When it involves ones own life every pros and cons should be considered and when someone stays in city with eduction and updated thinking something better is expected from them otherwise wats the use of education if you cannot even decide wat is right and wat is wrong or how one should behave even in a situation where every body is against you and the like. Its very different regarding a village life and a city life, no comparison likewise thinking would also be different but one thing remain common in village people care for each other but in city one doesnot even have time to think about your loved ones.
For me if you love each other and your family is against you just for honorary issue , you have no responsibility towards any other girl then marry each other for whom to wait. But if your parents oppose you for some other valid reason then better wait whats the hurry because just to live with your wife and no near and dear ones to share your happiness and sorrow whats the use. Life ka matlab hi kya rah jayega , sirf do log aur koi nahin apna kehne ke liya, its really suffocating.
I am waiting for my parents to say yes for my marriage with my bf. I donnot know till how much but i will never marry agaisnt my parents will because i want to live my life with all my loved ones not just with my love. I have decided not to marry any other boy but will also never hurt my parents by running away or marrying against their wish.