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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

Shiv has to die to make anandi look like a strict woman.

Shiv has to die to make anandi take a serious fulltime career.

Shiv has to die to make anandi the sole heroine deciding everything.

She treated Sanchi with kidglvoves when Sanchi wore short dress, drank, lied etc.
Now the same anandi is making Nidhi to sit in direct sunlight until her mother comes.

Anandi forgave DB for graver mistakes because she was elder woman of the house. And Sanchi is her sister in law.

Family is always right or treated with kidgloves, anandi?

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

Life teaches everybody through tough lessons.

Don't think it has got anything to do with apna praya.

Infact Anandi forgave DB for only things that she has done to her but she never forgave her fo insulting Shiv.

DB was begging them not to tell anyone else. Shiv decided to keep quiet because Anandi requested him. This same DB was insulting Shiv for listening to wife's words and dancing to her tunes in front of the family that's when she told Daddu what this lady had done.

What did Sanchi do to Anandi except for being a nuisance?She brought more pain to her own parents with her behavior and all the troubles she invited upon herself with her own stupidity.

Nidhi and her mother resembled Sanchi and Ira. Sanchi's parents gave in to Sachi's stupid wishes because they couldn't cope with her stubbornness.

Here Nidhi's mother is doing the same with Nidhi.

What Anandi learnt by observing Sanchi and her parents is putting it to practice now.

If family has been treated with kid gloves Anop would not have gotten into jail at all. She is the one who gave information to police on Anop's activities.

Anandi only forgives who hurt HER but doesn't forgive people who hurt her loved ones or who hurt innocent people or people who are weaker than them.

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

Making Nidhi sit under the sun for several hours is right?

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Posted: 10 years ago

I think anandi should have lessen punishment of nidhi when she come to know nidhi broke liquor bottle .
btw did anandi give warning to nidhi for once ? or anandi just give straight punishment to nidhi ?

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves
Making Nidhi sit under the sun for several hours is right?

Making her stand in the sun may be a harsh punishment but the approach is right.

But the girl needs to be handled in a tough manner.

It has got nothing to do with apna or paraya.

She is not only harming herself but with her disruptive and disturbing behaviour she could influence other kids too.

The mother of the kid also needs to see her kid's behaviour . What the kid has done is no small thing . Under aged kid has alcohol in her possession which is dangerous to the kid as well as illegal . The consequences of this kid's behaviour are way too damaging infact lot more damaging than just fainting because of hot sun.

Compared to what her life would have been if she was not caught this is minor difficulty though I think it was tough and harsh.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: surabhi01
I think anandi should have lessen punishment of nidhi when she come to know nidhi broke liquor bottle .
btw did anandi give warning to nidhi for once ? or anandi just give straight punishment to nidhi ?

A kid caught drinking alcohol cannot be dealt with warning alone even if she is caught for the first time.

How did she get that alcohol in the first place?

She must have stolen it or bought it by lying about her age

She must have been doing it for a long time before she got caught

This requires immediate strict action in the interests of that kid that includes tough handling as well as getting necessary help and not just warning.

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

Actually it is knee jerk reaction of punishing. What if the girl died due to heatstroke?

Two wrongs does not make one right.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 10 years ago

Knee jerk reaction?

It is quite shocking thing to discover a kid drinking alcohol . It is a result of series of offences that brought the kid to that stage.

The kid needs to be handled toughy . It should be made clear to her that breaking rules is not acceptable.

First handle her firmly and then give her the necessary help she needs to mend herself .

Compassion alone won't help . She is here because she wanted to have her own way with her parents but if she thought she could have her way in school then she should be shown that it is not possible.

If Anandi has been harsh she would have thrown her out and told her mother she thew her kid out of the school

But she told the kid to wait for her mother and told the mother to pick her up she didn't tell the kid to sit in the sun she only told her to wait at the gate.

The kid chose to sit in the sun as was evident from Dsa and Sarita's words . The kid probably was trying to EB them by punishing herself.

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Posted: 10 years ago

did anandi ask nidhi why u r drinking alcohol. did she try out find out reason nidhi being a alcoholic person

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Yes, it is a kneejerk reaction.

Girls in hostels drink, do drugs, have lesbian relationships and get pregnant too.

Counselling should take precedence over punishment.

The girl sat under the sun because she was thrown out.

Previously anandi slapped that dance teacher and I assume that was also a knee jerk reaction.

Anandi is unfit to be a proper social worker. She needs to know certain rules. There is a rule book.

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