Does a man deserve a second/third chance

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Noureen

@nya_ansari

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Posted: 12 years ago

#41

Supriya jahan tak yeh baat hay k Jagya ko piyaar hosakta hay ya nhn... kiun nhn hosakta, yaar yeh zindgi bht zalim cheez hay sab kuch possible hay, aik shair yaad araha hay...

"Simat saka na zindgi ka phelao...
Khatam kabhi gham'e ashqi nhn hota...

Nikal hi ati hay koi na koi gunjaish...

Kisi ka piyaar aakhri nhn hota..."

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dsupriya

@dsupriya

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: nya_ansari
Supriya jahan tak yeh baat hay k Jagya ko piyaar hosakta hay ya nhn... kiun nhn hosakta, yaar yeh zindgi bht zalim cheez hay sab kuch possible hay, aik shair yaad araha hay...

"Simat saka na zindgi ka phelao...
Khatam kabhi gham'e ashqi nhn hota...

Nikal hi ati hay koi na koi gunjaish...
Kisi ka piyaar aakhri nhn hota..."

Nou aapka yeh shayar ne life bana di re😳 and yes the legal mess that he has created with Gauri has to may be sorted... before going into any other relationship, if not for anything for his own peace as well.

Edited by dsupriya - 12 years ago

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Noureen

@nya_ansari

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: dsupriya

Sou aapka yeh shayar ne life bana di re😳

me Nou😭😭😭

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ExcuseMePlz

@ExcuseMePlz

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Posted: 12 years ago

#44

Good post.It is proved that Mothers are always so kind in their thoughts.I totally agree with your mom.
I definitely believe that a man like jagya deserves a chance.Only because he is redeeming and trying his best to change his habits.It is not possible for him to change the past.But he has understood that he was wrong and now he is trying to be a better person.When a man feels sorry then he should definitely get a chance.He was also a victim of child marriage.He himself created a second chance for him and moved on in his life with gauri which was wrong but the truth was he couldn't be fully satisfied ever.There was the guilt factor so he was not able to enjoy his married life for a long time.So it is clear that he was never fully happy in his married life.
In my opinion jagya most probably will not fall in love with ganga.Its quite impossible in my view.I think he will have either an arranged marriage by his family or he will be forcibly married to ganga.After that they will gradually understand each other and will start liking.There is a slight chance of ganga falling for jagya.At the moment jagya and ganga romance is not possible.Cvs are not intended to show romance between them very soon.It will take a lot of time like shiv and anandi.Ganga is introduced opposite jagya,only because of that every scene of them are taking wrongly.

It is a fictional show so I think this time jagya will not fall in love.May be ganga will fall for him.Cvs will show love between them only after marriage.

But in reality though it is hard to accept but I think if somebody is repenting then he should get a chance.

Edited by shankythebest - 12 years ago

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dsupriya

@dsupriya

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: shankythebest
Good post.It is proved that Mothers are always so kind in their thoughts.I totally agree with your mom.
I definitely believe that a man like jagya deserves a chance.Only because he is redeeming and trying his best to change his habits.It is not possible for him to change the past.But he has understood that he was wrong and now he is trying to be a better person.When a man feels sorry then he should definitely get a chance.He was also a victim of child marriage.He himself created a second chance for him and moved on in his life with gauri which was wrong but the truth was he couldn't be fully satisfied ever.There was the guilt factor so he was not able to enjoy his married life for a long time.So it is clear that he was never fully happy in his married life.
In my opinion jagya most probably will not fall in love with ganga.Its quite impossible in my view.I think he will have either an arranged marriage by his family or he will be forcibly have to marry ganga.After that they will gradually understand each other and will start liking.There is a slight chance of ganga falling for jagya.At the moment jagya and ganga romance is not possible.Cvs are not intended to show romance between them very soon.It will take a lot of time like shiv and anandi.Ganga is introduced opposite jagya,only because of that every scene of them are taking wrongly.

It is a fictional show so I think this time jagya will not fall in love.May be ganga will fall for him.Cvs will show love between them only after marriage.

But in reality though it is hard to accept but I think if somebody is repenting then he should get a chance.

Thanks for putting your views across... as it helps in broadening my perspective. And definitely I agree with you on one point without any dispute and that is the bold above.
One thing I may not like is any kind of forced relationship or compromise that happened with Anandi... As personally I am against it...

But let us wait and watch how the BV Cvs want to take their relationship forward..And I surely want to see a relationship between Jagya and Ganga at the humane and friendly level first before proceeding to anything else.
That would at least make him re-think his priorities more, which he is already doing I think to some extent.

