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Posted: 12 years ago
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CM gave Shiv to Ira for her survival in emotionality , it was indeed a great sacrifice , but do you feel somewhere that she did wrong to Shiv though it was a sacrifice ,
do share your views 😊

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Creatives did not give any explanation why CM had to do such sacrifice - Ira was third time unlucky but was there any danger of her death etc.? It was too much coincidence that just like Kalyani devi and her jethani - here also devrani-jethani delivered on the same day. Shiv deserved to know the truth and Alok-Meenu were heartless when they did not tell him even after seeing him in so much pain. Shiv did not deserve the slap for this.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Meenu obviously didn't think this through properly, yes she felt for ira but didn't think of the effect it would have on her own son if he ever found out. I know a couple who couldn't have children, the man's brother and sister in law agreed to give them their baby as soon as it was born, the couple looked after this child as his parents for two years and then the birth mother wanted him back so they took him back. That kid had more love towards the childless couple than his own parents because they missed out on those first two years where a bond was formed. I don't understand why it took her 2 years to want to take the child back after all the hard work the couple did. Yes meenu was there all the time but she still had restricted access, decisions about shiv were made by ira and alok, she was always his choti maa. Shiv at the moment feels like a object that anyone can own and his feelings don't count . A child will always want to be with their real parents if given the choice, truth is it hurts to be given away even if it is to your nearest and dearest.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Assuming Anoop Shekhar is dead, who might have done the last rites?
Mahi grew up as an only child. How much he would have wished for a sibling !

CM got emotionally tied up with Alok and Ira. She lost her freedom to move out of the house(incase if needed). CM lost her options.

Instead of calling it as CM's sacrifice, I will call it as CM's stupidity and Alok's over smartness.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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i am confused about it
i think what meenu did needs a very big heart since after that she never made ira and alok feel that they own her big...she always found shiv to be like anup but even after his death did not take him back which is indeed a big sacrifice
i ahve some points
maybe meenu thought it isn't a big deal since shiv is growing in front of her own eyes and she is even close to him
shiv had created close bond with meenu so she was satisfied with it and being a big hearted woman thought why mess up things when she is getting respect and love from her son like a mother
meenu's kindness made her take this step and that the only explanation i can find for now...she wanted ira's happiness and happiness in family so she may have given up her child
i feel everyone in this track is jsutified
meenu-alok kept quiet as whole purpose of this secret was to keep everyone happy
shiv is obviously disappointed becoz he was made to seperate from his own mother
ira is feeling betrayed becoz her husband lied to her, whom she thoguht was her own child was not actually plus now she feels somewhere she is the reason meenu was not able to get the pleasure of being mother of her own child
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I strongly believe intention can not justify the ways of execution !!!! Otherwise we have to face huge problems in life ! Imagine everybody acting in the best interest of others and secretly taking decisions on their behalf !!! A crime is a crime, there is no two way about it !



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: brick_red

I strongly believe intention can not justify the ways of execution !!!! Otherwise we have to face huge problems in life ! Imagine everybody acting in the best interest of others and secretly taking decisions on their behalf !!! A crime is a crime, there is no two way about it !




i agree with you to some xtent...alok and meenu did wrong by hiding such big truth from ira...they could ahve later on given shiv to her but i feel they have made this decision in hurry and need of time...they just did something and found that this is better than taking risk to tell ira the truth
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: brick_red

I strongly believe intention can not justify the ways of execution !!!! Otherwise we have to face huge problems in life ! Imagine everybody acting in the best interest of others and secretly taking decisions on their behalf !!! A crime is a crime, there is no two way about it !




@bold.. i have same openion...wen ur way of execution is not correct ,u will end up with worst ..even thgh intensions are good.. hiding things will never be good for all for all the time.. its always better keep the reality infrnt of everyone and allow everyone to face it rather dan breaking someones trust, &feelings ...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: libsrocks



i agree with you to some xtent...alok and meenu did wrong by hiding such big truth from ira...they could ahve later on given shiv to her but i feel they have made this decision in hurry and need of time...they just did something and found that this is better than taking risk to tell ira the truth


Even if the decision was taken in a hurry, there was plenty of time afterwards to reveal it to Ira. I feel Alok was a bigger culprit than CM. Atleast when Anoop died, Alok should have revealed the truth!! Alok thought only about Ira. But what about others? If somebody cries and somebody doesn't cry, only who cries should get everything??


I see from where Sanchi inherited her twisted logic. It is from Alok. The philosophy is - I want something for so and so reason. So I should get it by hook or by crook ! I don't care about the method, I only care about the end result. I don't owe anybody any apology, they should take it in its spirit ! I know I'm right, no matter what. I can bribe. I can lie. I can pretend. And I'll get what I want. !!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: brick_red


Even if the decision was taken in a hurry, there was plenty of time afterwards to reveal it to Ira. I feel Alok was a bigger culprit than CM. Atleast when Anoop died, Alok should have revealed the truth!! Alok thought only about Ira. But what about others? If somebody cries and somebody doesn't cry, only who cries should get everything??


I see from where Sanchi inherited her twisted logic. It is from Alok. The philosophy is - I want something for so and so reason. So I should get it by hook or by crook ! I don't care about the method, I only care about the end result. I don't owe anybody any apology, they should take it in its spirit ! I know I'm right, no matter what. I can bribe. I can lie. I can pretend. And I'll get what I want. !!!

yes dey r showing, if u cry .if shout, if u becme ziddi, den will get everything,...
if anyone r silent, &anyone are sacrificing something dat doesnt mean dey dont have any feelings ,dey dont get hurted by loosing something and others can make use of those sacrifises without even trying to understand dat person feelings..

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