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Posted: 13 years ago
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Phooli - if memory serves me right had not wanted to be wed. But her dad threatened suicide if she disagreed and basically twisted her arm into agreeing to this sham of a marriage.

So - Phooli was basically forced into it and just to get her to accept, her inlaws also added lies by saying the previous wife was not suitable and is not around anyways. If now Phooli suffers - this will be a punishment to her bcoz of the stupidity of her parents. Phooli is just an unconsenting victim.

Whereas - Gauri married a guy whose wife was at present, living with his family and was socially accepted as such. G knew he was a married man and just went along with his word that at heart he is seperated and his family has cast him out and he has no relations anymore. She WAS in a position to do more legal research but chose not to.

Phooli never had the time or option to do so - what with her parents ready to jump into a well and blame her for it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

Ha ha ha i cannot believe that to prove that gauri is nt wife people can write ilogical statements ,i mean come on ,which god says that we dat if a man second time puts sindoor n magalsutra ,then that mariage becomes illegal,there is nothing like legal or ilegal ,gauri is his wife of jagya.

oh my u really like guari? to say there is no legal and illegal . but i must ask you u like anjum or guari?that is difference but in other forums too ppl like a character playiong a grey lead and they justify every act of hers as she is goodlooking and a good actress. anjum acts really well. but if keeping aside guari you actually feel there is nothing legal or illegal? so there is no need to have parpers or evidence or courts or any witness prison, judiciary, court ever?
or do u mean to say there is nothing like a legal wife or illegal wife? as long as ppl love each other they can proclaim themsleves as married legally? well isnt that na insult ot the insitiution of marriage?
i dont know about the god reson which is in bold, but what i have read about hindu belief is that polygamy isnt allowed so second mariage does become illegal. again i dont know about the religion belief. Also what i have seen in this drama the court upheld his marriage to anandi so he cant keep two wives.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

Ha ha ha i cannot believe that to prove that gauri is nt wife people can write ilogical statements ,i mean come on ,which god says that we dat if a man second time puts sindoor n magalsutra ,then that mariage becomes illegal,there is nothing like legal or ilegal ,gauri is his wife of jagya.

i wd love to see ur logic if Jogia will leave Gouri and put sindoor to other girl. Great logic. Good defence for multiple marriage 😆 😆 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Dont ul read properly,i said i believe in saat phere taken infront of god,so g is the wife.but someone said gauri cannot be considered as wife becoz j had put sindoor n mangalsutra to anandi,so i said which god tels u that wen is person puts sindoor second time,that is j put sindoor on gauri s mang ,so which god says it is ilegal,in temple ,infront of god there is nothing like ilegal or legal ,there is no law.These laws r made by human n nt god .god has nothing to do with legal n ilegal issues.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Btw if only sindoor and Ms is the criteria of being husband wife ignoring all laws, thn child marriage is also valid, multiple marriage also valid and all those who don't put sindoor and Ms r not husband wife. Whn Jogia rejected his marriage with Anandi instead of putting sindoor and Ms, where were all logical posts. Thts time people started saying love is the base of marriage. So logic change according to favourite and all others become illogical 😆 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

Dont ul read properly,i said i believe in saat phere taken infront of god,so g is the wife.but someone said gauri cannot be considered as wife becoz j had put sindoor n mangalsutra to anandi,so i said which god tels u that wen is person puts sindoor second time,that is j put sindoor on gauri s mang ,so which god says it is ilegal,in temple ,infront of god there is nothing like ilegal or legal ,there is no law.These laws r made by human n nt god .god has nothing to do with legal n ilegal issues.

really?😲😲😲
i am sorry as i am a muslim and polygamy is acceptable . i always thought that hindiusim forbids at a time two marriages. and the forum also says the same in addition to all the movies and shows i have watched, also if there is norm in soicety ppl have to live with it, and didnt they marry in court first and then went to mandir??
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: leo4ever


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really?😲😲😲
<div>i am sorry as i am a muslim and polygamy is acceptable . i always thought that hindiusim forbids at a time two marriages. and the forum also says the same in addition to all the movies and shows i have watched, also if there is norm in soicety ppl have to live with it, and didnt they marry in court first and then went to mandir??

