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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ganga is not committed to Ratan Singh apart from a just named rishta that she should full commitments with that creep and can't even fall in love with anyone else because she is committed to that jerk who has another wife as well if people give her cheap names for it then its important that cvs give message against these people and change their years old backward thinking though its not gonna change but cvs are trying their best and they are showing Ganga getting divorce but they definitely need to give a message of change to such narrow thinking of society
Edited by Mehek134 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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let society laugh without any reason because in this case neither it is harm for ganga nor harm for society

btw one day ganga scold some villagers because that villagers taunt her going with jagya in bike un villagers ki bolti band ho gayi.hope she scold this time also if again society taunt her for same thing

v should care for society but that does not mean society has fully right to interfere one personal life uncessarry
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Posted: 12 years ago
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mehek agar society ka itna hi dar hota to raja ram mohan roy viveknand dayanad sarswati society se evil custom hata hi nahi paate aur na hi un evil custom pur koi law bunta and v know that ki society se evil custom hatane ke liye kitna virodh sehna pada iin social reformers ko
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Posted: 12 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: surabhi01

mehek agar society ka itna hi dar hota to raja ram mohan roy viveknand dayanad sarswati society se evil custom hata hi nahi paate aur na hi un evil custom pur koi law bunta and v know that ki society se evil custom hatane ke liye kitna virodh sehna pada iin social reformers ko


Please Don't compare those great people with this crap track ...

which custom you are talking about they fought for sathi shagamana ,,,which is so evil a teenage girl should sacrifice for old man who die ..in the of custom they are killing a girl ..widow marriage ..because those girls get marry to older guy who is ready die ..and these girls left homeless and shelter less..used to work for some family ...leaving all their happiness in the life ..

Dowry system..they fought women education ..women empowerment ..women safety..women financial status ...these all comes under their great sacrifices for women ..not for girl who is already getting education ,safety and food in a good rich family ..they didn't fight for a girls feelings for a rich handsome doctor who is ready to get married and this girl who has kid to care expecting him to marry ..with out thinking ..

how many girls like ganga end up with jagiya in real life just tell me ...no one has that good fate in the real life ..they will suffer to even get shelter..food mainly safety and protection in reality ..

girls who dejected own family just because she won't wnat to stay with person whom she got married ..a girl who can't give sufficient dowry to in laws ends her life in mother place ..
girls who been accused giving girls birth giving a row ...she will get abortion even in 7th month when they got know about sex ...

their are so many things in the society to reform than a to show a girl who is not divorced crying for a rich guy who is not even know what he feels for her ..a girl whose future is so uncertain..she don't know what her husband is cooking to get her son ..don't know to what extent he is going to fight for his son..don't know whether she will get the divorce soon or not ..

what custom you want to change or abolish here ...that girl who ran out of the house ..who left her husband ..who has a son can end with a rich handsome doctor .so you mean all the girls who suffers should find shelter first in a big house..first be gratitude to them ..make them believe how she suffered in their in laws house ...wait for guy who helps her and finally fall for him ..put on innocence and show some self pity and he will falls for you ..

is this the message you are talking about ?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i will compare and if anyone is so interested in society what will society think if ganga fall in love with jagya before gettong divorce then let them care for society for this ever but for me whatever ganga is doing is nothing wrong .

btw she has not left his husband his husband left her and he got married to another woman without informing her and at that time when he married to another woman ganga is already pregnant with ratan child .kamal hai ek to ratan 40 years hoke 8 saal ki ganga se jabardast shadi use pregnant kiya ghar ke saare kaam kurwaye use physically hurt kiya bina bataye dusri shaadi bhi karli aur ganga ka baccha bhi chheena chahta hai .kyon .yes if husband like ratan is so cruel to ganga then ganga is fully right to get help from bh and ganga has also right to show gratitude to these specially to jagya
Edited by surabhi01 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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ganga was a harassment case not dowry or sati sahagam case.

She realized her feelings for jagya and what did she do to stop herself?? NOTHING
dis she try to keep distance with him??? NO expecting what????
I was so happy at least she remembered that gawari exsists and after she told he went tomeet gawari. Then what happened that she forgot his marriage status and her marriage status??? Falling for a married guy being married. That sounds glorious

it dosent matter its legal or illegal or whatever jagya slept with the other woman and that relationship needs a closure.
She bore a son with a cruel person and she needs a release from that relation and custody of mannu.

I started wondering when the whole singh clan begged to tell her what happened and why is she crying. she waited until jagya has to come and ask her why? She has issues that she cant even tell to the sumitra, gehna or dadisa but has only to tell jagya.

Sumitra saw them in the room and felt awkward at their proximity but why doesn't ganga feel so??? respect and gratitude can be expressed to others of the family also. that can be done maintaining a distance as well.
Edited by ashahai_aamanke - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#47
What is society??? Its people

As a person i will never appreciate what ganga is doing right now. I had so much respect and sympathy for her. I praised her when she extended her thoughts to gawari.

I can't shove down my throat the fact that she is intact downhill these days. her behaviour changed a lot and so does her actions. I dont like what she is doing now
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Posted: 12 years ago
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yes yes i know what is society .kisi ka jeena painful ho jaye pur society ki chinta kurte raho .lol

btw now i am not interested in this repeated argument .and i am going to stop this repetive argument and i dont want anyone counterwith me with same repetive argument


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

i will compare and if anyone is so interested in society what will society think if ganga fall in love with jagya before gettong divorce then let them care for society for this ever but for me whatever ganga is doing is nothing wrong .


btw she has not left his husband his husband left her and he got married to another woman without informing her and at that time when he married to another woman ganga is already pregnant with ratan child .kamal hai ek to ratan 40 years hoke 8 saal ki ganga se jabardast shadi use pregnant kiya ghar ke saare kaam kurwaye use physically hurt kiya bina bataye dusri shaadi bhi karli aur ganga ka baccha bhi chheena chahta hai .kyon .yes if husband like ratan is so cruel to ganga then ganga is fully right to get help from bh and ganga has also right to show gratitude to these specially to jagya


i said don't compare this stupid tack with those all the girls who suffering more than ganga does now ..this is not giving any social message which can be compared with great persons who scarficed their whole life ..

This is pathetic love story which they are showing ..period .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

i will compare and if anyone is so interested in society what will society think if ganga fall in love with jagya before gettong divorce then let them care for society for this ever but for me whatever ganga is doing is nothing wrong .


btw she has not left his husband his husband left her and he got married to another woman without informing her and at that time when he married to another woman ganga is already pregnant with ratan child .kamal hai ek to ratan 40 years hoke 8 saal ki ganga se jabardast shadi use pregnant kiya ghar ke saare kaam kurwaye use physically hurt kiya bina bataye dusri shaadi bhi karli aur ganga ka baccha bhi chheena chahta hai .kyon .yes if husband like ratan is so cruel to ganga then ganga is fully right to get help from bh and ganga has also right to show gratitude to these specially to jagya

Ganga was not 8 years old at the time of marriage - she was about 13. And her husband married again perhaps because she could not get pregnant. It is another matter that she discovered that she was pregnant just when her husband got married a third time (She was not minor when she got pregnant).
Ganga suffered cruelty by her husband as well as in-laws, but that does not automatically make her free to marry someone else before getting divorce (I know that as of now she is not thinking of marriage - but if she is saying that how can she see Jagya with other woman? the conclusion is she has decided to marry). All the viewers have sympathy for Ganga, but her story is not being developed ethically and realistically.

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