Should G be concerned with J's treatment of A ? - Page 2

a person is good or bad.. it can b judged by his/her behaviour with other, not with how he/she behave with u.. there was a time when jagya was very good toward anandi but ended with rude behaviour.. just wait and watch.. he will show his colors to gauri too, but bad luck of jagya, gauri is not like anandi. if he will do any thing wrong with G, she will surely drag him to court.

While the argument can be made that Gauri need not feel any responsibility towards Anandi (though i honestly believe it not to be true as if humans stopped caring about each other, the world would be a very sad place)...The question you asked about whether she should be concerned about his treatment of Anandi - then even from a selfish point of view, I say absolutely. How a person treats others in the world is a window to both his upbringing and his own soul...Any man who treats his girl like a queen but treats the rest of the world like crap is not worth it in my eye. (I remember a tip someone once told me about dating someone new - make a note of how that person treats the waiter because it is a true test of personality). If J was a liar and obviously ill treated anandi then in Gauri's eyes it should be a reason to think twice about his duplicity and his very lack of empathy. As someone else said even from the point of pure self preservation, there is no way in the worth that i would marry a man who had not only cheated his wife and family but had lied to me at all, much less for 5 years.

She fears that maybe seeing Anandi in pain or if both get to spend sometime together the old feelings might come back... She is scared that a spark might ignite b/w A and J

i would simply say

Originally posted by: cloudz

While the argument can be made that Gauri need not feel any responsibility towards Anandi (though i honestly believe it not to be true as if humans stopped caring about each other, the world would be a very sad place)...The question you asked about whether she should be concerned about his treatment of Anandi - then even from a selfish point of view, I say absolutely. How a person treats others in the world is a window to both his upbringing and his own soul...Any man who treats his girl like a queen but treats the rest of the world like crap is not worth it in my eye. (I remember a tip someone once told me about dating someone new - make a note of how that person treats the waiter because it is a true test of personality). If J was a liar and obviously ill treated anandi then in Gauri's eyes it should be a reason to think twice about his duplicity and his very lack of empathy. As someone else said even from the point of pure self preservation, there is no way in the worth that i would marry a man who had not only cheated his wife and family but had lied to me at all, much less for 5 years.

So yes while you could say Gauri need not care about her souten Anandi, purely on thinking about herself, getting married to man who is a liar, a cheat and a despicable human being altogether is not a rational decision in my book

though i think that G need not think of oders regarding her life but defntly 2 think abt oders where her life start affecting oder's life & that 2 badly!!😊😊

I echo most of the sentiments here about why Gauri shud carefully note J's behaviour towards A.

nice question.its realy doesnt mater to g .j has always been nice,he was there wen she was sick,so caring.actuly al anandi related questions ,talking to her b4 mariage is out of question to g.even parents he wasnt bad to them,bt obviously they forcing him to be with a whom he doesnt love then wat he has to leave or go agaisnt parents.so this doesnt make his image bad infront of g.nways u raised nice n sensible question.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

nice question.its realy doesnt mater to g .j has always been nice,he was there wen she was sick,so caring.actuly al anandi related questions ,talking to her b4 mariage is out of question to g.even parents he wasnt bad to them,bt obviously they forcing him to be with a whom he doesnt love then wat he has to leave or go agaisnt parents.so this doesnt make his image bad infront of g.nways u raised nice n sensible question.

Should G be concerned with J's treatment of A ?

Absolutely, J was giving G a live example of wht a rogue he can b. She shud hv been alarmed to see him take her for granted n expecting her to b his mistress but 😲😲😲 she gladly agreed wht a disgusting character G is.🤢

Well said Annika20. Well said! Absolutely nothing excuses Jagya's behavior and any defense of men like him makes for a sorry state of our society of humans as a whole. It's appalling from today's episode even how Gauri has now joined him in lying and living a lie. The only thought troubling her is how the situation adversely affects HER and ethical considerations do not even feature in her thought processes.