2nd lead due to chemistry but he was gud actor . It had huge fan base n i thought i will be happy wen i will get my fav pair but i wasn't coz the rushed story n sudden unrealistic twists .

Alpha male concept when it was new i liked but now it is repeated in every 2nd show, koi bhi villain suddenly change ho jata hai without justification n redemption.

I am so sorry i don't like nasty alpha leads too.