Santo's decision about Khemi-Hiten - Page 12

Originally posted by: Opti

Nothing to my mind justifies the sacrifice of Hiten-Khemi relationsiop, unless the regressiveness is the only objective of this show.

No they are definitely not sacrificing........Khemi is no santu and Hiten is no DM....Khemi will walk over santu and her happiness, will feed her to moti ben like the other day to get her own happiness, and then proclaim gods intervention........and Hiten will keep opposing DM in anythign and everything he can👏

ps:The relation Hiten and Khemi share is not the only problem here. There are others things in this world like family and the Non-Romantic relations they shared with them.

boosi,

Originally posted by: Opti

Every religion and every culture has its own definition of what is moral and what is not and these keep changing with times. Apart from some universally accepted morals , morality that is being argued here is subjective and has nothing to do with God. In a society which accepts the marriage between uncle and his niece, such a relationship is not considered immoral although many of us may consider so. So let us not drag in God into this as these are all man-made.

that is u r way of looking at things...changingggggggggg with timesneedn't necessarily be shared by the majority😕Man made decisions will only make him to go the walls😆to his ruin!!!!!!!(most of the time..good if he suceeds) Bringing God to discuss a wordly soap😆 😆a schlock TV showcoz where such questions like moral and immoral issues arise..sure GOd will make a entry...whether one likes it or notCertain standards r antique..now how antique..I SAY THEY R ETERNAL!!!!!!!Bringing God to discuss the general way of how people look at things ceratinly will not raise my Warning level..so I am fine with it😆 I wonder who gives man the ability to make decisions???a conscience!!! to distingusih between right and wrong!!

I came to know only now that cousins marrying is wrong in certain cultures..where it is perfectly alrt in some areas..same with the uncle getting married to his niece(this is common in some areas)but nowhere a maasi and step son getting together 🤢(isn't that if we plainly look at it😆)and justifying that love knows no rules..sadly I disagree..one can argue all the toss😆 they like..but I can't be an echo chamber to strange justification....

I personally feel that the secret will be out in the mandap!!!!!!!😆 and Hiten will gladly accept the gal as his wife!!! (I feel now after that champu or chamki..sorry ..do not know the correct name...the way she is shutting Ms.Ben's gob is an indication that Hiten might after all not be the son of DMand I so want him to be DM's son..and Khemi to be some orphan brought up by nanaji..or the waghelas..

quite a twisted track ....let's see what's there in store tonight..I guess Hiten back to the village😆to be near his lady love!!!!

OMG this discussion is not going anywhere 😆😆😆

Just leave it to Ekta ma'am and let us just enjoy the show as it comes 😆😆😆

Also, we should not try to find any logic in Ekta madam's shows 😆😆😆

Originally posted by: vasantha_rao07

I came to know only now that cousins marrying is wrong in certain cultures..where it is perfectly alrt in some areas..same with the uncle getting married to his niece(this is common in some areas)but nowhere a maasi and step son getting together 🤢(isn't that if we plainly look at it😆)and justifying that love knows no rules..sadly I disagree..one can argue all the toss😆 they like..but I can't be an echo chamber to strange justification....

Originally posted by: Opti

Yes, cousins marriage and uncle-niece marriages are accetable in some cultures even if they are blood related. Result - many handicapped children are born but still these marriages go on. Aunt-nephew? (where there is no blood ties?) Well that has to be taboo.

As to society allowing it, I doubt there would be such instances in society where the Maalik's son serves sentence in the Maalkin's Maayka and falls in love the chokri's sister. So can't say.

My parents are first cousins and Im happy to say that none of their children are handicapped🤔
Just because cousins marry doesnt mean that their children will have some genetic disorder. Of course if the families keep inbreeding THEN that is a possibility. And if there are no blood ties then how can that marriage be a taboo?
I think the whole issue of what marriages are taboo and which ones arent is a cultural thing. So thats why some of us watching Hiten/Khemi think its fine if they get married and some of us think its not.

And anyway this is all a drama. Its not based on real life so really debating the whole Should They/ Shouldnt They is kind of a moot point.

And Maybe-Just😃 I completely love you too! In a totally non-creepy friendly way that is😉

Aisha xxx😉

I dont think i've ever been as dissapointed or angry with Santu as much as i am now. 😡

Seriously guys... Do you guys really think Hiten and khemi are NOT being selfish? Or is it just because you like their pair and so everything they are doing is right?

They are just dumb idiots that fell in love with each other. I am not opposed to their love, but they should have admitted it to each other LONGGGGGGGGGG before..

Hiten kept on hinting and askin khemi 1000 of times and she kept on lecturing how her people don't fall in love and that she is happy.. Hiten kept on hoping that she would say: No Hiten i Love u 🤢.. if you are hoping to hear that, why don't you just say it FIRST!! The girl is being hooked up with someone else DUH she won't say she loves you, so be a MAN and confess your love..

Why is he now suddenly all confident and stubborn to make her his? Just because he now HEARED her saying she loves him? He could have just admitted his feelings and if it wasn't the way she felt than too BAD but at least he tried! In that way his act wouldnt be as selfish and cowardly as it is now!

And i hate how they always show in drama's that people start disrespecting their bloodrelations for the ones they love.. Khemi just prooved she has no spine.. If she loves Hiten so much she should have openend her mouth and should have said to Motiben: Your beloved HITEN gave it to me very well knowing it is for his futuru wife, he want's me to be his wife.. And not say Santo gave it Santo gave it..

And HITEN? He insults Santo in such idiotic way? Did he forget everything SANTO did for his family? He doesn't respect her but is utterly attracted to his sister? He should first start showing some respect towards his parents before opening his big mouth.


AND BESIDES THIS ALL: When a woman and a man marry each other and both hve children from different people, the children won't have any blood relation ship but the world and their parents WILL see them as a brother and a sister.. NO way a relationship between a stepsister and stepbrother would be justified.. And so is the same with a Step Maasi and a Step Bhanja..Believe it or not this IS the relationship these two lovebirds share.

But still i could overlook this, because yess it isn't their fault they share the same age and Santo got married to a old man.

But overall i think: JUST because two people are great on screen and share a great chemistry DOESN"T justify everything they do.......

👎🏼

Aisha,
Agree with you. Hiten asked Khemi a million times. Each time,she gave the same dialogue. More than Hiten, she has done wrong. She wronged 2 men- Shambu by agreeing to marry him and leading him to believe she liked him, and Hiten, by lying to him about her love for him.

It is not healthy to suggest to young people that suddenly someone you barely know but have strong feelings for is more important than those who have known you and brought you up and fed you and clothed you and educated you and all...

Instead of fighting the family, and insulting one's father and step-mother, and accusing a perfectly good sister of untrue things, Hiten and Khemi should think how they can get the family to be on their side. They act like they told their families a year ago and the families didn't agree!

Such depictions will only strengthen views of conservative parents in India who think 'love' is a sin, and will also mislead young people who think 'love' is great! Neither of these views are perfect. Life is a challenge and young people need family support to succeed in marriage. Falling in love is the easiest part. Parents/elders also need to listen to young people. Such tracks hardly help!