Equation between Jagya & Anandi - Anandi One smart lady(Note-Pg4)

First Previous

Page

Next Last

Frequent Posters

SPuja

@SPuja

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

#41

The blunders that happened in Ja-An relationship can happen in any marriage - even if both husband and wife were adult during marriage. Anandi is wrong. Blaming bal-vivah is just a ruse to forgive and forget the cheating, bigamy and degrading a wife to break her self-esteem. Bal vivah can be said to be a culprit only to explain why Anandi feels so much for DS and badi haveli people. She was brought up there and was conditioned to obey DS and help Jagya in every possible way.

Quote

debbie

@Debbiee

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: Sheetsden

Why blaming shiv for not fulfilling anandi wish to have a baby. He was keen to have one from the initial stages of their marriage. It might be anandi who does not want a baby with him. She had physical relationship with both the husbands and not yet pregnant. Instead of leaving it to god's wish dialogue she should seriously go to a gynecologist and find ways to get pregnant. I have never seen her bothered or really give importance of shiv's wish to become a biological father to a kid. She is busy solving saanchi and ds issues.

I also raised my doubts in the following post Next Possible Track: Anandi's INFERTILITY http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3776900 long long back

However Anandi lovers chewed me like some bubblegum 😆

Quote

Looks like you are new here. Register for free, learn and contribute.

Awfulggt

@Awfulggt

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: atominis
Jagya was thanking both Ganga and Anandi for bringing his life on track.

Just happened to read this statement and it caught my attention! Actually he should thank Gauri. She was the one who brought him on track. 😆😆 Anandi encouraged his mistakes by covering up for him all the time. Of course that wasn't her fault...she was conditioned that way right from 8 years of age. Gauri too covered up for him a lot...but she did do some awesome things to set him on track. As for Ganga, I don't remember any incident where she was useful to him😕! She was always seeking for his attention, help and what not!

Quote

642126

Hibernated

Posted: 11 years ago

#44

I do not think all blunders by Jagya are just due to bal vivah only as Anandi or CVs (now) would say and wash off whatever that happened.

Even after divorce from Anandi and leaving Gauri, and returning to Jetsar, Jagya was planning revenge from Anandi, trying to break her marriage with Shiv. This has got nothing to do with bal vivah.

The real message about exes would have been through Gauri and Jagya. Anandi is brainwashed by DS and mild, she'd have been friends with Jagya any way. However, if Gauri had Jagya's kid and Jagya came to know of it and they had to bond over that kid despite all bitterness then it would be something.

Even Ratan has been thrown out of the picture in Ganga's life.

This show is nonsense! Tomorrow Sanchi will be playing bhabhi-devar games with Saurabh, forgetting and forgiving that he raped her. This is mahaanta, this is how rishte should be according to gyan of BV.

I've seen exes connected to each other due to common kids. But JaAn's overdose of connection even without a kid is too much. It borders on outlandishness.

Anandi and Gulli talking of Jagya's good works and turning over a new leaf is fine, but that blame on just bal vivah is faltu. Lal Singh also had a child marriage yet he never did what Jagya did.

Still wondering what would Amol and Mannu/Abhimanyu call each other? 😆

Quote

SPuja

@SPuja

Rocker

Posted: 11 years ago

#45

Amol and Mannu/Abhimanyu can easily call brother to each other - it will be interesting to know how Anandi - Shiv and Jagya - Ganga are called by them.

Quote

Colt.Pixy

@Colt.Pixy

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 11 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: atominis
Jagya was thanking both Ganga and Anandi for bringing his life on track. CVs always keep him dependent on women - DS, Anandi, Ganga. Even had Gauri help him in college days. Tpp much dependence!
I liked how Gulli answered HS mischief makers today. Anandi's response was so typical, lame and ghisa pita! Blame val vivah. Forget all blunders committed even as adult!😆
Today Anandi and Jagya were sitting alone on terrace watching stars! 😆 Really CVs have shown such understanding that the only demerit of child marriage is underage pregnancies. Otherwise bonds are so deep!🤪

Good they were praising each others' spouses and not just talking of stars.

The way CVs bring it up again and again this show should be called Yeh Rishta kya kehlata hai!

🤣 🤣

Quote

aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: SPuja
The blunders that happened in Ja-An relationship can happen in any marriage - even if both husband and wife were adult during marriage. Anandi is wrong. Blaming bal-vivah is just a ruse to forgive and forget the cheating, bigamy and degrading a wife to break her self-esteem. Bal vivah can be said to be a culprit only to explain why Anandi feels so much for DS and badi haveli people. She was brought up there and was conditioned to obey DS and help Jagya in every possible way.

Blunders that happened would have happened with adults too

The fact is they were too young just 18 years old when they had to cope with long distance marriage.

Long distance marriage is tough on fully grown up adult men and women how are two teenagers expected to cope with a long distance marriage and not just that communication gap.

After going to Mumbai his world became too wide and hers is way too narrow she couldn't understand the pressures he faced in the big world out there and he was too impatient to understand that she is inexperienced to the ways of the world around him.

All this combined with his growing attraction towards Gauri made things worse.

Had they been little older and a little mature they would have able to handle things better.

I think Sumi and Bhairon also should be blamed for the failure of JaAn marriage

They never sat them down and had a talk with them about how to cope with marriage.

His wanting out of marriage was not wrong but I don't think she excused all his other mistakes like adultery and bigamy. She said he made mistakes but he learnt from his mistakes.

Quote

Awfulggt

@Awfulggt

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: Debbiee

I also raised my doubts in the following post Next Possible Track: Anandi's INFERTILITY http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3776900 long long back

However Anandi lovers chewed me like some bubblegum 😆

That link is not opening. That statement is funny though LOL😆😆😆

Quote

642126

Hibernated

Posted: 11 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: SPuja
Amol and Mannu/Abhimanyu can easily call brother to each other - it will be interesting to know how Anandi - Shiv and Jagya - Ganga are called by them.

Jagya is mama and Anandi is bhua? Is this why they made Sugna disappear? 😉