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Posted: 3 years ago
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I know for past some episodes they are doing blunder but I think they are doing it just due to their nature or past

Ram doesn't even know that vedika left him for money and before priya he used to love vedika Now he has truly moved on but still the soft corner didn't go which is quiet natural guys. You think you have loved someone for so many years suddenly due to some unfortunate circumstances (created by vedika which ram doesn't know) you have a breakup. Even if you move on you won't have a soft corner for that person?? Ofcourse you will have that and in ram's case this soft corner won't go until and unless vedika is out of his life. Vedika was never out of his life was she?? She came in the kapoor mansion due to a well planned plot and she is not staying there due to ram but she is there due to priya as she successfully created the image of bechari victim. And vedika has always shown herself to be ram's well-wishers so considering her as a friend ram shared his marital issues. I know that's wrong and heights of stupidity but from nowhere I see he is cheating priya by doing this. He just needs to see her true face and trust priya and communicate with her❤️

Regarding priya I know the statement was rude that kahi mr kapoor ms ki tarah to nai chorenge but it was not said consciously she said this from an insecurity, fear and pain. You think a woman who has a father like that f**king a**h*le ms will she so easily come out of that pain and trust relationships?? No it's not easy it's really difficult. Still after marriage she has started trusting ram and deep down she knows that ram is a very good person but sometimes her past comes to haunt her and refrain her from trusting relationships. But I am sure one day she will completely come out of this shell and start loving ram❤️

So who is the main villain for all these misunderstandings none other than that nagin vedika🤬

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Dont know if u are married, but as someone married & older than many of u here let me tell u marriage comes with a protocol. Regardless of whether your ex is a paragon of virtue or an evil vamp, (a) u have an obligation to tell your spouse about him/her, (b) u dont share the personal details of your marriage with your ex without your spouse’s knowledge / consent, and (c) you cant behave with the level of intimacy that Ram shares with Vedika (Ram also hugs Brinda or holds her hands but never covertly). If your “soft corner” for your ex is taking u beyong these boundaries of marriage, then it is WRONG.


Any functional adult should know this. The root problem is not that Ram doesnt know Vedika’s real ugly face. Even if Vedika was a genuine & nice person, what Ram is doing is still wrong and out of bounds for a married person. The root problem is that Ram is not setting these boundaries.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Don't waste your time analyzing ... Ram likes wheat cake, Priya likes kachori ...

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Don't waste your time analyzing ... Ram likes Wheat Cake, Priya likes Kachori ... Period

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bana

Dont know if u are married, but as someone married & older than many of u here let me tell u marriage comes with a protocol. Regardless of whether your ex is a paragon of virtue or an evil vamp, (a) u have an obligation to tell your spouse about him/her, (b) u dont share the personal details of your marriage with your ex without your spouse’s knowledge / consent, and (c) you cant behave with the level of intimacy that Ram shares with Vedika (Ram also hugs Brinda or holds her hands but never covertly). If your “soft corner” for your ex is taking u beyong these boundaries of marriage, then it is WRONG.


Any functional adult should know this. The root problem is not that Ram doesnt know Vedika’s real ugly face. Even if Vedika was a genuine & nice person, what Ram is doing is still wrong and out of bounds for a married person. The root problem is that Ram is not setting these boundaries.

I don't think that we have to talk about all past relationships and all. But obviously when you bring her under the roof ask her permission tell the full story yaar. Rest 💯

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I think Ram knows very well that he was not able to marry Vedika because he was not rich. We get to know this during Shivina and Akk's marriage track. When Vedika tries to tell Ram that Akki is not right person because his family member tried to harm Ram giving Prawn. At that time she tells him about what her dad told her during her wedding - that it is better to marry some one from the right background. The other instance is when he is sitting in room and there is monologue where in he says , just because someone is poor they shouldnt have to loose the love of their life. This clearly shows that Ram is well aware of Vedika and why she left him.


Here the problem is Ram's behaviour towards Vedika. Having a good will for an ex is absolutely fine. But body language matters. The way he talks to her and the physical proximity behind the walls is not right. If he is that close to her then he should show that closeness in front of all. Any such behaviour where he knows that is not right then he shouldnt do it with out anyone 's knowledge. Many a times we have seen him holding her hands and talking , when someone comes he pulls his hand away. He doesnt do that with Brinda. So why show difference with Vedika. So , somewhere deep in his heart he knows what he is doing is not right .


