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Posted: 11 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Neither Anandi nor Shiv tell Amol to take abuse from DB.

Thye told him in a non alarming way to steer clear out of DB's way.That's what parents should teach children stay clear out of paths that lead to danger.
They did not tolerate DB's nonsense when they came across her behaviour with Amol.They made it clear that it is unacceptable,
Now Amol also knows that he should not take this kind of behaviour and he knows that he should tell his parents.
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As for telling others to stand up for themselves and them not doing it
Anandi did tell Chanda to stand up for herself if she is feeling suffocated in her marriage if she thought her hus
Anandi did stand up for herself when it came to things that mattered to her .Standing up for truth is more important to her than her husband and family and she did.
Harmony and peaceful atmosphere was more important than petty egos when it comes to family life so she chose not to respond to Ira's Sanchi's nonsensical behaviour.
Coming to the present issue of Rasika - Anandi is taking her time to put up a fight but she will put up a fight not just because it involves her husband but she knew that injustice has been done to him.
Anandi does stand up for things that are important to her.
Rasika


Exactly. Anandi stands up for justice when any grave wrongs are concerned. But she overlooks them in case of herself.

Why did they make Amol apologise to Dadibua? Will it not make him think that he was the one at fault?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Stooping low? Since when is having self-respect stooping low? Did I say Anandi should've played dirty games with her or created problems for her in the same way Sanchi did? Where did you get that from?

And who used the word "low life" for Anandi? I'm confused. You're not making any sense.

No body used it for Anandi,
How is Anandi expected to deal with a silly stupid arrogant creature like Sanchi with whom she has to live under the same roof???
You keep saying Sanchi created problems for Anandi how did those so called problems made any difference to the way Anandi led her life?
I still don't get this - how can somebody behaving arrogantly towards you can make a difference to the way you look at your life and your self respect?
How did Anandi's self respect get compromised by Sanchi's attitude towards her?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#73
I think I answered that a lot of times in almost every post of mine. Please go through them minutely. I'm sure you'd get answers.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: krystal_watz


Exactly. Anandi stands up for justice when any grave wrongs are concerned. But she overlooks them in case of herself.

Why did they make Amol apologise to Dadibua? Will it not make him think that he was the one at fault?

Did Anandi and Shiv give that impression to Amol???
They were just teaching him to keep that cranky old lady in good humour.
It was quite clear in that scene where Amol went to give her rose and that was enough to soften the lady and keep her in good humour.
It is important to teach kids to how to handle different human beings.
Now he knows what to do with that lady when she troubles him
Where exactly did she over look in her case?
Didn't she fight back in Jagya's case? He made her feel that she is inferior to him and not worthy of him and what answer she gave him in the end? The same man who discarded her like tissue paper stoop to unthinkable depths to have her back in life.He will always regret losing someone like her.
Didn't she show Jagya Gauri Sanchi Ira and all the others what she is made of without ever wasting time fighting with them?
Bursting vocal cords saying that they don't care to be insulted is not the only way
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i never came to know when "Nandu misusing Jagya's power" , this thread also got converted into "who is better...Jagya or Anandi"
Why it is necessary to drag Anandi in each & ever thread...when the thread was meant to discuss for story involving other character's🤔

anyways...if people want to discuss only about her & her life .
Then Me too agree that Anandi hasn't committed any blunders which has caused people shame, heart attack, or death.
& her trying to have a good relationship with Sanchi is same as she was good to Gauri.
& infact Sanchi havent done anything as bad as what Gauri had done to her.
So if she was cordial to her...then i wont mind her attitude with Sanchi.
As for forcing herself on Sanchi...i dont think so.
She is the DIL of KB Knowing Ira's nature...if she would have avoided/boycotted Sanchi & would have stopped looking after her or her matters...then She would have tagged as irresponsible Bahu who dislikes her Nanad and thus avoiding her.
Same with DB...Anandi & shekhars are giving back to DB from time to time...she later apologizes to her ...as she dont want her to hold any grudges & thus further destroying the harmony of the house.
And after an argument & w/o apology, i dont think DB will listen to Anandi who always wanted to make people consider other person's perspective also before making any judgement or decision.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: atominis


She keeps going to others because she considers them family and wants to connect with all.

