Complex situation - Note pg 8

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Both the kids erupted like volcanoes. Even I felt like shouting and screaaming. Shivam asked the right questions. It seems nothing moves anandi. She has become immovable.😉

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Posted: 10 years ago

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does shivam lack sensisvity ? when nandini suffering from fever there is no sympathy in shivam eyes for nandiini and why he is angry with nandini just because nandini is not kidnapp ?.what he want to say

even if shivam dint know that nandini is her sister but still his behaviour toward nandini is not right .he lacks basic humanity

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LauraM

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
Shivam's angst and jealousy came out fully. Why this partiality which is dividng brother and sister or two kids? Shivam needs more assurance and truth itself.

On the otherhand Nimboli crying and Mangala shedding a real tear for Nimboli. Mangala's patience broke when Nimboli came to her crying. Her anger was real.
And Nimboli's angry words. She suffered because of some wrong decision taken by anandi. Though Nimboli's anger was against Kanta, it could have been well against anandi too.

Precap. Dadisa coming to anandi's rescue and reminding Mangala who anandi is.

Complex situation complicated by keeping secrets.

Good to see Abhi after a long time. Sometimes or most times it is mannu.

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So Mangala can't stand to see Nimboli crying! Really?

But what happened to her compassion and love for the girl when she arranged the meeting with fake mother, when she asked that women to be rude to Nimboli? Nimboli was crying, she was in a state of shock, she even got a fever. Oh, yes, I remember, Mangala was worried, but she "bravely" withstood girl's suffering.

M was also very "brave" when Akheraj punished Nimboli for lying about attending classes in school. The punishment was really harsh, it was pure torture. Still, M felt hurt herself because girl didn't trust her enough to tell the truth, so she didn't want to help her. Oh, yes, she was worried back then too, but did nothing to help the girl.

Sorry, leaves, don't want to be rude to you, but M was shown so many times as insensitive to the pain of others. She can shed crocodile tears now, I'll be suspicious 😆

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Mangala's anger and tears has lost credibility because of her overall negativity.And anandi's silence is helping Mangala.

Edited by leavesandwaves - 10 years ago

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

#15

If Mangala had shown half of this aggression in Akheraj house while standing up for that child whom she considered her as her daughter all the eleven years this negativity from her would have been acceptable even if the methods she is using are not right.

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aparnauma

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Both the children don't know how secure their places are in Anandi's heart and life.

What is the point in keeping everything in heart and doing everything and giving them everything?

Why doesn't Anandi realise the need that sometimes feelings need to be expressed in words and not just actions?

Why can't Anandi tell Shivam that his place is his and N's places is N's?

While it is obvious that they are planning to reveal the truth in front of Nandini in a different way there is no logical explanation for why Shivam had to be kept in the dark about the fact that his sister is with them even if she doesn't know it yet?

When Singh Paivar and even outsiders like Anant are actively involved in the whole process why Shiam is not involved?

Immediately after finding the truth and before she managed to trace Nandni and Mangala it was understandable when she didn't want to reveal the truth because she wasn't sure whether she would be able to find Mangala and the child therefore not wanting to disappoint him.

Now what reason is there not to tell him?

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aparnauma

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If Anandi's slowness in taking control of the situation is frustrating Mangala's negativity is just spoiling the mood 🤢

Now it is becoming clear that Shivam's insecurity Nandini's confusion Anandi's hesitatiion that are driving the story of Anandi and her children so why so much of negativity from Mangala required?

It is clear that after the revelation of the truth for Nandini it is going to be tussle between CC who found her and made her feel good about herself and opened a new world for her and her mother Anandi who lost her as a result she had to suffer so much. So where is the need for Mangala's negativitty?

It is obvious that Mangala is made negative to make a story for the character itself. A positive Mangala has no story left They used her grey traits twisted the character and then bring it back to what it's been like where greys were concealed.Other than that there is no story for her.

But why direct that negativity towards a child and make it unbearable to watch?

Jagya and Gauri's negativity was not so bothersome because all three Anandi Jagya and Gauri were equals in most ways.Anandi was lagging behind both were eduaction was concerned and that she made up fast enough.

This Mangala is in no way equal to Anandi in any aspect and how are they expecting the viewers to accept these women as rivals?Mangala is not a rival but some one snapping at the heels of Anandi.It is a total put off.🥱🤢

It's high time they cut Mangala's crap and get on with Akheraj Vs Anandi which is much more interesting because Akeheraj is personification of everything that Anandi stands up against and Anandi is the symbol of everything that Akheraj is threatened by and therefore detests.

Anandi should be taking on the likes of Akheraj and not pulled back by the likes of Mangala.

