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Posted: 10 years ago
#21
I'm annoyed at Anandi for being good. There is too much evil around and all of that can't be destroyed with so much goodness. Mangala has crossed levels of evilness and doesn't deserve any sweet talking.

The biggest mistake Anandi is doing is letting Mangala too close with the child. She has to say thanks for helping my daughter and I respect you for that but now my daughter is going to be in my control. How dare Mangala oppose that I want to see? And as for the child she likes Anandi anyway. Whether Nimboli opposes or not is not a worry. Children will rebel but it's the duty of parents to set them straight. This Mangala will not do anything other than ruin.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

If Mangala had shown half of this aggression in Akheraj house while standing up for that child whom she considered her as her daughter all the eleven years this negativity from her would have been acceptable even if the methods she is using are not right.


Nicely said. 👏
I mentioned it in another post too. She was a mouse in Jhalra but here she is become a vixen. All she did was thrash that Kundan black and blue but what after that? She thought he wasn't going to attack her again. Now she herself had set that wild animal loose.
She knows to show anger on BH people only. Not on Akhiraj and son. Because they will kill her on the spot whereas in BH all are respecting her far too much.

That means Mangala doesn't deserve any respect. She needs to be shown her place and that's when she can be nice. When wild animals are caged then they can be tamed. But leave them loose and they will only kill.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think Mangala would have been happy if BH people are really bad and really ill treat. Their generosity and goodness is making her mad. They are controlling her by their goodness and thats what irks her. She wants an open confrontation. in front of Nimboli so that Nimboli will side with her.They had so much time alone with Nimboli and at that time they could have explained things like a fairy tale. And allowed Nimboli to see two sides of the picture. Instead they were showering her with gifts.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I think Mangala would have been happy if BH people are really bad and really ill treat. Their generosity and goodness is making her mad. They are controlling her by their goodness and thats what irks her. She wants an open confrontation. in front of Nimboli so that Nimboli will side with her.They had so much time alone with Nimboli and at that time they could have explained things like a fairy tale. And allowed Nimboli to see two sides of the picture. Instead they were showering her with gifts.


True . confrontation is needed to turn her into a mouse. She has never seen so much goodness and doesn't know how to react
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Posted: 10 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Shivam's angst and jealousy came out fully. Why this partiality which is dividng brother and sister or two kids? Shivam needs more assurance and truth itself.

On the otherhand Nimboli crying and Mangala shedding a real tear for Nimboli. Mangala's patience broke when Nimboli came to her crying. Her anger was real.
And Nimboli's angry words. She suffered because of some wrong decision taken by anandi. Though Nimboli's anger was against Kanta, it could have been well against anandi too.

Precap. Dadisa coming to anandi's rescue and reminding Mangala who anandi is.

Complex situation complicated by keeping secrets.

Good to see Abhi after a long time. Sometimes or most times it is mannu.

The situation is not as complex as Anandi is allowing it to be.


She is not disclosing the truth because she thinks she will lose Nandini. But in an attempt she is also losing Shivam. And I doubt if she realizes that.

Whatever Dsa said to Mangala would have made more sense if Anandi had told that to Mangala. It's strange why others have to fight Anandi's battle?

Whether M was good or evil, it was quite clear that Anandi had legal rights on the child. So at some point Anandi had to step up to Mangala to take control of N's custody. And M would have to accept it. But she is not doing that and now in fact she is losing Shivam too.

This complexity is created by Anandi only and now she is responsible for the turmoil in lives of both her kids.

I feel sorry for her kids. What have they done to deserve the punishments of Anandi's mistakes? What these kids are going through is anyday more than the pain Anandi goes through.




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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Missesha

The situation is not as complex as Anandi is allowing it to be.



She is not disclosing the truth because she thinks she will lose Nandini. But in an attempt she is also losing Shivam. And I doubt if she realizes that.

Whatever Dsa said to Mangala would have made more sense if Anandi had told that to Mangala. It's strange why others have to fight Anandi's battle?

Whether M was good or evil, it was quite clear that Anandi had legal rights on the child. So at some point Anandi had to step up to Mangala to take control of N's custody. And M would have to accept it. But she is not doing that and now in fact she is losing Shivam too.

This complexity is created by Anandi only and now she is responsible for the turmoil in lives of both her kids.

I feel sorry for her kids. What have they done to deserve the punishments of Anandi's mistakes? What these kids are going through is anyday more than the pain Anandi goes through.





There is no whether Mangala was good. If Mangala was good then we wouldn't have all this happening today. The fact is that anandi is wondering why it's taking this long for the child to overcome her hatred for her real mother. Because of the tall claims that Mangala madam is making to reconcile mother and child. The problem is no one really doubts what extent she has gone to in damaging the child's thinking. No one has a clue about the fake mother. Actually speaking that and few other poisons that Mangala has filled in the child's head has lead to this much damage.


Anandi's mistake is that she trusts Mangala. But her children are not suffering for this mistake alone. I agree she should be revealing to Shivam but as with Nimboli Mangala's taken full control of her and is doing a lot of manipulation behind their backs. So Nimboli suffering is not completely Anandi's fault. It is very much Mangala's fault. She claims on one hand to love the child and other hand she is destroying her totally.


Anandi is paying a price for being good. She has total legal rights of her child but like a fool she still gives motherly credit to Mangala.


But then on one hand people were saying Anandi doesn't thank her child's saviour enough. Now this is the price she is paying for thanking. We can see what has happened due to her gratefulness. Mangala deserves ten more slaps and more than that for what she's doing.

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Posted: 10 years ago
#27
Slaps is out of the question. Both Mangala and Anandi need something else. There is a big cat escaped from cage is waiting to take advantage of their differences and Nimboli will be the target.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I'm waiting for the cat to come and start meowing. Mangala needs it badly. She was at her best behaviour with him around
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Posted: 10 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: fast trak

I'm waiting for the cat to come and start meowing. Mangala needs it badly. She was at her best behaviour with him around



Choice is between civilisation and barbarism. Mangala's loyalty is with the barbarians who will believe her devi act and be fooled by her. Here she has to play a passive role.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves



Choice is between civilisation and barbarism. Mangala's loyalty is with the barbarians who will believe her devi act and be fooled by her. Here she has to play a passive role.


In order to make her passive the barbarian is arriving 😆

But only worry is the tornado will dewtroy a lot of other things as well.

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