To balance relationships

To balance relationships

Not to break relationships

Vandana got triggered due to saanjh tears but no where she scolded him for not buying a dress for saanjh

No ...it wasn't about dress nor Maya

For example
Few days ago arjun took Maya to their shanti spot .Now that spot belonged to dusky duffer.Now arjun alone cannot decide.He needs to at least tell her.Now her reaction is her choice .Tell Maya that he cannot take her to that spot but can do something for her .

It's good to take care of Maya s emotions but everytime you don't have to hurt saanjh for that.Just because saanjh is family ...she also has emotions ...

Now if arjun hides from Maya in future ...no matter how she reacts but one thing is sure that she will get hurt

Now if saanjh hides from arjun then he will also get hurt ...

Vandana isn't in favour of Maya or arjun working under Maya but since arjun isn't listening to them so what can they do ! But atleast he has no right to hurt his old friends for New ones.That why she said he should learn to balance relationships.

If he tells saanjh abt shanti spot he taking maya then she will blow up & again lecture him for an hour shouting non stop.
Why he should not take maya his other frnd to shanti spot if he wants to !
Arjun knows to balance relations that's why yday he asked saanjh abt going on drive or tea or things she likes to do instead of his sorry as always which she likes.
Now tell how he's not capable for maintaining relationships.
Actually whole clan is so immature that without knowing abt arjun views they hooked saanjh as his wife.. becharaa is gng mad with their unreasonable blames.

Brilliant post

^^ @nithuvani
If arjun thought it wasn't wrong why was he hiding it ... I preferred he told saanjh , and be like am not asking you , but as my friend to which this spot is special to our friendship , I am telling you ... That's what am doing ...


Arjun creates complication , saanjh would have blown a fuse and gotten over it ...

Originally posted by: lumos_31

Brilliant post

Just because you have new friends it doesn't mean you hurt the old ones. Arjun knows Saanjh gets hurt when he lies to her. He has seen the tears of Saanjh. But he doesn't think twice before hurting her again. Considering the bond they share, and all the times Saanjh has selflessly done so much for Arjun, Arjun owes her this much atleast. About the Shanti spot, there was no need for Arjun to take Maya there. He could have covered it up by saying that there is something better that gives him sukoon, or something of that sort. Arjun in a way disrespected Saanjh's feelings. And that is what made vandana speak up, not the fact that Arjun gifted Maya the dress. Arjun's character is the most flawed out of the three, maybe it's not sketched out properly, or is but not shown to us properly.

@nithunavi Saanjh has every right to blow up/lecture as u put it. How can u all be so insensitive towards Saanjh n her feelings is beyond me. N no, he cannot take his other friends to the Shanti spot, because even Ayaan is not allowed there. And Maya, is as of now not even such a great friend let alone his gf. Even if he had to take maya there, he should have atleast told saanjh n explained the situation. Saanjh would understand like she always does. There was no need to hide it from her. Arjun cannot balance relationships, that is why everything is getting out of his control.

And speaking abt the immaturity of the family is not even related in this context. It's not their fault. Because we have not seen what happened all these years that Saanjh is so important to them. Who knows Saanjh maybe more than Arjun's best friend to them. So here we cannot judge the family for their intentions of uniting Saanjh n Arjun. Also, Arjun does not love anyone, if he doesn't love Saanjh, he doesn't love Maya either. So maybe Maya and her mom should also consider this fact before Maya pledges to make Arjun hers.

Okay as u all have an opinion even I have one.
I don't want to explain it again bcoz only a waste of time. We all will be on our points let show proceed.
At the end it's only ArYa bcoz saanjh is ridiculous & whole family of saanjh & vandana also for us.
Even if 3 end up separately also I don't have any problem but it's definitely not saanjh the ryt one for arjun only bcoz she loves him & she has both family support.
Maya mom never interfered in her love life. It's only vandana & Susan who always jaap abt arjun saanjh like there's no business for ladies.

@nithunavi Again, ur opinion and I respect it.

People who are damaged get into happy future with love ,care, support & treatment in life.
There's nothing bad about or so dangerous abt her for now. She's injured child , she needs love from someone who can be her strength.
So it's not Maya havoc in their lives but may be Ashwin im suspecting bcoz he clearly doesn't want anyone in her life. He even can create problems in arjun life.
And as far as I know no girl tolerates some friend who behaves as ur lover wife. I'm ok with that bcoz she is not gopi bahu to keep quiet & saanjh is doing the same by trying all ways to make arjun stay away from maya. She's not any less than Maya in playing her cards .
Even she said "arjun sirf mera hain" like an obsessed lover.
She knows well arjun doesn't love her but she even trying her luck to get into arjun heart

I agree tm vandana is very relatable n sensible ckt only one fault she wants arjun n saanjh to get married but there has been no attempt to know arjun's feeling , his thoughts about marriage. I know arjun have no soft feelings for her so she can't confront but she should encourage saanjh or ayan to speak n break the ice rather than telling saanjh ki i know arjun loves u ( she may be right also , it may be arjun does has feelings that he has not realised) . BUT WAT IF DOESN'T HAVE ? WHAT if her gut feelings are wrong ? It will worsen situation for saanjh n separate vandana n arjun more .

Originally posted by: Nithunavi

People who are damaged get into happy future with love ,care, support & treatment in life.
There's nothing bad about or so dangerous abt her for now. She's injured child , she needs love from someone who can be her strength.
So it's not Maya havoc in their lives but may be Ashwin im suspecting bcoz he clearly doesn't want anyone in her life. He even can create problems in arjun life.
And as far as I know no girl tolerates some friend who behaves as ur lover wife. I'm ok with that bcoz she is not gopi bahu to keep quiet & saanjh is doing the same by trying all ways to make arjun stay away from maya. She's not any less than Maya in playing her cards .
Even she said "arjun sirf mera hain" like an obsessed lover.
She knows well arjun doesn't love her but she even trying her luck to get into arjun heart