Equation between Jagya & Anandi - Anandi One smart lady(Note-Pg4)

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Posted: 11 years ago
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What would be the equation between Jagya & Anandi



I know this BV i a fiction. However I wa wondering what would be the equation between Jagya and Anandi if they really exist.

In real life we define the relationhip between a young man and woman as follow.

1. Sibling: Love with no sexual fantasy
2. Friends: Love with no or may be sort of sexual fantasy
3. Lovers/Partners: Love with sexual fantasy

So which one is applicable to them? 😕

We all know that Jagya and Anandi were in love some day and had consummated their marriage. So now even if they have different partners now, what would be their feelings for each other? Is is siblingship? If so, why she gets a Jhatka when someone asks her "Is he your brother?". She could have simply said YES.

I find this as a puzzle. Even in abroad I have seen people mingling up with their ex, but not to this extent. Even then their current partners do not like it. I know none of us might have passed through such a situation. Hence it's difficult to read Anandi and Jagya's mind.

What you say people?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Acc to me ...friendship with platonic affection ...being an Indian and culturally conscious ...can't say Platonic Love ! Yes ...it is a unique friendship ...there is no defined feeling in our society ...for that matter ...anywhere in the world !---because curiosity , taboos , stigmas , idiosyncrasies associated with this type of relation ! But certain feelings are beyond expression Debbee !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sibling is a no no. Friends is the only applicable term.

I feel they interact too much for exes. And the way Anandi still addresses him by his nickname "Jagya" is not proper. They should maintain distance, avoid talking much about each other, avoid interfering in each other's personal matters, stop referring to old memories and definitely stop using nicknames.

Anandi's marriage to Shiv was still new when she kept thinking of Jagya and later also took on the mission of bride hunting for him. Jagya was also comparing other girls with Anandi. How correct this is? At this rate JaAn should never have separated then!

Yesterday the public would not have gotten so easily swayed by mischief makers if Anandi and Jagya had been accompanied by DS, Bhairon, Sumitra and/or more importantly their current spouses Ganga and Shiv. The way Anandi roamed with Jagya, the conservative villagers would not like it.

People had raised questions at Ganga also when she used to move around with Jagya. Ultimately she married him, no?
Jagya in college was friends with Gauri. They married too!
People had raised objection to Anandi and Shiv meeting each other too much. They also ended up married to each other.

How can they not help suspecting "locha", affair or romantic relation between man and woman then?

Even if BV CVs are trying to give message that men and women can be friends or colleagues, still Anandi and Jagya, an ex married couple are not a good example of it.
The same CVs always got men and women married or sleeping together (Mahi-Ashima) after they met each other, bonded or even exchanged pleasantries with each other. They always reinforced that men and women cannot be just friends. What message will they drive now?!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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For me it's hard to say.

I don't know if I can call them friends. Friends could be strong close friends, casual friends, colleagues or mere acquaintances.
J-A do not fall in any of the above category.
I have often seen exes having cordial relationships with each other. In cases where exes share common children, they tend to interact more and is acceptable to their current partners too, but Anandi seems to have slightly higher (uncalled for) involvement in J's life.
I sometimes feel that even if Anandi wants to continue being the beti of Singh parivaar, she should only maintain cordial relations with JaGan. She calls J as Jagya in front of everyone including Shiv and Ganga. She should now revert to calling him Jagdish or Dr. Jagdish.
I kind of don't mind their relationship but personally I don't appreciate it much either. I think they shoudl maintain more distance
Edited by Missesha - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Their relationship looks WEIRD tbh! 🤢 I really don't understand, Anandi can consider BH has her Maayka and all, But she can just exclude Jagya/Jagan from this..Just be cordial with him like a person is generally with his/her ex.. This 'Jagya tum...' 'Jagya Ko...' nonsense is unrealistic! And looks so IMPROPER. I really wish Shiv wasn't THIS nice in such aspects..even the KB wasis! Normally, they should have had reservations in An-Jag interactions..But they on the other hand went two steps ahead and fixed their daughter's alliance with their DIL's EX! 🤢 If this was not GROSS then I don't know what was !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Jagya n Anandi's equation or bond just cant be compartmentalised... its too complex to be explained in a word... has an entire barrage of history that needs to be looked into n even after that with the current proximity every logic will be thrown out of the window... distance would definitely have made things simpler to explain n would be welcome n real too... I dont actually mind them like this but distance would be more practical...

They dont fit into any of the aforementioned categories for me... even friends... no they have too much between them to just be friends...yes exes can be friends but they dont continue mingling the way these two do...

