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ok i have a little diff point of view..see what is varying here is anandi's DEFINTION of love..she finds her feelings for jagya as love..coz she fell in love wid her when she was a teenager, at a time when we know no pretence and no limitations or inhibitions..remember ur first crush? there is nothing more innocent than those feelings when ur just realising tht love can exist which is diff frm what u feel for ur family and friends..i feel tht is what she felt for jagya, her childhood friend, her husband..
what she feels for shiv is a lot more mature, more inhibited if u please..she knows the heartbreaks she had and is naturally afraid of the same again..which was a major reason she dint want to get married in the first place, even when she knew jagya will not come back to her..she, like any woman after a broken relationship, was vary of a new one..she agreed due to pressure of her mother's last wish and many (including me) found it unfair to shiv..coz she dint feel for him more thn respect..bt look at their relationship now..yes it dsnt have the passion of her first love..coz its very rare to get it again..bt it has more sublimity..and i find it very unlikely tht she does not feel more for him now thn respect and friendship only..her trust in him is amazing..they dnt even have to speak to each other to know how the other is feeling..they are, in all aspects, soulmates..and tho anandi doubts tht she will fall in love again, i say she already has..she just dsnt recognize it yet coz the only love she know before this was when she was 18 and carefree..when it was her first love..
Anupamaa
