CM's sacrifice - Page 4

Originally posted by: Skepblun

@Ashasaina and @brick_red - Agree with your posts.

@libsrocks

I feel Shiv was right in what he said. Alok was wrong. Wrong in what he did. Wrong in his silence. Wrong in his defiant attempt to feign denial even as truth was in front of him. Wrong in slapping Shiv. He could have shouted. But he had no right to slap him in such a state.

We can't blame only Anandi here as even Ira learnt truth from Sarla and came marching to know the truth. Truth and past can come out any time. Basant's truth had also come out no? Singhs thought Gudia chapter was over but years later their lives again got entwined as she came back as Gauri.

I agree it is too early to blame CM. But I blame Alok for sure. He was selfish.

I don't think CM could have EBed and pressurised Alok to accept her kid - UNLESS Anup had also been party to this. If she did this WITHOUT informing Anup or without his consent then she was definitely even worse than just wrong.

Anyway, history of Ira's pregnancies and miscarriages compared to CM's makes me wonder if Alok was so available to Ira and so much with her, while Anup was mostly away? 😆

@Libsrocks

I said Alok was with Ira. A lot. 😉

I hate Anandi's snooping around too especially if her husband and family are good. But if Alok was desperate to hide the truth then he should have never gone to that hospital function, or destroyed hospital records 30 years ago or got something else written there, got CCTV switched off when he came to hospital records room and arranged a flight for Sarla and escorted her out of Udaipur himself.

I don't think Sarla's death is connected to Anandi's snooping around. Sarla panicked because of Alok's pressure. I don't even think she needed to panic in front of Ira. Ira wasn't suspicious. And couldn't Sarla lie to Ira? What was the need to fear bumping into Ira? Ira wasn't even looking in that direction as Sarla!

Lastly I am in two minds over this. Don't husbands and in laws do total checking of girl and her family before marriage and often keep a check on wives even after marriage? Then what's wrong if wife wants to know something? Woman is part of family now. Does she not have rights to learn truth?

Why shoot the messenger? Anandi was just a catalyst for truth to come out. Even without Anandi truth would have come out one day.

Originally posted by: Skepblun

@Libsrocks

I said Alok was with Ira. A lot. 😉

I hate Anandi's snooping around too especially if her husband and family are good. But if Alok was desperate to hide the truth then he should have never gone to that hospital function, or destroyed hospital records 30 years ago or got something else written there, got CCTV switched off when he came to hospital records room and arranged a flight for Sarla and escorted her out of Udaipur himself.

I don't think Sarla's death is connected to Anandi's snooping around. Sarla panicked because of Alok's pressure. I don't even think she needed to panic in front of Ira. Ira wasn't suspicious. And couldn't Sarla lie to Ira? What was the need to fear bumping into Ira? Ira wasn't even looking in that direction as Sarla!

Lastly I am in two minds over this. Don't husbands and in laws do total checking of girl and her family before marriage and often keep a check on wives even after marriage? Then what's wrong if wife wants to know something? Woman is part of family now. Does she not have rights to learn truth?

I don't think Anandi went around snooping.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

I don't think Anandi went around snooping.

She over heard what nurse Sarla said to the other nurse and that disturbed her very much and she told her husband that she is disturbed about it and as usual her husband brushed away her concerns.

Then she let go of it.Happened to go to that hospital and she decided to check the records it was not a planned act on her part.She found what is written in the records.

Then back home she heard nurse telling that she was mistaken.It bothered her a lot because by then she came to the right conclusion and it worried her a lot because the truth which was buried has come out after so many years.

For her it didn't matter whether he is a Shekhar or not but she was scared what will happen to her husband if her he gets to know of it.

She needed some one to talk to about this.Meenu was totally adamant about it.If Meenu had been not so vehement about she would have felt reassured.

But later her husband learnt it from some other source that his wife knew something and not telling him.So he made her tell all this to him and he went on the mission of finding the truth on his own with his wife giving him all the support needed unquestioningly.

She would have never said anything if it were left to her.She was trying to find out the truth about her husband and she has every right to do so.

Anandi is definitely not the root cause but somebody's pathetic attempts at trying to bury the truth are the root cause.

Lets be clear about certain things !

Even if we argue that Anandi went out of her way and found the truth, actually what is problem with that?

How does it become wrong even if people say that she went out of her way to dig the truth.How does wanting to know something about her husband make her nosy???