What's wrong with a woman wooing a man?

Lately, I've spotted some posts in the forum which decry Ganga for being "eager and forward" in her attitude to Jagya (which she's not IMO),and that Jagya should woo her first. Similar sentiments echo everywhere else, and in real life as well.

even i did not felt anything wrong if ganga was trying to woo jagya which she was not actually...she was just trying to do something to thank him for what he dd for her and her child...actually i am glad ganga is happy and smiling even after so much...i was totally pissed off with anandi and her never ending tears...she just needs a reason to cry even after marrying shiv...at least ganga is not mourning all over the place...and i cannot get a reason for her mourning either...her education is progressing...she got such a good family so why cry for something which was in past.

i dont find anything wrong in it...to be in love

There is nothing wrong if a woman woos a man.But problem is Ganga was not wooing Jagya.She just fell in love with Jagya.She didn't do anything to woo him.It was just her way to celebrate Jagya's birthday.Ganga falling for Jagya is the most natural thing bv has ever shown.People who are comparing ganga with anandi and ratan singh with jagya should think twice.

There is nothing wrong in a woman falling in love with a man first Personally i loved it what cvs have done in case of Ganga I would love to see her confessing her love first to Jagaya and win his heart 😊Ganga is trying nothing to woo Jagaya She is only doing for his happiness or thank him Its true she loves him but whatever she does for him is not impress him like Sanchi but only for his happiness

Nothing wrong if a girl tries to woo the guy she loves.

I say this even for sanchi but because of her evil ways and unsuitability for jagya's family and lifestyle, i don't want her for Jagya. To be jagya's wife, she has to adjust with the singh family too. Jagya needs family support always. Infact thats what caused problems with gauri. Initial charm of city life wore off and he wanted his family's support too. Sanchi has no ideas to blend with his family and rather will want to take him away, which will create unhappiness for both Jagya and sanchi too.

Ganga is not yet wooing Jagya and all. She just realised to herself that what she feels for jagya is more than gratefulness. She recognized that she is not happy seeing jagya with some other girl, not being able to say that dactorsa ke liye khush hun😆, which i think is a big step in itself, where women are expected to sacrifice and be happy in others happiness.

As long as the person doesn't plan to ruin someone else's life and tries to get what he/she wants without affecting others willfully, its perfectly fine.

I don't think ganga is going to woo. But i hope she opens up and tells her stand, when she will have clear to her stand regarding her feelings for jagya and not go the usual sacrifice route.

I don't find anything wrong in it. Ganga is a human why she can't love someone? And the resions people giving are so cheap. That she is still someones wife, she is a mother how can she fall for a men. I Mean really Ratan should called as a husbend of Ganga? What was leagal in their marriage? These resions are given by people who have backward thinking. If you are a women you should be mahan and with secrifising nature. If you think about your happiness you are cheap. Wow what a thinking.

There is nothing wrong in this. Infact we are not disliking Sanchi's wooing Jagya but we disliking the way she was doing this. about Ganga though she never tryd to woo Jagya but loves him alot coz he is the most special person in her lyf. Who gave her happiness and a hope of a nice future. If she is feeling sad and she was cring to knw about S and J rishta then its bcoz of the feeling of loosing someone special. It dosnt mean she want to marry Jagya. There is a famous sayng "Ishk pe jor nahi"

thank u krystal for making this topic .there is nothing wrong in if woman wooing a man .jagya has helped ganga so it is natural ganga will do good for him in return and also fall for him .i find nothing wrong ganga falling in love with jagya