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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

who is saying to anandi should just overlook nidhi drinking alcohol v want proper guidance for nidhi instead of giving only punishment to nidhi and nidhi already decided to leave alcohol then why anandi still want to punish her only ? nidhi want to correct her mistake she has give up drinking alcohol but anandi only want to give her punishment this is wrong part of anandi



Well said , surabhi.

It is really surprising that just to defend anandi, we are being targetted as supporting alcoholism of Nidhi or soft pedalling the issue.

It is nothing but twisted logic.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#52
Argument goes both ways.
Anandi does wear multiple hats

Alcholism - here involves an underaged kid procuring it by illegal means - and it is not just about alcohol it is about exhibiting deviant behaviour under stress.
Tomorrow under stress she might take to some other habit too

As a principal it is her duty to see that she gets punishment for breaking rules and ensure that her mother knows what her kid is upto.

As a social worker if the mother requests her for her help she can help

As for erring family members - how to handle them - trying to see the error of their ways and help them mend their ways is the responsibility of the family primarily and if the family fails in doing so either the law enforcement authorities or social service agenecies should take it up.

In fact making their erring family members correct their ways is the responsibility that the family has towards the society.

So helping her mend her ways is Nidhi's mother's responsibility and she is free to ask Anandi's help.

Strange to see people who equated turning up late to school or not doing home work to being caught consuming alcohol in school premises changing their tunes too.

Anandi realised that the kid has problems at home so is that a reason to deny admission to a kid in school?

Strange to see people saying that a person who indulges in illegal activities like buying booze should be allowed to get away with a warning.If that kid is not made aware of how bad the consequences will be through demonstration how will they know?

Actually Anandi should have called the police straight away because she was caught with alcohol which is a legal offence at her age.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anandi should have called the police!ROFL!

She is the one who protects criminals in her family and reforms them without police help.

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Posted: 10 years ago
#54
Or anandi should have cutoff the girl's tongue so that she wont consume alcohol in future. and also her hands. Why police? In anandi's raj she is the police, judge and jury.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Making sure criminals in the family mend their ways is the responsibility of the family towards the society
She atleast tries to reform them unlike a lot of others for example Alok who tried to shield his brother from the law 😛
Anop was handed over to law DB so was Basant when he tried to use his position as a strong man in village and trampled on workers rights if people don't want to remember them then that's too bad.
The same Anandi who forgave J for cheating her and made sure his education went uninterrupted ensured that he was puished for stealing food from a poor farmer
Same Anandi told the court how Sanchi duped everybody during that suicide and engagement case😛
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Reforming Nidhi is the responsibility of the people who gave birth to her and if they ask for help she will surely help them as a social worker




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Posted: 10 years ago
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Same old argument
I am out of here.
You can only wake up a person who is sleeping .

One can help people who want to see but cannot see and one can't help someone see when they don't want to see.

Now I have come to the conclusion that Anandi was too soft on that kid - she should have called the police and handed her over to them because she technically is juvenile offender why did she call the mother at all?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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You can only wake up a person who is sleeping .

One can help people who want to see but cannot see and one can't help someone see when they don't want to see.

This argument works both ways.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Poor Nidhi is getting the harsh treatment just because anandi must be supported at all costs.

Anandi should have called police so many times before but she did not. Now she should do with retrospective effect. Even her father should be arrested for that child marriage along with Bhairon and DS.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Eight year old girl is expected to call police and hand her father over to them 😛
People just ignoring the juvenile delinquency which is far more damaging to that girl and feeling sorry for that girl who is just sitting in the hot sun at her own insistence and expecting the girl to be forgiven for her her criminal behavior are people who don't want to see the real picture.

Just throwing away bottle of alcohol is convincing proof?

Alcoholics are known to throw away the bottle and swear that they don't drink time and again.

The fact that she concealed this habit at the time of admission is not a grave offence.

Everything will be fine if someone patted on that girl's back and say don't do this again😛

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Posted: 10 years ago
#60
nidhi is 16 year old .can she land in jail ? .can below 18 child go to jail

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