Should G be concerned with J's treatment of A ? - Page 3

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Gauri should certainly be concerned. If she wasnt concerned why did she land up in his house for ashirwad? Thats because man is a social animal and people cant live in an island. So how can she remain unconcerned about what happens to Anandi?
Also as someone mentioned from a purely self preservation pov also Gauri should be concerned. If Jagya feels no affection or respect for the people who loved him and cared for him for 20+ years what guarantees can he provide her? He would probably get bored of her if he feels someone better has come along. Or perhaps discard her once he thinks her utility is over just like he did with Anandi. If he called his relationship with Anandi as friendship he might say Gauri is a teenage crush.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

nice question.its realy doesnt mater to g .j has always been nice,he was there wen she was sick,so caring.actuly al anandi related questions ,talking to her b4 mariage is out of question to g.even parents he wasnt bad to them,bt obviously they forcing him to be with a whom he doesnt love then wat he has to leave or go agaisnt parents.so this doesnt make his image bad infront of g.nways u raised nice n sensible question.


for gauri jagya has been very nice, he saved her from ragging
then that pub incident , jagya and gauri running from those loafers
his possesiveness towards her, when he took care of her when she suffered from typhoid,
he lied yes but he really cares for gauri and yes he loves her, and gauri knows it too
thats why she tooh the decision , after all u want to be with a person who loves u like mad
and yes j love for g is mad, j a person who is selfish , still wants to be with g even though he knew perfectly if he chooses g over a what will he loose
when he was dumped by g , it would have been very easy he would have gone back to a , everyone in the haveli would have given him a resounding welcome except maybe bhairon and he would have been stiull treated as a hero
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Of course G should be concerned...Jagya is being nice to her because right now he is in love with her.He was very nice with Anandi also when they were together so jagya is a very good loverboy cant comment wether he'll be a good husband.
Gauri can rest in peace as long as she is able to hold J's intrests,agrees to his whims and fancies and do not overshadow him professionally.
If she fails in these then it'll be trouble.So lets see how long they are able to hold on together.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Anika-i m sory i wont be able to reply properly bcoz i m writing frm cel.as u talked abt for sake of herself she shud hv met A.just imagine u came to no truth after 5 yrs u r broken down ,trying to help ur ownself dat time u wil think abt A? ur bf begs u ,asks u one chance ,pleads u ,the same situation dat j created ,u r alone ,if der is someone who raises questions like u raised here.then its diff.then due to bond u shared with him(not to forget the pts indrufest postd)u r forcd to forgive .love empowers over other emotions.so in this ,al those thoughts to arise which u said is posible?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Anika-if u put urself in her place n see earlier episodes again then u l understand her.now ul thinking as general viewer .fr the sake of herself there is no need to meet a nor a was thrown on roads.a had entire famil y suport with her.so need to wory abt her.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

Anika-if u put urself in her place n see earlier episodes again then u l understand her.now ul thinking as general viewer .fr the sake of herself there is no need to meet a nor a was thrown on roads.a had entire famil y suport with her.so need to wory abt her.


arre tanvi everyone in the show each and every character should be concerned for a , if they r not they r bad
u see anadi is a devi and anyone who does not worship her or care towards her is bad
does not matter if the person is very good to other ppl, that does not count , if the person is not good to anandi, he will face the wrath hahhaa😈
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@intruderfast

You guys are absolutely taking it the other way! Who says Anandi is a devi and everyone should care for her?!

I said Gauri should have thought that if this guy could do such a thing to one woman, then he could it with her too! She should have expressed reservations about her OWN future with him, NOT Anandi's future!!

Yehi keh rahi hoon bas!

Apne matblab ko toh soch kar dekhti na!

About Jagya's drama in rain outside the house, I think Gauri should have been sympathetic towards him, taken him to the hospital, but politely told him to first formally (either through law or by calling a Panchayat) put Anandi out of his life and close the A chapter and then she wold gladly marry him!

The problem with girls is that they easily give in to emotional blackmail of this sort.

I was in her place I would have thought how childish and dramebaaz this boy is being!

And he's learnt such techniques from DS! Exactly how she too runs away from home and sits in an obscure kuttiya in the fields without telling the family (simply coz she doesn't want to see A educated!) or gives up eating or feigns a heart attack and blackmails everyone due to her old age!

