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Posted: 13 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: tinoo

I think you are very right.
If the man is feeling inferior and emasculated because he is reporting to his wife, then this is his own issue and not the issue of the organization.
So if he is not strong enough to deal with it, then he should take an appropriate decision for himself and quit the job altogether...instead of asking HR at SNG to help him circumvent the reporting structure.
To the extent that it is about one spouse reporting to the other, HR may have policies that are gender neutral in nature to ensure that favouritism and bias are not shown by the supervisory spouse to the subordinate spouse.
But to get into issues of a man not feeling good about reporting to his wife because of inferiority complex issues or broader issues of how it looks or how it places him in front of his friends is not the lookout of the organization... that is the man's personal lookout.


correct tin tin
how ever it hurts to say but gauri what said to pighead makes lots of sence...with his MBBS he has to adrees any DR. and who beter then his own wofe...rather thenseeing positivity he is ony seeing negative

exctly its a man personal lok out... and if pighead is so worried about his position he should ahve listen to gauri...complete your MS...but he is not seeing the simple factor and he is paying for his stuborness...
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Posted: 13 years ago
#42
stop stop stop jagat jagat yeh mat karo jagat woh mat karo bus yahi kaam reh gaya hai gauri ko .gauri should understand jagya is a mature guy .everytime gauri decision cant be right
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: surabhi01

stop stop stop jagat jagat yeh mat karo jagat woh mat karo bus yahi kaam reh gaya hai gauri ko .gauri should understand jagya is a mature guy .everytime gauri decision cant be right

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Posted: 13 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: tinoo

Yes, but he has to weigh in what situation he is a bigger laughing stock.
does he want to look bad in front of hr (by requesting a transfer)... or does he want to look bad in front of his friends (by working for gauri)...or does he want to look bad in front of gauri (by quitting the job)
In life, it will not always be a choice between something good and something bad. In that case the choice would be easy for us.
We may also only have options which are all things that dont suit us. So we have to choose which would be the least of all the evils.

But you know Indian society is not yet as mature in accepting a successful wife and less successful husband. Yes there are pairs, but still. So J is in real danger of being ridiculed. It is only his maturity and resilience that can make him see it through...
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Posted: 13 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: surabhi01

stop stop stop jagat jagat yeh mat karo jagat woh mat karo bus yahi kaam reh gaya hai gauri ko .gauri should understand jagya is a mature guy .everytime gauri decision cant be right

I wouldn't say mature but yes he is an adult. I feel he could have asked and if rebuffed he could have accepted it and continued with Gauri. But one month period is not a big thing, especially when you are desperate for job
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Posted: 13 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: avantikasharma1

I wouldn't say mature but yes he is an adult. I feel he could have asked and if rebuffed he could have accepted it and continued with Gauri. But one month period is not a big thing, especially when you are desperate for job


atm he should low down his ego and concentrate on his work... and during that time he can clear his MS too...but as from begning he is nothing but pigehad so he will reamin pighead only..he wont understand ke its not important whome he is reporting or nt..atm he got job. and that too in hospital like SNG...so rather then working out on it he is busy florishing his MCP and ego
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yeh gauri jagya ki daadi maa hai ki wife ? Khud to apna baccha bachaa nahi paayi aur chali hai jagya ko advice karne. Khair woh to rokegi hi jagya doosre department chala jaata to gauri ka prestige issue kum nahi ho jaata .itna accha chance jo mil raha hai gauri ko ki koi gauri ke under mein kaam kar raha hai bhale hi uska pati hi kyon na ho to bhala gauri yeh sunhara mauka kyon jaane degi .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I have a unorthodox eveel solution... Dr. Jagat gets Dr. Gauri fired😈🤣 for harrassment/unprofessionalism, etc. etc. etc.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

I have a unorthodox eveel solution... Dr. Jagat gets Dr. Gauri fired😈🤣 for harrassment/unprofessionalism, etc. etc. etc.

What will he say? He is her junior anyways! May be Dr Gauri will get fired for recommending Jagat.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: avantikasharma1

What will he say? He is her junior anyways! May be Dr Gauri will get fired for recommending Jagat.

- Maybe complain boss is asking for "special" favors and touching him inappropriately😉😆🤣
- Kidding aside... long term, he could continually point out her mistakes within the team setting in a "helpful" way😆 Show down her "professional" abilities.
Edited by AnjanaYYZ - 13 years ago

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