TB: High voltage drama unfolds in Balika Vadhu! - Page 9

Yes it 2011,law is surely imp,if any rista hapens then first comes registration,then parents gives permission for gal,boy to roam n al,then comes actual marriage,the pheras n al,nowadays people spend so much money on the weddings,somewhere we r deep rooted to our traditions ,otherwise there is no need to spend money,time on al this.if it is meaningles then y do we do it?a gal doesnt become emotional wen she signs the paper bt becomes emotional wen sindoor is put in mang,rituals do play an imp role in our lives ,law is needed to protect urself ,to be secured becoz it is kaliyug.

surely u thinking dat u r married to bill gates wont make his wife,very true bt gauri isnt thinking dat she is married bt she knows the fact she married ,it is nt fantasy but reality which took place months ago.now it is total different matter if rituals dnt hold any imp in ur eyes n al wat papers a piece of paper.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

surely u thinking dat u r married to bill gates wont make his wife,very true bt gauri isnt thinking dat she is married bt she knows the fact she married ,it is nt fantasy but reality which took place months ago.now it is total different matter if rituals dnt hold any imp in ur eyes n al wat papers a piece of paper.

Okay, so Gauri believes she is married because she has indomitable faith in rituals?!!! Good. Then a girl with so much faith in rituals should also believe in Anandi's wifely rights too. Because if Gauri believes that she is married just because Jagya put some sindoor in front of "god", then Jagya did the same for Anandi too and in a more ceremonious way in front of a whole village. Moreover, our old Hindu rituals say that a marriage is "saat janmo ka rishta" and cannot be annuled, so there is no way Jagya and Anandi's relationship can be annuled in terms of rituals. Since Gauri has so much faith in ritualistic marriage, and is such a faithful follower of rituals, why does she refuse to accept Anandi as Jagya's wife then? Why does she scream her lungs out every time Jagya talks to Anandi? Why did she have a problem when J has contact with A or went to save A? Anandi is also married to Jagya na, by the same rituals, so she also has equal rights as a wife, isn't it? If rituals are so important, then why not respect them fully, and apply their validity for everyone? Or does Daactar Gauri's rituals have selective privilege just like her selective memory?🤣

We r deep rooted to the rituals ,bt wat if they turn into burden.after a point in life,jagya n anandi s relationship turned sour ,continuation of relationship would be meaningless ,so whats meaning of the rituals?y should one follow them n when j said he wont keep any connection with A,then y should she accept his contact with A.Talking abt rituals ,they r imp but its no point caring them when the same emotional bonding doesnt exist.

OMG!!😆😆😆😆wat a defn of marriage!!😆😆just sum1 puts sindoor & MS 2 a gal in front of god shes married. now-a-days marriage in temple except "Arya Samaj Mandir"(bcoz its sanctione dby law & they've 2 tell abt this 2 the court of law later on & shud b btn 2 unmarried ppl) r not snactioned by either society or law!!and even marriage at "arya samaj mandir" is legal only after its regd!!

Originally posted by: tanvismile

We r deep rooted to the rituals ,bt wat if they turn into burden.after a point in life,jagya n anandi s relationship turned sour ,continuation of relationship would be meaningless ,so whats meaning of the rituals?y should one follow them n when j said he wont keep any connection with A,then y should she accept his contact with A.Talking abt rituals ,they r imp but its no point caring them when the same emotional bonding doesnt exist.

okay.accepted.the relation was devoid of emotional strings,at least from jagat's side.but wont it have been better if J and A would have got a formal divorce before making a mockery of three lives?how do you defend this tanvi?

Yes surely j is free,it wil be dat g is getting punished for trusting him,bt her inner self wil be clean dat she dint cheat him,only loved,married to him,now she is yet to be a mother also.mainly dat she has remained honest,a true relation doesnt need support of law bt nowadays people cheat,betray,thats y law is needed.

No man's an island

Originally posted by: fervour

okay.accepted.the relation was devoid of emotional strings,at least from jagat's side.but wont it have been better if J and A would have got a formal divorce before making a mockery of three lives?how do you defend this tanvi?

ofcourse it wud be better if he had a formal divorce,there is nothing to defend in this

Originally posted by: hooked

<font size="3" color="#0000ff">[I]No man's an island[/I]</font>
[DIV]<font size="3" color="#0000ff">[I][BR][/I]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000ff" size="1">[I][B]What this means is that - we are social creatures and we are bound by societal rules. We cannot expect to just go ahead and o what our heart says. Even if it means just finding someone attractive and loving them and living with them and deciding to have a child with them.[/B][/I]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000ff" size="1">[I][BR][/I]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font size="1" color="#990000">[I][U]You say - Gauri's inner self will remain clean that she didn't cheat him.[/U][/I]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font size="1" color="#0000ff">[B][I]TRUE - She never cheated on Jagya. But is that enough ? Did she not see that he had been dishonest and irresponsible and hurt other people ? Did she not see that by carrying her love for him to living in n expecting his child - she was making the injustice he had done to A, worse ?[/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font size="1" color="#0000ff">[B][I][BR][/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font size="1" color="#0000ff">[B][I]Does Gauri's pure love absolve her of any crime against an innocent girl who also had pure and honest love for Jagya ?[/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font size="1" color="#0000ff">[B][I][BR][/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font size="1" color="#0000ff">[B][I]Does Gauri's knowing that he was not free to marry - and yet choosing to marry him again in the name of love - not become a crime against a third party ?[/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font size="1" color="#0000ff">[B][I][BR][/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font size="1" color="#0000ff">[B][I]Gauri has done no injustice to Jagya. But Gauri has indirectly and knowingly causedgrievoushurt to Anandi an that is unpardonable.[/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font size="1" color="#0000ff">[B][I][BR][/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font size="1">[B][I]<font color="#0000ff">Agreed Jagya is the main culprit here but we are not talking about him.</font>[/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font size="1">[B][I]<font color="#990000">Gauri AIDED n ABETTED a CRIME against Anandi. This act makes her a CRIMINAL too. Gauri's inner self canNOT afford to remain clean when she knows she has snatched another woman's love.</font>[/I][/B]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000ff" size="1">[I][BR][/I]</font>[/DIV][DIV]<font color="#0000ff" size="1">[I][BR][/I]</font>[/DIV]

we r social creatures,we have to follow the law,for r betterment becoz there r less chances of getting harmed in future.ofcourse there r people who just do whats their heart say live life on their terms g never wanted to b in this situation ever we al know dat.now talking abt g snatching other women love!this is wrong ,in geting maried to j she has injustice to A,she has snatched A love,now what happens between a couple in bedroom we dnt know ,so if couple splits,that boys likes someone else then dat someoneelse shouldnt marry the guy becoz it is injustic to other women.in dat case no second relationship can be made,no moving on.again we witnesd wat happened between j n a,did g witness.i know she badmouthed a which was wrong bt beyond dat wat has she done.if today A is suffering then its the kind of life she got,the society she is born .j also cud be blamed bt nt gauri.