Another point is why discuss his marriage problem with his ex. I remember in one of the scenes he had refused to tell her the reason for their fight. Now they have literally messed up with Ram's character just to give importance to Vedika and Ram. It is very difficult to think about Ram and Priya together because there isnt one sensible scene that we can associate with leads. Even if they show it , editing is so poor.


Unless they show Vedika loosing her grounds , enjoying Ram and Priya's romance is very difficult. To top it all , now its all about Vedika , than Priya. I mean she is the one who has got injured but if you see , there is nothing where in the FL is getting importance. Just to make viewers happy they bring in Ram and Priya scene. And what we get to see is ML sympathising , or thinking that his wife - FL will be angry with him etc. There isnt any proper dialogues or scenes that are planned between the FL and ML.

Everything is between Vedika and Ram or Vedika and the rest of the gang. I am really confused as to who is the Female Lead in this show.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bana

Dont know if u are married, but as someone married & older than many of u here let me tell u marriage comes with a protocol. Regardless of whether your ex is a paragon of virtue or an evil vamp, (a) u have an obligation to tell your spouse about him/her, (b) u dont share the personal details of your marriage with your ex without your spouse’s knowledge / consent, and (c) you cant behave with the level of intimacy that Ram shares with Vedika (Ram also hugs Brinda or holds her hands but never covertly). If your “soft corner” for your ex is taking u beyong these boundaries of marriage, then it is WRONG.


Any functional adult should know this. The root problem is not that Ram doesnt know Vedika’s real ugly face. Even if Vedika was a genuine & nice person, what Ram is doing is still wrong and out of bounds for a married person. The root problem is that Ram is not setting these boundaries.

I have being saying this for a very long time. There is no communication between the leads. Ram definitely has a different set of rules than Priya. Ram clearly knows ex whose status is either friend or brother-in-law, is just plain ex. How come he is not following the same rule. They have made the ML into a disgusting character for sure. Vedika having an agenda or not is irrelevant here!
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bana

Dont know if u are married, but as someone married & older than many of u here let me tell u marriage comes with a protocol. Regardless of whether your ex is a paragon of virtue or an evil vamp, (a) u have an obligation to tell your spouse about him/her, (b) u dont share the personal details of your marriage with your ex without your spouse’s knowledge / consent, and (c) you cant behave with the level of intimacy that Ram shares with Vedika (Ram also hugs Brinda or holds her hands but never covertly). If your “soft corner” for your ex is taking u beyong these boundaries of marriage, then it is WRONG.


Any functional adult should know this. The root problem is not that Ram doesnt know Vedika’s real ugly face. Even if Vedika was a genuine & nice person, what Ram is doing is still wrong and out of bounds for a married person. The root problem is that Ram is not setting these boundaries.

Bold: I have never seen ram being too much intimate with vedika😕. All I saw was he was holding her hand and suddenly took his hands away after his friends came. There can be negative reasons but there can be positive reasons also. Before his marriage with priya ram used to love vedika hence maybe that's why he felt uncomfortable. Some people feel uncomfortable to hold their ex's hands infront of everyone. But ram has crossed that also now he just thinks her as a friend

I am a first year engineering student😃. Now regarding sharing the details yes it's wrong but he is just considering her as a friend. Here ram and priya are married for 3 months (according to show) so I don't think they will have a perfect knowledge of a good marriage. Plus in depressing state when priya compares ram with mahendra sood that's a kind of disrespect and when ram shares all his problems with ex without informing priya about his past(though I genuinely felt bad for her) that's also a disrespect so disrespect is from both sides. I still think ram's character is not degraded it's just that he is stupid and dumb of highest order. I still believe the serial is not degraded much👍🏼

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: tirchinazar

Don't waste your time analyzing ... Ram likes wheat cake, Priya likes kachori ...

Cvs are planning to make it vedika ki kahaani🤣. Anyways I still hope this track will end for good 🙏🙏🙏
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: JustAnEngineer

I don't think that we have to talk about all past relationships and all. But obviously when you bring her under the roof ask her permission tell the full story yaar. Rest 💯

Well even if priya would have known ram's past she would have still let her stay there which ram also knows but still he doesn't wants to share his past plus the situations are also worst

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