Anandi's boundaries as a sarpanch - Page 17

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: leo4ever

[ did they quote six familes anywhere? i will still not call it as a failure cox soeting that was the norm was now such that it happened after two years

Yes, all six sets of neighbours at jyoti's house knew and had gone to attend the wedding... dont you remember she went door to door to get information before tracking the mehendiwali? Why would SIX sets of neighbours all keep it quiet?
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: surabhi01

jis family ne jagya ke chodne pur anandi ka itna saath diya anandi unhe jail pahunchhayigi ???main samajh sakti hoon ki anandi ne kyon nahi bataaya kyonki apni personal problem batane mein insaan jyaada emotional ho jaata.woh jagya ko punish kar sakti hai pur aisa kurne se uski family ki bhi insult hogi jo anandi nahi chahti

but that is precisely my point surabhi. woh apni kisi family member ka insult nahi chaahti... lekin baaki har kisi ke family members ko jail ghaseet ke ley jaayegi.
what does it matter -- family ne saath diya ki nahi diya? If you go by stand law is law, then all criminals should be prosecuted by anandi.
is there any meaning in pure selectivity -- this criminal is good to me so I wont prosecute him?
and the other one is bad to me so therefore i will prosecute him?
yeh aapko thoda sa biased tareeka nahi lagta hai?
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Posted: 13 years ago
anandi apni family ki insult isliye nahi chahti kyonki woh uski family hai bulki woh isliye nahi chahti kyonki uski family ne usko tough time mein support kiya hai aur koi buri sasuraal hoti to beta chod ke jaane pur anandi ko ghar ke bahar nikaal deti ya phir anandi se kolhu ke bail ki tarah kaam karwaati aur khud maje se rehte.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: surabhi01

anandi apni family ki insult isliye nahi chahti kyonki woh uski family hai bulki woh isliye nahi chahti kyonki uski family ne usko tough time mein support kiya hai aur koi buri sasuraal hoti to beta chod ke jaane pur anandi ko ghar ke bahar nikaal deti ya phir anandi se kolhu ke bail ki tarah kaam karwaati aur khud maje se rehte.

Surabhi, I am repeatedly saying this --the fact that her in-laws have been good for her does not deflect from jagya's crime. It does not make Jagya's crime allright.
There is a law against what he has done.
If she is such a hard and heavy legal protagonist then she must take action even if the singhs are good to her.
it does not mean that she should take action only if the singhs tell her to leave badi haveli.
The singhs goodness and jagya's crime are two separate issues.
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Posted: 13 years ago
even i also want jagya should be punished by anandi pur main anandi ki majboori samajh rahi hoon
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Posted: 13 years ago
chitrashi, I will be happy to reply to you the day you revise the content of your post and tone down the personal attacks and insults. The same points can be made in a courteous and polite manner and with specific reference to the issues at hand rather than unnecessary personal comments.
also, when you enter a thread 20 pages into the fray, it would be a good idea to read through all the posts before you comment to understand the broader direction and arguments of the thread along the way.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: surabhi01

even i also want jagya should be punished by anandi pur main anandi ki majboori samajh rahi hoon

wohi toh main keh rahi hoon surabhi -- anandi ko apni majboori ho sakti hai -- lekin jyoti ke maa baapu ko koi majboori nahin ho sakti?
agar woh log crime kar rahe hain, toh uski bhi koi wajah hogi.
aur anandi ko unke wajah se koi matlab nahi hai toh fir usey apni majboori se bhi koi matlab nahi rehna chaahiye.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: znursingh



uff

i skipped a few pages in between but

a divorcee a separated woman or even a woman who had a child out of mrariage CAN do good and be good in a society. please!!

and yes, there are teachers in villages, i know one, and they help impart knowledge more than education AND even provide sensible information when the need arises.




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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: tinoo

chitrashi, I will be happy to reply to you the day you revise the content of your post and tone down the personal attacks and insults. The same points can be made in a courteous and polite manner and with specific reference to the issues at hand rather than unnecessary personal comments.

also, when you enter a thread 20 pages into the fray, it would be a good idea to read through all the posts before you comment to understand the broader direction and arguments of the thread along the way.



OH HELLOO???
Your first post was in extreme bad taste & revealed an atrocious lack of logic-you might consider toning down YOUR insensitivity quotient before preaching to others.
You make utterly impractical statements and then hide behind this pathetic fig leaf of "mind your language" when another posters logic trumps the twaddle you peddle?
There IS a limit to Atithi Devo Bhava!!!


@ Chitrashi=Sorry to have jumped into the fray!All your now!
Edited by znursingh - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
My POV

anandi has spent her childhood with jagya..
as friends.. more than anything else.

she has fallen in love with the beend.. illegal marriage, yes.

she has also waited for the beend when he is in another state. for five years or more.

the girl still hasnt taken any strict actions against the beend... respect or love? i hope its neither

but if i put myself in the girl;s shoes. anandi is not my fav character btw. bt if i do that.
its hard.. v hard to drag the person to court with whom i spent those many years
but i do hope she ends up suing the couple.
am still waiting for that

but any of this doesnt make the girl a hypocrite.
u know how a girl is when in love.

she is falling out of love but as in her dreams, her sub conscious is still going back there.
i feel it is human.

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