this is perfect example to use religion and other things to defend ur favourite. People remember all sat fera, mangal sutra and sindoor things but forget all kasams during this process where no cheating to wife and saat janam ke rishta. Thn how he can leave Anandi. So let both Anandi and Gouri live together. According to this logic Anandi is as much wife as Gouri thn both sd live together and Jogia sd fulfill his husband duty with both of thm. If u want to follow religious ritual, thn follow it fully and not as per convenience to justify polygamy if its not allowed.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: leo4ever

oh my u really like guari? to say there is no legal and illegal . but i must ask you u like anjum or guari?that is difference but in other forums too ppl like a character playiong a grey lead and they justify every act of hers as she is goodlooking and a good actress. anjum acts really well. but if keeping aside guari you actually feel there is nothing legal or illegal? so there is no need to have parpers or evidence or courts or any witness prison, judiciary, court ever?
or do u mean to say there is nothing like a legal wife or illegal wife? as long as ppl love each other they can proclaim themsleves as married legally? well isnt that na insult ot the insitiution of marriage?
i dont know about the god reson which is in bold, but what i have read about hindu belief is that polygamy isnt allowed so second mariage does become illegal. again i dont know about the religion belief. Also what i have seen in this drama the court upheld his marriage to anandi so he cant keep two wives.

absolutely..dis will not only be an insult but also i think it will not be so good for our society too..
some news used to come on the news papers some yrs ago..dat one person promised one gal dat he will marry him and den dey marriaed at the madir..like putting sinddor and all dat..dey started living together like a married couple..and den after 1/2 month the boy denied the fact that dey got married..or he promised da gal dat he will marry her....dere was many instances like dis..many gals was the victim of dis incident..i think some of the laws regarding the legality of marriage may have came after all these incidents..
dere have to be some definition of legal marriage..dere have to be some rules!!!..otherwise people will do anything..
now, as per the indian law J-G's marriage is not legal of course..if u want to deny u can..but dat will be really very childish i think...dey love each other and dey r living together like a married couple..many people live like dem..if the truth of their marriage don come in front of the world or don hamper their social/personal life..den dey can live like dis for whole life...
but even after living a life together will not make their marriage a legal one..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: leo4ever

really?😲😲😲

i am sorry as i am a muslim and polygamy is acceptable . i always thought that hindiusim forbids at a time two marriages. and the forum also says the same in addition to all the movies and shows i have watched, also if there is norm in soicety ppl have to live with it, and didnt they marry in court first and then went to mandir??

i want 2 ans ur quesn.till 1952 Hinduism allowed polygamy & polyandry(means multiple husband) but then Pt. Jawahar lal Nehru's govt. passed the Hindu Marriage Act which prohibits the both!!till 2000 or mid 2000 many Hindus bcame bigamous by converting 2 Islam (though remain Hindu but 4 marriage bcum Muslim) and 1st wife cudn't do anything but then a case came where such thing happened & court made it illegal if any already married Hindu married a 2nd woman after getting converted 2 Islam then his 2nd marriage bcums illegal!!
@tanvismile ur logics now cracking me up!! and they r quite similar 2 sum1else in the oder forums!!😆😆😆
and abt marrying in front of God doesn't mean u r married atleast in 2days world where all aspects r thot. its not the case of raja Dushyant & Shkuntala where king did gandhrava vivah wid her & went away & later on after getting his memory back accepted her(every1 knows this story so don't write in detail)
and now-a-days if sum1 marries in a temple widout society's apporoval & even an unmarried boy puts sindoor & MS on an unmarried gal then this marriage isn't legal nor it has any meaning. but if they registered it in the court then its legal. and marriage in "Arya Samaj mandir" is sanctioned by law & society(but its applicable only 4 unmarried or legally separated couples) but still they've registerd it in the court of law!!
so u acn't say that marriage in front of God is sanctioned by society or law or even God. i don't think any God"ll sanction & bless those prsn who'd hurted sum innocent prsn.though i know god is all-compassionate even 2wards the sinners/criminals but he won't reward them . he amy 4give them but he won't interfere in the consequences of their "Bad Karmas"!!😊
so plz don't make us laugh & misinterpret law or social customs or religious rituals or symbols!!!it"ll b great "ahsaan" on Indian esply Hindu marriage laws & relgious sentiments!!😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Tanvismille:

lets assume that Gauri is in a legal relationship with Jagya.

And that marriage is marriage..

I say : So what!???
That does NOT change the fact that she is selfish, insensitive, uncaring woman.

How will you defend :

a) Gauri wanted to tarnish the character of Anandi to make her marriage ( which you say is legal) Legal?

b) Gauri was Happy at Anandi's misery

c) Gauri has NO respect towards Jagat's parents

d) She completely undermines the favors she got from Anandi when she was young ?

and the list goes on.

So lets see WHICH LAW will help you prove that the above mentioned things about gauri are untrue?!!


Wife or not, she remains a disgusting, selfish, woman. If she had a little bit of sense left in her , or some sort of conscience she will definitely not have done what she did with Anandi.


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