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Yes, but all those resulted from Sanchi's actions. Sanchi and her craziness was at the root of it.

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Sanchi's craziness was the root cause for all the things that have happened and nothing to do with what Anandi did or didn't do to Sanchi..

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I am only saying that it is Sanchi's own stupidity caused everyone problems.

Whether this so called imposing herself on Sanchi by Anandi happened or not Sanchi would still be the same

It is her own inferiority complex wrt to Anandi that made her behave this way where as Anandi was just being herself she was not doing anything to prove or disprove.

Saying that if Anandi had not inflicted her presence on Sanchi things would have been different is not correct.

If Anandi ignored her also she would have caused problems. saying that she is being slighted by her

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It doesn't matter what Sanchi would've done afterwards, Anandi shouldn't have been so adamant on reaching out. It was neutrally tactless, and also disrespecting a person's wish when you continue to hover around despite their vocal objections.

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Strange. If somebody tries to reach out t the members of her newly acquired family it is wrong.

Numerous reasons are given for somebody's unreasonable behaviour which comes out of their own deranged thought processes and twisted way of looking at things and life

A person who is trying to figure out this lady in order to be able to co - exist peacefully in the family is at fault.

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If by "reaching out" you mean continuously hover over them, breathe down their neck and continue to be around them despite being told not to, then yes. Its a stupid, tactless and not to mention, self-degrading thing to do.

And where did I try to justify any of Sanchi's actions?

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Why should Anandi stoop down to the level of Sanchi and treat her the same way????

It was Sanchi who is feeling threatened by Anandi's presence and not the other way round.It was Sanchi who felt slighted every time her family praised Anandi it was Sanchi who felt inferior to Anandi for the reputation Anandi has in the society.

So who is a low life here? Sanchi or Anandi?

Anandi has her own place in the family.It is Sanchi who stood to lose a lot by shutting out Anandi because of her own insecurities.

Anandi didn't have to be nice to Sanchi but it is her nature to be nice and kind to everybody.

Just because a dog who feels threatened and by an elephant and starts barking at the elephant and the elephant ignores the barking doesn't mean that the elephant is feeling degraded but because it is too insignificant in it's perception

Any ways there are many ways of expressing strength and superiority being patient and kind to a person who is irritating and insulting is also a form of strength.

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Stooping low? Since when is having self-respect stooping low? Did I say Anandi should've played dirty games with her or created problems for her in the same way Sanchi did? Where did you get that from?

And who used the word "low life" for Anandi? I'm confused. You're not making any sense.

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Neither Anandi nor Shiv tell Amol to take abuse from DB.

Thye told him in a non alarming way to steer clear out of DB's way.That's what parents should teach children stay clear out of paths that lead to danger.

They did not tolerate DB's nonsense when they came across her behaviour with Amol.They made it clear that it is unacceptable,

Now Amol also knows that he should not take this kind of behaviour and he knows that he should tell his parents.

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As for telling others to stand up for themselves and them not doing it

Anandi did tell Chanda to stand up for herself if she is feeling suffocated in her marriage if she thought her hus

Anandi did stand up for herself when it came to things that mattered to her .Standing up for truth is more important to her than her husband and family and she did.

Harmony and peaceful atmosphere was more important than petty egos when it comes to family life so she chose not to respond to Ira's Sanchi's nonsensical behaviour.

Coming to the present issue of Rasika - Anandi is taking her time to put up a fight but she will put up a fight not just because it involves her husband but she knew that injustice has been done to him.

Anandi does stand up for things that are important to her.

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You don't seem to understand two things:

--Nobody is blaming Anandi for Sanchi's inherent behavioural problems.Or saying that Sanchi wouldn't have been this way if it were not for Anandi.

-- Wanting to reach out doesn't mean literally forcing somebody to accept you. Embracing somebody in a bear hug when the other person is struggling to break off. Here the problem is not wanting to reach out, but the WAY in which it was done.

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