The Ego Factor - Page 6

Originally posted by: avantikasharma1

How much do CV's want to justify Jagiya in name of male ego? Even today in the voiceover they said the same!! But I think there is a limit to which a male ego can be fed. I may not agree with Gauri's earlier behaviour, but now I think J too has to grow up!! He has got a new job,( unfortunately on wrong belief that it is because of his capability 😆😆) but instead of thinking of preserving it, he wants to screw it up.😡 He is more concerned with what people are going to think about him. 😲 Mr Jagat think more on how it will be when you are unemployed? And where was this male ego when he asked for money from Gauri?

What any woman can do in such a situation? Forget for a second it is Gauri. There has to be some maturity from male side too. A woman should never excel, because it will hurt male ego! I don't think any amount of patience can help here? Even if he was with Anandi, he would have been feeling miserable under her success. The best solution is never get married to such immature men. EGO EGO EGO! I donot agree with CV's logic.

And another thing, how important Gauri has become in this 1 month. She has so much experience that she can teach J? Forget J, she has 3-4 assistants!! 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

Cvs have gone pagal.

She is a junior herself! lol

anywayzz... she is MS and the other junior doctors are MBBS. I do not know how the Medical profession in India works. LOL This is strange to me.

Anywayzz.. I think the cvs are not trying to defend jagat but stating the fact that men like jagya ONLY think about their own ego. and when women start to excel it hurts their ego.

I do nto think they are agreeing to his behavior

Originally posted by: tinoo

This is typical of many organizations which value equality and diversity ... so they frame titles and use language which sort of implies a democratic style of functioning rather than a strict bureaucratic hierarchical style of functioning. They want everyone to feel equal... so they use the term "assisting" instead of saying "working under" to be very polite... its very politically correct and less marxist in nature 😆😆

I dont think there is anything wrong with gauri having to supervise someone just because she is new.

I mean if we join organizations at certain positions, there will always be people reporting to us who may have been there for years.

So, they may have given an MS doctor the responsibility of supervising MBBS doctors.

Nice topic Avantika,

Originally posted by: brick_red

Actually these two are inviting trouble for themselves. ..they fight often at home for serious matters as well as for trivial stuff. Now if they both work together, forget who reports to whom, they will get more suffocated in the relationship. They have too much of each other!! J has nobody to turn to, other than G. G has her parents, but they do more harm than good by their wrong advice.

Both are immature and blind to the other person's mindset. If G has any understanding of J's nature, she could have forseen the issues. If J understands G even a little bit, he should be knowing that his lack of qualification bothers her a lot and she takes pride in her job and having his around will put her in a tight spot.

They both or either of them could have enquired with HR about the hospital policy for spouses/relatives working in same team and raised the issue on professional grounds. There is nothing wrong in requesting. It is upto the hospital to take steps. But by not raising the issue, they both may look unprofessional infront of others.

If the HR is competent, he would have already figured out the level of integrity of this couple. First G requesting HR to keep her involvement secret and now J not informing HR that my boss is my wife.

They both think alike and act alike, But the problem is they go wrong in the same way. For example, when J asked G for money and G refused, J could have told her " I don't have good clothes to attend interviews. I want to keep a good set of clothes ready for any future interviews. It is important to boost my confidence", J would better know that if G refused money, probably she wants to keep aside some money for any unforseen expense, so I should tell her the real reason . Same way, if G has any sense, she would have sensed the urgency in J's tone and would have guessed he wants new clothes for some important reason. Atleast she could have asked him nicely "Dear, whats up. Anything coming ur way?"

They abosolutely deserve each other. Both of them have low EQ, adopt double standards, are secretive in nature and they try to control each other.

Originally posted by: tinoo

But for this, jagat jo bhi reason deta, woh kharab lagta. unprofessional. so she stopped him.

There was no legitimate reason per se except "I dont want to work under my wife."

It would make him a laughingstock, I think.

Originally posted by: kavishilpa

but i still don't get it, how is it possilbe to earn so many assistants in one month...and on top of it, remember what HR said that according to the hospital's policy they don't even hire anyone lower than MS...so who r those assistants working under a new doctor herself LOL...seriously, CVs r just over doing her character...waise bhi GaGa ka part kaun dekhta ha...too boring. We just watch the show for AnSh :)