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

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The issue is anandi waits until evil take its full form. If she had a strong will, she could have nipped it in the bud. Whatever the consequences, it would not have been more bad than this. This is not happening for the first time. In Sanchi's case, in DB's case, she allowed things to go to such an extent that Sanchi was almost destroyed and DB did maximum harm before leaving. Even in Gauri's case, she could have left when she sensed the betrayal. But she did not and made Gauri so insecure and so demonic. At that time one can excuse as Anandi was relatively young and confused. But afterwards?
Dadisa is telling Mangala what anandi herself should have told her. Mangala is sending so many signals about her intentions. If one does not read those signals, then what is the use of education and experience? And if she is deliberately ignoring those signals, is she not driving Mangala to commit more crimes which will affect Nimboli? And also Shivam and others?

They say prevention is better than cure.

Edited by leavesandwaves - 10 years ago

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aparnauma

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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
The issue is anandi waits until evil take its full form. If she had a strong will, she could have nipped it in the bud. Whatever the consequences, it would not have been more bad than this. This is not happening for the first time. In Sanchi's case, in DB's case, she allowed things to go to such an extent that Sanchi was almost destroyed and DB did maximum harm before leaving. Even in Gauri's case, she could have left when she sensed the betrayal. But she did not and made Gauri so insecure and so demonic. At that time one can excuse as Anandi was relatively young and confused. But afterwards?
Dadisa is telling Mangala what anandi herself should have told her. Mangala is sending so many signals about her intentions. If one does not read those signals, then what is the use of education and experience? And if she is deliberately ignoring those signals, is she not driving Mangala to commit more crimes which will affect Nimboli? And also Shivam and others?

They say prevention is better than cure.

The issue is Anandi is totally blind to Mangala's hidden malice and she is only seeing the so called love for that child.

She does take a long time to point a finger at someone.Don't think this is stupidity but being too cautious about interpreting motives behind the actons of a person.

Anandi was a victim of DB's viciousness but she did give a benefit of doubt from what she saw of DB.

All the intentions of these characters are more obvious to the viewers because they have been shown but not Anandi.

Anandi was victim of DB's maliciousness. But what about other Shekhars were they victims of DB or were they facing consequences of their own actions?Did DB create differences between Anop and Alok? No.She is making use of the negativity which they themselves felt for each other.

When Shiv and Anandi confronted DB what proof did they have to suspect her intentions?She told them that she gave that bhasm because she wanted Anandi to conceive.She never took to Amol because he was adopted so when she gave this reason why would they not believe?She never harmed anyone else in the family except taunting everyone every now and then.Family members with sharp tongue are not a rarity

Sanchi never listened to anyone and wasbent on having her own way.

Gauri's insecurity is because of her husband who still harboured a soft corner for his legitimate wife probably combined guilt and less to do with what Anandi did or didn't do.Didn't Jagya leave the family for Gauri?

All these three people caused a lot of harm to Anandi.

Why should Anandi leave Singhs place just because Jagya got himself a new wife when she had full legal rights? Why is Anandi expected to give up everything that she built for herself and the emotions she invested in her relationship with Singhs just because of Jagya?

Did she make any claims on Jagya as his wife for Gauri to get insecure?Vey funny . Jagyastrays and his legal wife gets blamed if his illegal wife is insecure.

Sanchi's case every one was wrong from her parents who didn't put any sense in their girl's head to closing their eyes to her pretense.Parents Grand father brother everyone who knew her from birth bought Sanchi's act and Anandi is expected to pick up that?

Anandi knew Sanchi for only a few months then should she believe the family or what she saw of her?

Shouldn'tshe be sure of the facts before she told the family that their girl is rotten to the core?

Anandi can be faulted only for keeping both her children in the dark about their relationship with each other.

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fast trak

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Posted: 10 years ago

#20

That is just the way Anandi is as a person. Very much trusting and kind hearted. Sometimes so much goodness is irritating but it is definitely better than being evil.

Dadisa is always been a smart personality and always outspoken. She is easily able to tell off Mangala.. Anandi still believes that Mangala is her child's well wisher and hence doesn't want to offend her. I'm glad that dr Anant has decided to call the psychologist. He also senses something fishy . The thing that Anandi doesn't smell the fish is annoying.

Somehow I'm just waiting for Akhiraj to come out of the jail. All of Mangala's cunningness will vanish in an instance and she will become a mouse. But that is needed. Because ever since she has come to BH Mangala has got more smart and cunning. She was a mouse in Jhalra. Maybe it's the healthy environment and good food that has refreshed her brain cells 😆

I just want to see Akhiraj come out and I'm sure he will be the one to disclose the truth to Nimboli. After that I want to see Mangala's face. How conveniently she is keeping the child away from mother and her brother. She won't get a place even in hell.

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