Does a man deserve a second/third chance

Hi All,This is purely a discussion or debate and it is not intended to start any bashing or counter bashing. If I personally see fan wars and personalized comments I don't mind this getting closed

The other day I was watching BV with my mom when Jagya Ganga scene came up when she dashed against him in the stairs. Since I knew prior hand the information of brewing romance I was not comfortable with that scene. My mom noticed it and asked me what? Then I told her that I was not comfortable promoting Ganga as love interest for Jagya.

Then her one question bowled me over-
Question was why do you think so? Does he not deserve another chance to live his life especially if one thinks he is redeeming? If we can advocate for Tihar Jail inmates then why not him?
I then asked her is this believable that a man can fall in and out of relationship so many times? She only told me one thing that there is no concept of true love in real life. In real life trust, friendship and others define your relationship.Yes his trustworthiness will be always in question and no 100% guarantee there. But again that is a question mark there with no concrete answers.

This led me to think, as to why are we so against Jagya and Ganga pairing? What is it that it is making us difficult to forgive him? Could it be because that we have seen so much of women oppression and men having as many wives as they please that we are unable to digest so many relationships for a man? That we are correlating him with every MCP man that we see.

I still dont have any answers for that, but subsequently my mom's question when I thought over it brought me peace and now I am at peace to enjoy BV and the story as it unfolds. I may not be as benevolent as Anandi and forgive him completely but am at peace..

Let us see what BV CVs have in store for us..

Healthy comments are most welcome and thanks for reading my rant...

What you felt, and what you said to your mother was correct. Because we as young women, dont understand why a person should be given second chances.

If i was in Anandi's place, i wudnt have forgiven him. Most of us wouldnt have. But now that she has, I hope Jagya face charges for his wrong doings a little more.

The BV writers have to be very careful at this stage and handling the situation is a work of art. True, Jagya-Ganga romance is too early for now and they should slow down. It should be a very slow procedure from victim-savior to acquaintances to friends and then maybe finally to something more.

Showing a romantic track wud completely ruin the beauty of the show. Firstly, audience wudnt accept it whole heartedly. Secondly, it's too soon. Thirdly, there is a LOT more to be shown.

Jagya and Ganga wudnt be the best thing for now and i think sidelining it wud be a better idea. Future mein if they show it, when everyhing has settled, wud be better.

For now, all I want is AnSh confession and the official start of their marriage.

Any person deserve a chance, but you know past cannot be shred away at one go.Two mistakes cannot be washed away. Anandi - it is a blessing in disguise, because she has got shiv with him. Gouri will come and haunt him when he finds his new happiness in life.

I expect only one thing from him, be matured enough to handle your problems, not lean on Anandi and Shiv for support. Jagya Ganga will not be a love story, it will be different.

But I truely believe jagya given a chance will handle it better than Anandi. Not one step back and one step front.

A very interesting topic Supriya...

very reasonable post Suppo...yes as a young woman I also really dont appriciate the 3rd time romance but now it is upto CVs how they are gonna show us the relationship constuction b/w Ganga and Jagya. He really did sin when he left Anandi ...bcoz that girl did so many things for him even today his every breath is her indebt...but CVs showed us that Jagya was also a victim of child marriage and Gauri was his "Sacch Pyaar" but suddenly some strange and very weak reason that Sachha pyaar has broken down...and when Jagya came back he was ready to give Anandi her lost place and that time he could do anything for her...so in this psychological stage if CVs shows that Jagya is fall again in love by himself again that would be gross but lets hope that CVs will handle that reasonablely

Loved ur mom's approach to your Question.

Good point and debate sups

Good post. In a way both u and your mother are right. As I already stated in some other thread, I do not want more marriages for Jagya. But I do believe that people should be given another chance. We all know that in serials they generally do not show a person, (who was negative/gray/had done great injustice against positive people) suffer for a long time. The repentance/redemption is over super fast. This is the only reason I do not want another chance to jagya at present. If CVs want him to marry again, they should at least show it after a considerable time during which he work for the community selflessly. I will like it if DS suggest new marriage for Jagya and he refuse saying he still has to do his prayashchit.

Originally posted by: Princess..

What you felt, and what you said to your mother was correct. Because we as young women, dont understand why a person should be given second chances.

If i was in Anandi's place, i wudnt have forgiven him. Most of us wouldnt have. But now that she has, I hope Jagya face charges for his wrong doings a litle more.

The BV writers have to be very careful at this stage and handling the situation is a work of art. True, Jagya-Ganga romance is too early for now and they should slow down. It should be a very slow procedure from victim-savior to acquiantances to friends and then maybe finally to something more.

Showing a romantic track wud completely ruin the beauty of the show. Firstly, audience wudnt accept it whole heartedly. Secondly, it's too soon. Thirdly, there is a LOT more to be shown.

Jagya and Ganga wudnt be the best thing for now and i think sidelining it wud be a better idea. Future mein if they show it, when everyhing has settled, wud be better.

For now, all I want is AnSh confession and the official start of their marriage.

Thanks and agree with you, librocks, and others where I would also like their relationship to ,be shown slow and steady more on a humanitarian approach and show his redemption track before jumping into any further relationship...

It has to be slow and they have to do it subtly rather than forcefully dumping it on us.