I know Gauri did not know about J or his background. But she should have handled things rationally.

Love is one thing. But if it's a matter of your life, you should think very hard.

Even in modern urban areas there are young girls who get cheated by older married men or NRIs - they blindly marry them without checking stuff and thinking rationally and then have to live with harsh reality all their lives!

Zamaana kahan jaa raha hai...in this age girls have to be careful. An uneducated rural girl may get duped. But an educated girl has to keep her eyes, ears and brain open and think for her own security!

Who's demanding her to think about Anandi's future?! Apni life toh sambhaal leti na!

Being someone was cheated and duped in childhood, she should have led her life and conducted herself in an even extra-careful manner!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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arre annika , i understand , both jagya gauri have been foolish ,jagya more law ko dhang se nahin dekha isiliye popat ho gayaa😆😆😆
she thought the anadi chapter has been finished for jagya ,he told her kii rishta tut chuka hain uskaa anandi ke saath
jagya told her that family has disowned him , i think that was the point when gauri mood started changing again
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I guess i have 2 repeat something again, Ignorance of law is no excuse for breaking it.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: intruderfast


for gauri jagya has been very nice, he saved her from ragging
then that pub incident , jagya and gauri running from those loafers
his possesiveness towards her, when he took care of her when she suffered from typhoid,
he lied yes but he really cares for gauri and yes he loves her, and gauri knows it too
thats why she tooh the decision , after all u want to be with a person who loves u like mad
and yes j love for g is mad, j a person who is selfish , still wants to be with g even though he knew perfectly if he chooses g over a what will he loose
when he was dumped by g , it would have been very easy he would have gone back to a , everyone in the haveli would have given him a resounding welcome except maybe bhairon and he would have been stiull treated as a hero


Well that's exactly what I said. Such type of overtly NICE behaviour he has shown towards Anandi too. Many times!

He was possessive about Anandi too. He would quarrel with even DS if he saw her being too harsh towards A. He once even ran from home to Anandi's village when DS kicked her out of the house. He would give up eating food and wouldn't sleep for days if DS made Anandi suffer too much. He would brag about Anandi and her skills (be it cooking or studying) in front of his friends. He was always ''Meri beendni yeh, meri beendni woh!'' He was only one who managed to convince DS to let her study so that she could also help him in his assignments and convinced her to let Anandi play gulli danda with him much to DS' objection! Even before running away from home to Mumbai, when he left a letter behind, he had addressed that letter to Anandi and left it for her, NOT for his mother or DS or any other member of the family! When he was overpowered by goons, he would cry and constantly think of Anandi!

When Anandi took a gun shot for him, he cried like crazy, gave up eating, didn't sleep all night and kept praying all the time in the mandir near the hospital till Anandi regained consciousness! [No one goes to such an extent for just a friend, in fact he never did such things even for his own sister. His attachment was deeper than mere friendship]

He broke down when Bhairon took the decision of sending Anandi to her parents' till she turned 18. He literally begged everyone to get his Bapusa change his decision! He would send love letters and gifts to Anandi throughout, visit her village in disguise just to get one glimpse of her. For every thing he took Anandi's help in convincing parents or DS. His SR or his honeymoon with Anandi - what was that? [If we say he did it coz he was full of hormones, then why did he wait for Anandi? He could have got involved with any other girl in the village if he was so desperate!]

This type of NICE, POSSESSIVE or ATTACHMENT type behaviour, he's shown for Anandi for many years!

So his niceness for Gauri is nothing extraordinary or special or one of a kind!

He is not coming back to Anandi, because he has lost face! He himself broke up with her on phone and declared he had thrown her out of his life. He treated her and anyone who supported her, like dirt. Now how can he come back?! Also, he is not back, because Anandi is not educated and ''modern'' like Gauri. Her not being educated is the main reason he thinks she is not fit for his new-found status!

And I don't know about you guys or your viewpoint, but personally I would never call such a person 100% NICE who had been blatantly lying to me, fooling everyone in college from professors to classmates about even his own name and birthplace! I would appreciate some nice things he did, but would certainly doubt him for being such a big time liar.

A lie is justified only if it is told for a higher or noble cause. What noble or higher intentions did Jagya have in even lying about his own name and birthplace??! [Child marriage I can understand, but being ashamed of your background is weakness of character!]

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