Edited by dsupriya - 12 years ago

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Wrackspurt

@Wrackspurt

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Posted: 12 years ago

#46

What i feel is that every person deserves a second chance if and only if he/she is truely repenting and wants to turn over a new leaf (but it depends on his crime)...Problem with Jagya was that he was always pig-headed and very very selfish...for the first time in his life he is probably doing something good...so yeah i think everyone should support him...but he still has a long way to go...i think the BV people are showing the brewing romance between Ganga and Jagya too early...they should wait for sometime...may be till Ganga gets back her child...they can show how Jagya helps Ganga stand on her feet along with her child...how he motivates her...they should focus on their friendship and trust first...and then later on move on to their romance.

A person can fall in love many times...but there is only one person with whom he will really spend his entire life with...to tell the truth it was not he who chose Anandi...he was married off as a kid and then until he left Jaitser he never really mixed with other girls, so he considered Anandi to be his soulmate as he has been told all through his childhood...but once he got out of Jaitser, he got a sort of freedom , saw Gauri, who had a 'modern' outlook towards life and ways, unlike Anandi, he got attracted to her...may be Ganga is actually the right person for him ...or may be he will find a fourth 😆

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Jaymaa

@Jaymaa

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

#47

Good topic...😊 Man does second/third chance but koi strong reason hona chahiye.may be wife die or wife is characterless etc...this case in jagya anandi move on but still gauri is present and she not characterless or he don't know yet gauri move to other to man.

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Rkalpana

@Rkalpana

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Posted: 12 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: adi2512
Supriya.,

Per me., its not difficult to fall in love...but the most difficult part is the manner you TREAT your love.

The case of J is not this. As i said., he never truly loved any body.

So., at this juncture., I really do not have any qualms., as to how fast J would fall in love with G2...but for me., the crux., is How he would TREAT his love.

If he truly loves her now., he would give a fair treatment to her., just as an equal half deserves.

He would encourage her in getting past her torturous past and show her the beauty of live ahead.

He would aid in her education and who knows., may be he would one day., suggest she would become the sarpanch ... ( presuming A would have scaled taller heights by then...😆)

And Yes., he also has a non closure of G1 hanging there like a double edged sword...His true repentance also would depend on the closure he would give to that chapter in his life., as I feel., it is definitely going to glare at him., seeking for justice., in near future.

So., per me., now., the travails of Balak Var are on the beginning., rather than his Love story...

It is to be seen., whether he would rise like a phoenix from ashes as A did...or get buried forever in those ashes.

Concludingly., I do not have any regrets if he falls in love yet again in next few episodes or in fifty but what I would like to see is giving his love the due respect.

Nice post, you looked the situation from a different angle. My views were so far based on the message being conveyed by any further marriage of Jagya. But your comments brought out the perspective of Jagya and his lady love. Especially @bold above, I wish CVs show this aspect if they show another marriage of Jagya.

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dixie123

@dixie123

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Posted: 12 years ago

#49

Suppi: Wonderful post. Am so glad for all the healthy discussions in your thread.

I am all for giving Jagya a second chance. It is not man vs woman for me. But, to me this whole redemption track has been easy for him. Yes, he has realized his mistakes but he still has Anandi in his mind. When Ganga asked him about his wife, he took Anandi's name but not Gauri. So, for me it is way too early to start their pairing. They need to build some friendship which in due course of time turns to love would be the best thing that happens.

I feel, like many,Ganga will probably be the one to fall in love first than Jagya. She had never seen nor experienced love in her life. So, it will be more natural for her to get drawn in on all the attention that she might get from Jagya,although he might just do it out of wanting to help her. I seriously don't want any forced marriage like AnSh. I hope they don't repeat that with JaGa2.

Whenever they start to show the love story, it will be interesting to see if Jagya will be shown to have the same problems of not being able to move forward (not referring just to SR) like Anandi ? Will he get constant FBs like Anandi used to get before sagai and just after sagai ?

Edited by dixie123 - 12 years ago

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dsupriya

@dsupriya

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#50

Key takeaways for me are:

Yes we should give one more chance to Jagya's character to see how it unfolds, as he is truly realizing his mistakes and wants to do something good for his family and others.He is actually trying to come beyond his selfishness and stubbornness and redeeming himself. I only hope that the CV keep up this positivity and not do 360 U turn.. I would hate to see that

Most of us I think agree that the relationship between Jagya and Ganga has to be slow and gradual, which I think the CVs will now take it. and most of us want to see how the relation enfolds and also would like a proper closure to the previous relationship to his and Gauri's relationship(at least in terms of the registered marriage that he had with Gauri), just so that sword does not hang over his head.

And also if there is baby in the picture what about it, hope it gets the deserved justice it should.

I would love it if there are anything else that comes to your mind

Edited by dsupriya - 12 years ago