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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashahai_aamanke

What is ganga doing now?? Trying to find out his status or find out if he divorced gauri or not??/


😕what kind of point is this ? Is Ganga sleeping with Jagaya or has she married him so how you are comparing them both ? and Jagaya and Gauri's relationship is not legal divorce is not required in that while Anandi and Jagaya's was and to Ganga Gauri has closed her doors for him otherwise why would devi maa not bother to know about her sacha pyar? why she didn't meet him neither replied his letter ? This is common sense to any person she is not interested in him because she has lost a challenge to his mother Jagaya is a very much single man for now not committed to anyone Gauri and his relationship was never legal and Gauri with her thrice rutheless rejections to him has proved to everyone its all over from her side despite he tried to talk to her but she is no way so which relationship you are talking about ? Legally, religiously and on social account their relationship was always null and void Did Anandi did same with Jagaya that made Gauri do whatever she did and their relationship was very much legal while same is not of Jagaya Gauri Your comparison of Ganga and Gauri is null and void


Even now jagat is some one 's husband or at the max living in partner. he did nt serve ties. This is definitely wrong Legally and religiously ,on social account every way so this woman on every account will be called bad charactered

show me which religion which law calls Jagaya as Gauri 's husband? and also show me which religion and law calls Ganga bad charactered for what she is doing i will accept my defeat Society my society doesn't call her bad character so which your every society calls her that ?

and Jagaya and Gauri's relationship doesn't need divorce and Gauri has removed him out of her life if she is so in relationship why not bother to set every thing with him instead of rejecting him out of her life ?On his own he went to her what she did ? seeing her reaction he has closed the ties when she ruthelessly rejected him third time Its over if tomorrow she will come lifting her face i want my relationship back i am his wife she will get nothing from every side nothing will stand in her support knowing truth so Jagaya is not committed to her if she has child child will get its right but Gauri cannot claim her rights forcefully because where the truth will come out of what happened between them how she has kept rejecting despite he went to talk with her and now after years she is saying i am his wife i want my right back then this is not some joke and law and society is not father's property who will stand in her support Its to up to Jagaya to give her anything or not she cannot forcefully claim

This is religiously , legally i am saying and Ganga is doing nothing wrong religiously , legally or all social accounts if she is doing show me that


She just stepping towards this i dont want to wait until she runs into it. I know cv's look into this forum. So i am protesting against what they are showing ganga as. She had a lot from her childhood, I just want her to walk in the right path by taking divorce gaining custody n be self sufficient and marry anyone she loves.


This is only your baseless fear this is no where she is stepping to neither it will ever happen and she is trying to settle down in her life and custody of child she will get she is doing everything for that where she is not doing anything for that ?come on for once you will try to see the serial and try to see it you will get the answer


Ganga calls jagya GOD. Then why is she crying so much when her god is getting married?? She missed one mark and crying endlessly and cant tell that to any woman in singh family who kept asking for reason???

she loves him thats why she was crying when you love someone you cannot bear to see that person to someone else thats we call human nature and she worships like a God she doesn't have bad eyes for him neither she is planning and plotting to separate him from Sanchi neither she is throwing herself upon him she is keeping her feelings to herself thats enough proof how much regard she has for him


Sumitra felt awkward when she saw jagya and ganga proximity but she didnt just observe?? I still believe she has chance to not give chance people to bad mouth her But once she cries and makes dull faces at jagyas acceptance to saachi people wont understand?? SAtleast people in haveli??


don't understand what kind of point it is ?

What will anyone think of her? We gave her shelter and she wants permanent residence. Its not late , Cv's should stop doing that to gangas character.
She was introduced as a strong woman but what they are showing now is not at all acceptable.


