Why Anandi is pretending with Shiv

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musicmaniac

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Posted: 12 years ago

I do not write to the forum unless I am majboor. This Anandi and her behavior just forced me to write in this form.

I am honestly tired of seeing her crying about love - if she knows that she does not love Shiv then why she is pretending with Shiv as if she has fallen in love with him? The poor guy is trying to please the girl in every possible way - even fulfilling all the impossible wishes of the family that no human being will ever think of doing and what does he get from her? If Anandi does not love him, cancel the wedding and then wait for months /years/eons till she realizes love or importance of Shiv's presence in her mind. But at least stop acting before Shiv as if she is very interested in talking/spending time with him.

In Shiv's jail episode, the haldi and the sangeet - she always gave the expression as if she is in love - suddenly she found that she does not love Shiv - why? Does it mean that as soon Jagiya came back - she is again in doubt. I just felt she is just exploiting Shiv - when she needs a friend, a crying shoulder, Shiv will be there. When she doing well - she does not need Shiv and does not even think of reciprocating his love - I am honestly disgusted about this pretension.

Bahar to bahat lecture maarti hai Asha/Phooli in logon ke baare mein - khud to aage chalke dikha - uske baad kisiko lecture dena...

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Posted: 12 years ago

anandi is not pretending .she says that only what she feels in her heart .she does not love shiv right now that is why she disclosed to sumitra .if she is pretending her love to shiv she would have never disclosed it to sumitra that love it for only once and i have not seen a single scene where she said in front of shiv or in back that she love shiv .so where is question of pretending ? right now her good behaviour towards shiv is due to respect and she respect shiv in back also

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musicmaniac

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Posted: 12 years ago

Anandi herself told that she could not express her feeling openly - but did you see her face during Sangeet when they were dancing together? Was it just respect? Friendship? What did her facial expression tell?

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Posted: 12 years ago

it was her general smiling .her smiling is not only for shiv but for whole singh family .so everybody is happy that is why she is happy .if some one become sad she also become sad like u may have seen in mehndi episode when she saw tears in dadisa she also become sad and when she heard that suman cant come in mehndi then also she become sad .so her happiness and sadness in function is general

btw she never told that she cant express her feeling .haan usse kaha jaroor jaata hai ki tum hur choti si choti baat share karo

Edited by surabhi01 - 12 years ago

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Sunna_Deewani

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Posted: 12 years ago

When did she pretend that she loves shiv? She is just happy for him and is overwhelmed by the love he shows and is happy to for that. Thats why she had apprehensions about reciprocating the same amount love and thats what she discussed with sumitra.

I hope ppl understand that this is not a love marriage for Anandi. For her its like arranged marriage. DS and family likes shiv and she too approves of him as good life partner. So she is marrying him. Love cannot come so soon for her. In india lot of arranged marriage happen like this only and most of them are successful too.

Edited by Sunna_Deewani - 12 years ago

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Missesha

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Posted: 12 years ago

Anandi is not pretending that she loves him, in fact she doesn't love him as yet. She likes him, respects him and is happy that Shiv is so understanding. She also wants Shiv as her partner and not Jgya, but because she is not yet yet completely in love with him, she fears (has blues) that will she do justice to his love? Will she give him enough in return, for he has given her or will give her?

This is a very natural thing. I am happy that A is thinking of all these. It only shows that she is not taking Shiv for granted, but is genuinely trying to move on and accept him.

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_Manali_

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Posted: 12 years ago

kisi bhi ladki ke liye jiski pehli shaadi unsucces rahi ho use naye relation me khud ko adjust karne me thoda waqt to lagta hai.aur wo shiv ki care bhi karti hai respect karti hai aur bharosa bhi karti hai .shiv aur anandi ke rishte me care ,understanding aur bharosa hai to pyar bhi ho jayega infact ho gaya hai sirf anandi ko abhi ye realize nahi hua hai but i am sure jaldi ho jayega.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 12 years ago

Anandi is not in love with him and she didn't pretend otherwise.

She is marrying him because her family thought it is a good idea for her to marry and they all like him and think that he would make a good husband for her and she also agrees with them and that's why she is marrying him.For her it is an arranged marriage.And from his side it is alove marriage which is happening with approval of the elders of his family.

She likes him, respects him trusts him and admires him a lot and she is attracted to him also and she is very sure that she wants to spend her life with him.

Shiv knows that Anandi is not in love with and he also said he is wiiling to wait for the rest of his life and be content with what he gets from her.

She knows that Shiv loves her a lot and fearful that she may not be able to give him the love that he deserves from her.All this fears of her is because she feels apprehensive about future.It is just that the last minute jitters whether she will be able to carry of all that she is taking on.

In arranged marriage people learn to love their partners by living together and sharing their life.That's what will happen with Anandi too because fr her it is an arranged marriage.

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Blukitten

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Posted: 12 years ago

anandi is very much in love wth shiv she has not accepted it yet.
she is blocking her thoughts due to her personal issues. dont u see how she blushes n looks at shiv...she.is smitten just needs self realization

Edited by nniks - 12 years ago

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sectoreight

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: musicmaniac
I Does it mean that as soon Jagiya came back - she is again in doubt.

Hi music maniac, I am really happy to see another anandi critic on the forum 😆 . We are a minority on the forum. 😃

I too found the scene revolting ... but I think this probably makes sense in some vague contextual framework.

Anandi has always made a distinction between the city bred evil jagat and his good village bumpkin alter ego jagya.

She has always been under some sort of mental delusion that one day her jagya would come back to her -- the same one who left jayetsar in the pre-gauri era. She really felt that gauri's husband was some stranger jagat -- someone she didnt recognize and someone she didnt relate to.

She never really received closure on jagya (the good jagya) before moving on to shiv. She never put that hope to rest. So that hope has still remained alive.

Even though we know Jagadish came back to Jayetsar ages ago -- his behaviour of revenge, pushing people against the wall, etc. still had lots of jagat interspersed with the good in him.

Yesterday was the first time since the whole jagat-gauri saga started that anandi had a clear glimpse of just Jagya -- the one that she wanted to come back to her. To suddenly see jagya in front of her -- the loving, sweet, sensitive kind jagya was just too much to bear for her. She suddenly started being wistful again.

It is not appropriate for her to behave the way she did i agree, but from a long term contextual backdrop, when we factor in her history, her reluctance about shiv makes perfect sense.

I'm not saying its appropriate, just that it is understandable if we see the backdrop of who anandi is and what her mental paradigm was (il.e. making a distinction between jagdish and jagya)

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