Originally posted by: SPuja
@bold - that was Anandi's mistake during Sa-Ja track, that is where Anandi went wrong. I don't think she told everything about J to even Shiv or Shakhers - even if Sanchi would not listen to her or would not have believed her - at least Shiv had the right to know the man whom his sister was going to be married. At that time even forum members were of the view that Anandi has moved on and she no longer thinks about that past. So what if she had moved on - another girl was going to marry that very guy and the least Anandi could do was to tell the truth about J. Here the problem with creatives is once they show someone as redeemed - all his/her past misdeeds get wiped out (as was evident in Anandi's certificate in court case). What creatives wanted to show is since J has redeemed, his past misdeeds can be hidden from his future wife mostly because the future wife was a bad person (deceiving a bad person is OK).
Shiv knew about Jagya.He knew that he left Anandi for Gauri. and at the same time they knew that he was not right for Sanchi. Both tried to convince her that Jagya and she are wrong for each other.
Anandi clearly told her that the kind of life she wanted she will not get it with him and Shiv told her that changing herself for JAgya's sake will not work either.
She did not listen then Ira changed her mind wanted to try this proposal.
They all now that Jagya left Anandi for another woman.
While they believed that Jagya has changed they still believed that Jagya was not right for Sanchi and vice versa.
It is Sanchi's stubbornness that she knew the best and Jagya's misguided sense of sacrifice that led to tah.
Why blame Anandi for everything???
Sanchi never believed that her brother was head over heels in love with Anandi and that's why he married her
Why would she believe Anandi or Shiv if they tell that Jagya is the reason for failure of the marriage.
She rightly believed that J wanted a modern educated girl for a wife and that;s why he left Anandi.which was correct in any case
If Jagya had told her then there would have been some credibility to that at least in Sanchi's mind who thought Jagya was too good for the likes of Anandi.