🥱out of my understanding ?she is the same character

and going by your points then Ganga can do one thing that stay single all her life because the great society where she lives doesn't afford a woman a mother of a child fall in love and marry she will have to face 100000000000000000 hurdles and questions so better stay alone character will be destroyed and she will to have hear and face a lot because society the great

You are too much over generalizing do sorry i will beg to differ with you completely Disagree

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks a lot everyone. I think I better leave this forum for good rather than saying what my opinion is.My opinion is something that is 🥱 😕.

I guess I am not welcome to say anything here. tears welled up my eyes and there is no point hurting myself for a fictional character.

Bye everyone. Enjoy your forum.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ashahai_aamanke

What kind of question is this??😆



The kind of point you posted so i have ask this question what is this ?😆


She is falling in love with him is that not good enough??? She has to sleep???😕

Falling in love is sinwho says that i have never heardnew theory


i I very well know that gauri is jagyas mistress so any woman who is used can be left like that after a couple of years usage???. Right now she is angry on him but later on if she comes with their baby whats the consequence??? IT is void??? It was a court marriage and there will be a due stamp on that .Does that mean anything???

he didn't use her and thrown the great woman out , she broke his trust shunned him thrice and why she is angry ? when wrong was she and is her father's property she keep on rejecting him and claim rights on him and child if there is bring it tell him has she died or her tongue has been cut down she cannot tell and the marriage is null and void That certificatie doesn't hold any importance as the marriage was always illegal



I wasn't comparing where did i say like gawari???

By saying when i said Ganga and Gauri are not comparable you are coming with point what she is doing now so what is it called


Hindu religion though their marriage is not legal they still married and lived as husband and wife under one roof.

there is no religion no society no law call it legal marriage madam just because living as husband and wife under one roof doesn't make you husband and wife especially when the person is already married to someone else 😆so which relgion you are bringing


Will is a future tense i didn't said a bad word but i said if she declares her love infront of everyone then she will be looked upon as ill mannered

have you seen future why making such assumptions she will be called ill mannered even when she will be divorced because society doesn't easily accepts a mother of child fall in love let say confess so better will she should shut up 😆





Why are your getting personal??? Where did i say ganga should never get married. Go to all my post beforehand and show me one place where i said that i said she needs to get divorced and gain custody be self sufficient and can marry anyone. Anyone includes Jagya.


I didn't get personal did i bash you 😲i am only saying as per your points only this will be story please don't take it way



I disagree with your tone of disagreement.

what did i say to you i am courteous enough to say sorry to you before disagreeing you are saying to me what ?

You are making me seem like i hate Ganga and I am bad mouthing her.I dont her way to taking up things. I told enough times I have my sympathy and i believe in her.

Then you are mistaking i never said that please you are taking everything wrong way


I really i am so bad.
come on where i said that 😕why you are saying this


I was in this forum for a while but none of the members were in this way to me.

this is strange you are making me feel i bashed you , abused you or was extremely rude to you only with my saying you are over generalizing ?


Sorry for hurting you. i am away from this.

well i am very sorry if i hurted to you but i never meant that you are mistaking me

Disagreeing is one thing and this is something entirely different.


i only disagreed with you can't i even do that you are emotional for nothing i am very sorry but i just don't know one thing about this forum why is that people take everything like this

ok i am very sorry keep saying whatever i won't say anything to you fine now cheer up i never called you bad i don't know you i have been on this forum for a long time and i am not bad or rude person i only differed with your points in all i no where called you bad

ok i am away keep saying whatever i am not here to hurt real people for a fiction if you are hurt with me i heartly apologize

i am out of this discussion


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Posted: 12 years ago
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@ashashai: Your points are actually invalid. Ganga's marriage cannot, CAN NOT be compared to a normal one. She was married off without her consent, raped, beaten and tortured all her life by a moster.

It will in NO WAY be immoral if she gets into a relationship now. As for society, who said that everything society did or said was correct? It's the same SOCIETY that did nothing to help Ganga when she was dying every bit each day. Why the hack should she care for an uneducated, backward Village Society.

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