Being silent in taking abuse was wrong.

Biggest mistakes were to cover up blunders of DS and Jagya in past.

She is passive. But never went out blundering herself.



@ bold - Very well said. Shiv has done a lot for her. If she wants to do something for him - like tolerating and trying to be nice to his crazy sister, that is no crime.

I don't like the way she is making her son take abuse from an old wretched woman, who has got nothing to do with them though.
Edited by The_Alchemist. - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#77

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Anandi's actions incenced Sanchi to be more negative and self destructive???

Is that an excuse for Sanchi's actions???
Was it Sanchi's stupidity combined with arrogance that drove her to behave the way she behaved or Anandi's attitude and actions made her behave the way she did?


Anandi could have done one thing here. She should have told Sanchi about J's history or could have told Shiv to tell her. Sanchi would have happily thanked god for being saved and left him . She had such a different opinion on him which was never corrected by anyone including the so called redeemed man who was busy comparing her with his new found love Ganga🤢.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aashima.

i never came to know when "Nandu misusing Jagya's power" , this thread also got converted into "who is better...Jagya or Anandi"

Why it is necessary to drag Anandi in each & ever thread...when the thread was meant to discuss for story involving other character's🤔

anyways...if people want to discuss only about her & her life .
Then Me too agree that Anandi hasn't committed any blunders which has caused people shame, heart attack, or death.
& her trying to have a good relationship with Sanchi is same as she was good to Gauri.
& infact Sanchi havent done anything as bad as what Gauri had done to her.
So if she was cordial to her...then i wont mind her attitude with Sanchi.
As for forcing herself on Sanchi...i dont think so.
She is the DIL of KB Knowing Ira's nature...if she would have avoided/boycotted Sanchi & would have stopped looking after her or her matters...then She would have tagged as irresponsible Bahu who dislikes her Nanad and thus avoiding her.
Same with DB...Anandi & shekhars are giving back to DB from time to time...she later apologizes to her ...as she dont want her to hold any grudges & thus further destroying the harmony of the house.
And after an argument & w/o apology, i dont think DB will listen to Anandi who always wanted to make people consider other person's perspective also before making any judgement or decision.


@ blue - I think Anandi entered from the second page after my post😳. She is the lead in the serial as well as in the forum😆 .Neither the serial nor the forum can do without her


@red- A very good point! The very reason why I support her most of the times. 😃

Edited by The_Alchemist. - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: The_Alchemist.


Anandi could have done one thing here. She should have told Sanchi about J's history or could have told Shiv to tell her. Sanchi would have happily thanked god for being saved and left him . She had such a different opinion on him which was never corrected by anyone including the so called redeemed man who was busy comparing her with his new found love Ganga🤢.

True J never tried to correct her perception.
But Sanchi had her own take on Jagya Anandi marriage. She concluded that Anandi was a boring wife who couldn't fulfil his needs and that's why he left her.So what ever Anandi or for that matter Shiv told her she wouldn't have listened.
How would she have listened? She believed that Anandi and her Dadisa snared her brother who is a prize catch.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

True J never tried to correct her perception.

But Sanchi had her own take on Jagya Anandi marriage. She concluded that Anandi was a boring wife who couldn't fulfil his needs and that's why he left her.So what ever Anandi or for that matter Shiv told her she wouldn't have listened.
How would she have listened? She believed that Anandi and her Dadisa snared her brother who is a prize catch.


yeah true, knowing Sanchi, I too think she wouldn't have listened to Anandi's words. But J could have told her. Or at least Shiv. Telling her "the fact" is important. What she chooses to do later will be her Karma.

@bold - A part of it was true. Except DS, no one can clear Anandi off that blame cause DS knew that she was the only one who trapped Shiv. Yes she did trap Shiv.

Edited by The_Alchemist. - 11 years ago

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