They have moved on in life but this khas dost syndrome is pretty glaring.. Anandi calling him Jagya might be due to habit n old habits die hard but it definitely carries a touch of affection that existed previously between them for me n I guess others too... wont call it not happening but it is puzzling to many for sure...

Guess we have to accept them just like that... kacche umar ke pakke rishte... is the line that sums up their bond pretty well... well I dont make a lot of sense but heck these two have me confused...kya karun...😳
Edited by sneha02 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I don't know.It is very difficult to say.
One thing - they are not just EXes.They grew up together. Way before they became husband and wife in the real sense they became friends.

When Anandi talks about her child hood Jagya will always be there in them Her childhood memories will automatically be followed by memories of Jagya as her husband.
While their friendship has been the best part of her otherwise bleak childhood her years of youth have been marred by his betrayal and his abandonment of her.
So how is she supoosed to view him?
Carry the best part with her and be friendly with him for the sake of the friendship they shared or just remember the part about the way he betrayed their friendship and abandoned her and cut off her contact with him

Or be cordial to him because his parents have been her parents too and at point they loved her much more than they loved their own son but if she comes in contact with him what should she go by?The pleasnat memories of child hood or the bitter memories of her youth?

Jagya for him she was the best play mate he ever had she was there for him looked out for him and pulled him out of every trouble he got himself from the days of his childhood.
On attaining youth in all his youthful arrogance and immaturity he betrayed their friendship as well as abandoned her for some other woman lateron he repented for the way he treated her and he has regrets about his past because of his behaviour he lost her.

For him child hood days with her were blissful as well as bitter too because he was constantly compared with her by his parents which led to resenting her subconsciously.
Because his parents his path will cross with hers.Should he look at her as childhood companion with him he was always compared against and was made to feel small or consider as someone precious whom he has lost because of his fault?

She has moved on completely because she has no regrets about past he has moved on but is regretful about his past .


I think all these things will come into their equation.

This is just my rambling and what are all the factors went into their relationship from childhood days till now.

I don't think this equation between the two will ever be clear cut.



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Edited by aparnauma - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think it is not friendship but attachment ..
Anandi cannot forget her past and even jagiya ..
Shiv told her go to jaytser she could even say no but she told yes ...
I think it is she is still attached with her past ...I cannot forget it ..

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Posted: 11 years ago
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They are just obsessed with each other and like to stay in each others presence always. Two divine souls should have stayed together as husband and wife and served Jester with DS's blessings🤢
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Anandi forgot or has no attachment with Bilaria and her natal family even though she lived with them for 8 years before her child marriage and 5 years later (her teens till she turned 18). But she has attachment with Jagya who was not with her for another 5 years when he went out to study (besides cheating on her, abandoning and maltreating her?). Kamaal hai!

BTW, CVs made Sanchi fall for or men fall for her or get close to her in sexual manner whenever she came across any man other than Shiv bhaiya and Mahi bhaiya. Ganga married Jagya, was harassed sexually by Bala (all this after she escaped from her abusive husband Ratan). The show itself has been rigid in comparatmentalising man-woman relationships then with what face are they trying to give a message now?

There is not a single instance in BV in which men-women were simply friends, colleagues, mentor-mentee without being romantically linked or doubted to have a liason.

What did Anandi tell Amol about where she was going? For whom she was going? What has she told him about Singhs? And what have JaGan told Mannu about how to address Anandi? How do they explain to their kids what the relationship is?!

I feel Anandi feels too indebted to DS and cannot disobey her. DS usually calls her for laadesar issues. From childhood till now, it's ingrained in Anandi's mind to help Jagya as per shiksha given by DS.

Anandi never visited her father. I doubt if she would ever go out for a trip related to her work leaving Amol, Shiv and family behind (especially so soon after the trauma that Amol has recently gone through). But for ingrained absolute submission to DS she will forget everything and go!

Singhs maybe maayka but Jagya is surely not her brother!

Anandi herself does not realise what risks she takes and how far she goes in her blind obedience to DS. Surprising she disobeyed her "request" to return to Jagya few days before her wedding! Else she'd have done that too!

I did not feel bad for JaAn being stoned or questioned. I only wish DS was there to see it and know how much trouble she is still causing in their lives.

(Attachment to Jagya is no reason. It's attachment or Stockholm syndrome w.r.t. DS. Anandi readily tells other women to lodge complaints and file cases against their husbands but spared Jagya despite having law and Bhairon's support by her side, simply due to fear of not offending DS who was looking shocked and with puppy eyes towards Anandi to spare her laadesar!)

I am sure if DS was not there then JaAn equation would be different.

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