Complex situation - Note pg 8 - Page 5

Originally posted by: libsrocks

Being good might be better than being evil but it's definitely not betterbthan being stupid and absolutely dumb!

Poor sweet Anandi can never see any evil in world! That's a bit weird considering she chose a work to eliminate evilness from society!

Saanchi's parents knew Saanchi more than Anandi but one also needs to consider that, at the end of the day, a sight of a parent is slightly clouded compared to any outsider! Anandi's sight wasn't clouded by any love for Saanchi. She could clearly see Saanchi's stupidity so why did she not think of letting Saanchi's parents know the whole truth and handle the girl? Please don't tell that Ira did not believe in Anandi! It was Anandi's fault that led Shekhars, even Shiv, to not trust her during court case drama! Saanchi had proof to prove her lies but Anandi had half-baked truths and insensible monolouges to explain herself!

Less said about DB's issue, the better! Every siblings tends to have rivarly! When you cannot see a solution to remove the problem, you try to eliminate the reason at least! Anandi stopped Shiv from taking actions otherwise that smart guy could easily see the problem and it's solution!

The truth is that Anandi is an completely unrelatable character! Not every Indian woman can do extraordinary stuffs like her but they are definitely smarter than her!

Originally posted by: SPuja

Anandi just had to tell the parents what J thought of Sanchi - Jagya told Anandi that Sanchi is badtameez way before Sanchi expressed her desire to marry Jagya. And she could have told J and family also before going with Shakhers with Sanchi's rishta that she does not think this alliance is good. Anandi lets the problem to escalate and people to suffer - perhaps creatives think the bigger the problem becomes - the more credit their lead will get for solving it - no matter it was the lead who allowed the problem to become big.

Looking at BV's popularity, our viewers are exactly as stupid as CVs think of them to be! That's one of the issue of our Indian viewers! They never question the contents unless it involves vulgarity! Even insensibility is okay for them as long as they get entertained by it! We, forum members, try to see how better things could be if Anandi had acted smartly! Otherwise, non-internet viewers just accept her the way she is and never question her decisions!

I think anandi responds to physical evil. She does not respond to emotional evil the same way. She wants to respond to emotional evil by being good and kind to them. But that does not work most of the time and the problem multiplies. Only dadisa types can deal with emotional evil smartly and effectively. But Anandi's motto seems to be Dont hear evil, dont see evil, dont talk evil.😉

The serial is watched because of habit and other serials are not anything great.
Meanwhile Anandi will emotionally torture us.😆

It is not about evil even. It is about telling the truth mostly. A lot of people suffered during Sa-Ja and all that could have been avoided had Anandi told the truth of what J thinks of Sanchi to Shakhers and to Singhs and J also that she is not for this rishta.

Originally posted by: SPuja

It is not about evil even. It is about telling the truth mostly. A lot of people suffered during Sa-Ja and all that could have been avoided had Anandi told the truth of what J thinks of Sanchi to Shakhers and to Singhs and J also that she is not for this rishta.

Why she hid the truth of Nandini from Shivam is not understandable - and then he did not know that he has a sister for 11 long years!! Perhaps Amol did not live with them because Amol knew about Nandini and he could tell Shivam about Nandini - or was it Anandi asked Singhs and Amol not to disclose existence of nandini to Shivam, Mannu, Abhi etc.?

Not telling the truth to Nimboli seems pure selfish - the girl is still living like some guest in BH, Shivam does not know his relationship with BH even though he has lived all his life (except for a few months) in BH...

Does this all matter? It's Anandi we are talking about! Whenever she does something, it's neither her fault nor her own decision! She will always be forgiven for her mistakes! Heck! Most of the time, we never see anyone point out those mistakes! All gets swept under the rug and Anandi gets unnecessary praise and sympathy!
Even later on, Amol, Shivam and Nandini will never blame Anandi for whatever happened in their life but if Mannu fails in his exams, Ganga is bound to be at fault for that!

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I think anandi responds to physical evil. She does not respond to emotional evil the same way. She wants to respond to emotional evil by being good and kind to them. But that does not work most of the time and the problem multiplies. Only dadisa types can deal with emotional evil smartly and effectively. But Anandi's motto seems to be Dont hear evil, dont see evil, dont talk evil.😉

The serial is watched because of habit and other serials are not anything great.
Meanwhile Anandi will emotionally torture us.😆

Anandi deals with Akheraj's and Ratan Singhs of the world in a much better way.She is not intimidated by their bullying tactics and aggressiveness.

Sanchi's parents grandfather and brothers have known her for much longer time than Anandi did.

What Sanchi's family did is not the question - what Anandi did is. She just has to tell the truth to both sides. Afterwards, it is Singhs and Shakher's own stupidity. Anandi came across some information - especially the strong dislike of the would be groom(J) towards Sanchi. But all she said was Sanchi is not suitable girl for J - why not tell what J thought of Sanchi? Similarly - when she went with Shakhers to BH with Sanchi's rishta - why not tell Singhs with a phone call that she is not for this alliance? How Shakhers were or DS was or Sanchi was is not related to this simple act. As a well wisher to Singhs and as a family member to Shakhers - it was Anandi's duty to tell this information. She did not and the result is - widespread suffering. A simple situation was made complex because of this deliberate hiding.