What's wrong with a woman wooing a man? - Page 3

I cannot understand where this whole "wooing" issue came from anyway. If people actually think that Ganga is trying to "woo" Jagya they are just reading too much into what's being shown. She has not even declared or recognized to herself that "Yes, I'm in love with Daactarsa!" She is still trying to make sense of her feelings for Jagya, and why she feels this way. All that she cares about is Jagya's and the Singhs' happiness and she is trying her best to keep them happy. She doesn't see herself as Haveli's beendni or even as a potential partner for Jagya. She knows better than to think that way. She just has immense gratitude for the family who took in a helpless woman with a child and made her realize her dreams and gave new will to live.

@Shinya: You don't analyze and develop feelings. Secondly, Ganga ain't sitting idle and having rose-tinted romantic dreams, she's training hard to stand on her feet. I hope you agree.

ratan lawyer will try hard to demean ganga in any way no doubt but most important thing ganga should stand against all those humilation in court and i think she will .and can easily stand that humilation

Nothing is wrong with a woman wooing a man provided her status is single/divorced.
ganga herself told so many times that the sole purpose of her being alive is for mannu. Now if she gives into her feelings she might loose mannu to ratan singh.

Love dont give appointment and happen but when it happens . one should use brain along with heart. I dont care about society and law system wont work. You live in a society and your are bounded by the law.

b comes after and c comes after b. Everything has a order in life. If one goes adventurous on society they alone have to bear the burnt of it. Never garn warth of the people. The same people who save you from your monster husband will also swear you if you love someone and express it without getting closure of your first marriage mess.

Originally posted by: libsrocks

but in a way if Ratan tries to blame Ganga for being with Jagya the lawyer can very well turn the case in Ganga's favor because if Ganga and Jagya are together then it will be more good for Mannu...Ganga has to prove that she can single handedly bring up her child but if lawyer proves that Ganga has support of such rich and big loving family then their case will become more stronger...court will definitely feel two parent is better then one...Mannu has no attachment with his own father but is very affectionate towards Jagya so if court tries to see that whether Jagya is good for Mannu or not it can easily be proven because their are so many witness and Mannu himself shows attachment towards Jagya

But libs what you said can only work out when ganga was divorced and then the custody case is presented. Here ratan will be stuck in jagya's murder atempt case but he will justify saying his wife was being wooed by this doctor. Court needs proofs and as far as we see no one for ratans village helped ganga. Ganga has to face it and in such cases the custody will be awarded to grand parents who can afford the child expenses and ready to look after him.

TM a woman has every right to fall in love with a man first and confess it to him , win his heart so i have no issues with Ganga here and Ganga is doing nothing to woo Jagaya she truly loves him She cares for him and doing all for his happiness Nothing wrong for me

for court that can ganga take care of manu properly or not? is important .ganga falling for jagya or not is not important for court .ganga is taking nurse training she can take care of her child properly so definetely ganga child with ganga

Originally posted by: surabhi01

for court that can ganga take care of manu properly or not? is important .ganga falling for jagya or not is not important for court .ganga is taking nurse training she can take care of her child properly so definetely ganga child with ganga

No surabhi , apart from the fact that she is his mother that court also considers stability, environment,mentality of both parents, their status, financial strength, grand parents, constant care for the child (where will ganga leave her kid when she goes to work? Court will incline for grand parents rather than relatives and strangers)and lot more. Her status do matter a lot.

The Supreme Court of India has consistently held that in deciding cases of child custody 'the first and paramount consideration is the welfare and interest of the child and not the rights of the parents under a statute' (8). To the lay person, this was akin to the highest Court in the country saying gender was not a consideration in deciding matters of child custody and guardianship.we make it clear that we do not subscribe to the general observations and comments made by the High Court in favour of mother as parent to be always preferable to the father to retain custody of the child' (11).
Guardians and Wards Act 1890 is such that earlier the mother can keep the child until they turn 12 and later challenged for custody.

this law got amended when it was challenged by a father who was denied visitation of his ward for 3 years and the child was tuned bitter by his mother. when a marriage fails either party, male or female uses the child to browbeat the opposite partner into submission. In the emotional battle of parents the child is often held hostage by whosoever has physical custody. So this law is now amended and based on several factors the custody will be given.

@TM...thanks for creating this post..

Originally posted by: chahat11

There is nothing wrong with a woman wooing a man.

Ganga is not trying to woo Jagya. She simply tries to do things for his happiness.