What's wrong with a woman wooing a man? - Page 4

in city crech will take care of manu and if ganga continue live with bh then singh family will take care of manu while ganga work in hospital.court say then if child is up to 5 years then first right is of mother with child . and ds will remarry ganga

Nothing is wrong with a woman wooing a man provided her status is single/divorced.
ganga herself told so many times that the sole purpose of her being alive is for mannu. Now if she gives into her feelings she might loose mannu to ratan singh.

Love dont give appointment and happen but when it happens . one should use brain along with heart. I dont care about society and law system wont work. You live in a society and your are bounded by the law.

b comes after and c comes after b. Everything has a order in life. If one goes adventurous on society they alone have to bear the burnt of it. Never garn warth of the people. The same people who save you from your monster husband will also swear you if you love someone and express it without getting closure of your first marriage mess.

Again ia m saying now is not the right time for a love affair. sort things with ratan and get freedom and custody of mannu.After that no one can point fingers at her. If she jumps into love before divorce she will earn bad name for herself.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

in city crech will take care of manu and if ganga continue live with bh then singh family will take care of manu while ganga work in hospital.court say then if child is up to 5 years then first right is of mother with child .The Supreme Court of India has consistently held that in deciding cases of child custody 'the first and paramount consideration is the welfare and interest of the child and not the rights of the parents under a statute' (8). and ds will remarry ganga

if ganga start feeling love for jagya it does not mean that she will stop thinking about her career and stop care of manu ,she will give importance to both professional and personal life as well as take care of manu too

My answer in bold. iam not against ganga. she is sweet and good. I just dont want cv's to throw her into a stir fry and glorify that. A lot of people are watching. I would all of them to learn the fact that your child will get support from husband. Their is no way escaping that.but you just need to be righteous to fight the right for your child.

asha u r fearing for those matter which is not happen .and i least care what will society think about ganga and i hope ganga should least care of society that what will society think if she will fell in love with jagya.ganga will have manu

Surabhi mine are not baseless fears . I do say so cause i have reasoned out what will happen if she starts without closure. Laws have changed a lot. Initially they use to have that law that mother has the right on her baby untio 12 years but that was challenged and changed when women started to use their own children as weapon to torture their husband or ex - husband.

Coming to the society, we have to stay in a society not in a jungle. so whether we like it or not. We have to be in bound to the stipulations of the society. We can rebel against a person, or a custom or a bad pratice but we cant rebel against the society.

My sole point is let her get divorce and get mannu custody then their will be no more puzzles and mazes. Failing so the CV's are showing a very bad example for women like ganga.

There are so many good points to show for the betterment. Iam not asking them for a documentary. I am asking the cv's to show a path for such women, Clarify their rights. When ganga was introduced i had so many hopes thinking that they will show how women can approach law against their cruel husbands. of course with help of singhs. But Cv's stood only to glorify jagya there. Even after that they never show ganga's contribution to win her child's rights. They started divorce. Thats good but that wasn't granted. right?

Now the same mistake jagya did, he didn't end his relationship with Anandi and went with gauri. The same mistake of not ending a relationship before falling in love is being done by ganga as well. Admist all this she is not getting clearence on mannu's custody before all this love knots. She is complicating their situation even more.

Love and care. Who don't need them??? But is this the time to create a new relationship when the ruins aren't moved yet?? Even if she is in love now is not the time for her to ponder over it. Get mannu custody, get divorce, fight for mannu's rights should be her priority. She should only think of this as of now.

i dont care for society for raising such meaningless issue .if ratan does not give right of wife to ganga then who the hell is society to question about ganga character .now in ganga laws and ratan already abandon her and marry to another woman but ganga should not start loving with another man .why ?? i dont think so just because she start loving jagya she will loose manu .ratan will try to win case by hook and crook there will problem for ganga but at last ganga will win case

Originally posted by: surabhi01

i dont care for society for raising such meaningless issue .if ratan does not give right of wife to ganga then who the hell is society to question about ganga character .now in ganga laws and ratan already abandon her and marry to another woman but ganga should not start loving with another man .why ?? i dont think so just because she start loving jagya she will loose manu .ratan will try to win case by hook and crook there will problem for ganga but at last ganga will win case

May be its meaningless for you but for me it's not. i will never encourage any relation without closure of the previous one. It will be illicit as long as the legal one is alive.

Remember gawari was called mistress just because she didn't follow the society set of rules.

If ganga wont give two hoots for the society then she is unfit to stay in a society.
Ratan did marry another woman, that will be illegal and if ganga wants to press charges she can. But because ratan did it do not give her a free pass to do it.

Only a guilt free straight forward person can fight a monster who plays it by hook or crook. If you hung your heart to some doctors door then her fight will be with force not with heart and soul.

first of all ganga start loving jagya she has not married to jagya .and she will start new relationshp with new guy after divorce only if she does not want propure closure then why she is heading for divorce .this ratan will prove ganga characterless ok prove it no problem ganga he cant do anything except t blaming ganga .ganga lawyer can says ganga and jagya r just friend nothing else .but i dont think this will matter to court .infact ratan will go to jail for 7 years for bigamy if ganga filed case for ratan

Simple and straight .I don't like married and committed people falling in love before getting divorce. even society will laugh at such people who fall in love being married. In my village if women do such thing they have a entirely different name for it. I dont want that for ganga. She already had enough on her plate. better CV's concentrate on her getting out and gaining custody instead of showing her crying for jagya's marriage proposal.

Sumitra is not completely wrong. If ganga has somuch love for mannu so does sumitra have on her son. She and her family are good hearted people who tolerated ratans for someone who they have no relationship with. How would sumitra feel if makhan ever start loving there divorced Anandi?

She has no where to go, no food to eat ,no shelter to live but she is living under someone's meharbani and loving the master's son who happened to have a good heart and took care of her. She should be grateful that her son and she can eat food three times a day. Instead of gratitude she is having entire different set of feelings at improper time