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Posted: 13 years ago

#81

well jagat ne gauri ko resign karne ko kaha ki nahi iske liye mujhe phir se episode dekhna hoga pur agar keh bhi diya to kya galat kaha ki use lagaa hoga ki itna paisa milega ki gauri ko naukri karne ki zaroorat hi nahi.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#82

Originally posted by: surabhi01
well jagat ne gauri ko resign karne ko kaha ki nahi iske liye mujhe phir se episode dekhna hoga pur agar keh bhi diya to kya galat kaha ki use lagaa hoga ki itna paisa milega ki gauri ko naukri karne ki zaroorat hi nahi.

Yes, he told her to leave her job. But job for a woman is not just about earning money is it? It is also a means to develop one's personality and develop one's identity. Even if he earns enough money, If he wanted a wife he would sit at home , then why marry a qualified woman in the first place?

Gauri studied medicine and she wants to practice. its just as simple as that. Even if her husband is a surgeon qualified to bring in ten times more than what they need financially she may still want to work.

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731627

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Posted: 13 years ago

#83

to main bhi repeat kar rahi hoon job chahe permanent ho ya temporary pur phir bhi woh use advice kare to accha hai force nahi aur jagya suffer karta bhi hai to kare jub khud thokur khayega to khud hi ms karega

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Posted: 13 years ago

#84

Originally posted by: surabhi01
well jagat ne gauri ko resign karne ko kaha ki nahi iske liye mujhe phir se episode dekhna hoga pur agar keh bhi diya to kya galat kaha ki use lagaa hoga ki itna paisa milega ki gauri ko naukri karne ki zaroorat hi nahi.

Yes he did ask gauri to resign...this time I dont agree with u...

Jagya or for tht matter any husband dosent have right to demand his wife's resignation.

He can ask her tht since he's earning enough if she wishes she can resign but wether she wants to work or stay at home its solely her decision.

Gauri has done 5+3 years of MBBS MS would it be a waste of education if she resigns ?

Gauri to housewife hi banna tha to itna padhne ki kya zarorat thi.

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731627

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Posted: 13 years ago

#85

well maine aisa kahin kaha kya ki gauri ko naukri nahi karni chhahiye .well dono apni jagah sahi bhi hain aur apni jagah galat bhi

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Posted: 13 years ago

#86

Originally posted by: tinoo
for all those who say that gauri is not "sensitive" to jagya's feelings at the moment,

I really dont see why gauri has to be "sensitive" or walk on egg shells around him. Yes she has achieved a lot, and yes she wants to share her happiness. Is that so wrong? Why should gauri "play small" and diminish herself and diminish her experiences at SNG hospital just for Jagya's comfort level?

I reiterate -- if she did not talk to him like this, he would be a life long parasite, just aimlessly sitting in front of the tv. She sent him to the dean to sweet talk him into seeing if he would give jagat an early exam so that he could complete his m.s. and what did jagat do? he went and insulted the dean and said that i will do it from some other college and one day you will come to me begging me for a job.

Gauri would not talk to him like this if he were actually studying or doing something legitimately or even handling his own matters with some care. She is irritated and genuinely so.

For all those who say that she is only money-minded -- and focusing on her salary -- yes, she is and there is nothing wrong with it. we all need money to survive. Without her salary - Jagat would be on the street just now with no roof over his head and no food at all. Atleast here at home under the chhaya of gauri's salary he gets toast and ketchup and bananas.

There are some practical issues rooted within her "materialistic" behaviour and we would all do well to recognize it because households need money. Nobody can survive on a diet of love and fresh air alone.

She has to be sensitive to her so called husband if she wants to stay in that relationship. PERIOD. esp when she played her role in it! A couple should be sensitive to each others feelings if they want to stay together peacefully. Gosh she has hardly worked for a month and she talks as if she had been bearing him for forever!!

Jagya might not be as ambitious as his mistress but i don't understand how that means he will be life long parasite!!!

Arghhh i hate to support J!! But i believe people have to conclude things based on an overall view and not just on the past 2 episodes..putting G as the working wife and J as the nagging useless man who stays at home doing nothing!He had been this kinda person always...i don't understand why G hates his attitude all of a sudden!

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731627

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Posted: 13 years ago

#87

niharika maine yeh nahi kaha ki jagya ne gauri ko resign karne ko nahi kaha main yeh keh rahi hoon ki mujhe is baare mein confirm nahi so i cant comment on this part so i have to watch episode once more ok 11 bajne wale hain ek baar phir se episode dekhloon tub comment karoongi

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: surabhi01
well maine aisa kahin kaha kya ki gauri ko naukri nahi karni chhahiye .well dono apni jagah sahi bhi hain aur apni jagah galat bhi

Thts what I am saying Gauri is right but she is not dealing properly with jagya...

koi bhi wife agar apne hubby ko bolegi tht I am more qualified than u so u should also get degree to uska khoon khaulega

Men have huge ego...the trick is apni baat ko twist ker ke present karo.

She could have told him polietly tht MS will increase ur reputation...kal ko uske frn ko jagay qualified doc milega to jagya ko nikal bhi sakta hai

her point was correct but presentation was wrong.

Jab jagya ko uski family ke against instigate karna tha to kaisi meethi meethi baatein ker ker usse samjhati thi jab career ki baat aayi to she is behaving rudely.

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Posted: 13 years ago

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nahe surbhe..past histriy proofs pighead is only dreamer...but to achiv that dream he always opt for easy way out rather then hard work and proper way...to amke pighead again start studying and sending on right way need lots of patience and love and caring and making him understand and then puuling him by taking his hand like a small baby and showing him the way...and thts what always anandi did..and thats how he was in mbbs..if leave to pighead long ago tht incident with frsher and him protecting gauri and then erturning to jaitsir tht time would have been end to his career...and sinc childhood u cn see the track..pighead was like tht..and anandi wiht lots of love patience and care and understanding pushed pighead in right direction which gauri too ahs to obtain which is ALL ALIEN THOUGHT TO HAVE FROM GAURI MATA 😆 😆

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tinoo

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: surabhi01
to main bhi repeat kar rahi hoon job chahe permanent ho ya temporary pur phir bhi woh use advice kare to accha hai force nahi aur jagya suffer karta bhi hai to kare jub khud thokur khayega to khud hi ms karega

But she did tell him that -- she said you should do what you want to do. she gave him that freedom.

Then at that point he asked her also to resign. Then she got angry and said "why?"

so he said "Because I am not getting good job in bombay"

so she told him "this is not about bombay or delhi or bangalore or chennai - the root cause of your problem anywhere you go in the world is going to be lack of m.s. degree"

so when his decision to work in bangalore has an impact on her also, she cannot say jub khud thokur khayega toh karega.

He thinks that by going to bangalore, he wont have to do M.S.

She is giving him a harsh reminder that this is not an either/or quick fix bandaid solution.