::Bade Achhe Lagte Hai S2:: EDT #7 - Page 2

Ram is conditioned that way. He is easily manipulated by his family. In fact he was shocked when Priya signed the contract, Priya signed the annulment. She is someone he is unable to get hold of. Each time his family tells him something, he does it, Priya’s actions does make him question himself. By now, he knows Priya is not after his money. Returning 5% has hurt his ego too. She didn’t buy anything during Diwali too and she says that I know I don’t have hasiyat to buy these things. I will only spend according to my lifestyle. After becoming Ram’s wife, Priya remains Priya. He is unable to comprehend her. By the way, earlier episodes made me realize DP has played Priya with conviction. She shines in all her scenes. Simple look make her character extremely believable.

She has fallen for Ram and with Meera Maa’s guidance she will reduce to abla, pativatra nari. My personal opinion is that even if she doesn’t leave KM, she should question Ram on his actions and decisions, give him hard time so that he can start thinking logically

Originally posted by: ajacob31

I don’t agree with Priya leaving KM to become her own self. She should do it staying in KM and being close to her enemies. It may work against her and be beneficial to the foes if she leaves KM.

She was awesome in the beginning episodes who spoke up and stood up for herself and her family.

Priya needs to be the Priya she was before marriage smart and articulate…she needs to perceive the people around her better…if she has to leave KM to do that…she will hurt the kindest people…herself…Ram…her own family who will feel sad at her martial problems….

nothing could be better than staying at KM…being there for her husband who genuinely places others before himself and for herself she should be there to protect her marriage from the Ill intentional family members who would love to see Ram as their unhappy servant…

Ram has lived without a mom and dad…yet he has so much love to share…

both Ram and Priya are blessed to have each other…that is what we all love…they are such great characters that there is this hope of a great future…

If communication was better perhaps Ram could have been a better partner…when he wasn’t there for his wife…

if Priya knew Ram didn’t make annulment papers she wouldn’t have been eager to sign…

At Meera ma’s house when Nandini tells Ram to tell Meera that he will be leaving Priya Ram says I will discuss this Priya then decide what to do next…

yes Priya and Ram’s characteristics that we love have both diminished but with better communication both can be an immense support to each other and take care of both families.

Even when Priya decided not to give Shubum the 5%…she said it is for his good…I am a teacher I know you don’t just give things to a student the student has to earn it.

If Ram knew why Priya was returning the 5% he would have appreciated her more…

So together Ram and Priya could be great for each other without neglecting both families…

but then the writer wouldn’t be EK…

if Priya needs to leave KM for others (RAM) to appreciate her value…so be it

the way she is now she is better independent and alone…because in reality she isn’t alone…she has her self confidence her faith and a loving family…

Ram on the other hand…will be alone…no family…but he does have great friends and perhaps he was happy before Priya came into his life. He definitely did not sulk….

but together they could have a future only seen in fairytales ❤️

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

She has fallen for Ram and with Meera Maa’s guidance she will reduce to abla, pativatra nari. My personal opinion is that even if she doesn’t leave KM, she should question Ram on his actions and decisions, give him hard time so that he can start thinking logically

She is not using her own logic... I don't blame her for not using it... It will only come out miraculously when ram gets sick or someone is impeding her job or someone close to her is hurting 😥.. She is not pratigna .. she is Priya... Like ram,she too has her blindspots , especially when she trusts a person and person turns out to be out right doblapan Wala insaan right in front of her/to her... Till then, she is okay giving the benefit of doubt.

They are just married for few weeks now. Yes, they have a communication problem because they never wanted marriage in the first place. They have been independent the whole life, so they take decisions on their own. No one has ever questioned Ram like the way Priya does, others have been just sweet talkers. Priya never shows her care verbally whereas Ram wants that because of the environment he grew up in. Priya is a big puzzle for Ram. She is able to read his mind, do small things that make him happy but when decisions have to be made she does it on her own. He is basically confused. He also afraid that Priya always tells that it’s a contract marriage, so any situation comes, she will just walk away. She had done it before during the annulment track. Now that Priya is ready to give up 5%, he thinks that Priya still doesn’t take the marriage seriously. He is getting mixed signals from her

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

Ram is conditioned that way. He is easily manipulated by his family. In fact he was shocked when Priya signed the contract, Priya signed the annulment. She is someone he is unable to get hold of. Each time his family tells him something, he does it, Priya’s actions does make him question himself. By now, he knows Priya is not after his money. Returning 5% has hurt his ego too. She didn’t buy anything during Diwali too and she says that I know I don’t have hasiyat to buy these things. I will only spend according to my lifestyle. After becoming Ram’s wife, Priya remains Priya. He is unable to comprehend her. By the way, earlier episodes made me realize DP has played Priya with conviction. She shines in all her scenes. Simple look make her character extremely believable.

Sorry for butting in..i dont think it's the ego that's hurt. He accepted her taking that step of what she did by going to the temple. That was the gift he accepted..he started seeing her as someone very close, as family as his own. No one did that for him. In turn he wanted to gift her something that would make her a bit secure and will also let him take care of her. Priya returned that without even talking to him. It's like one day they had dinner and next day ram returns the coupons Priya gifted him..Priya's ego won't be hurt but her heart. She has returned something that he gave her as her husband and he explained it to her as well that he wants to take care of her and she should allow him with that. However by returning him that she is taking away that right to take care of him, denying him that request in turn taking them back to the starting point.

Read my earlier post, Priya is giving him mixed signals and he is afraid to lose her. By the way, don’t be sorry. I watched earlier episodes and was trying to understand Ram & Priya character 😉

I think I agree with you, she deserves a little benefit of doubt. She is new to this place and she has seen her husband speak highly of his family and last but most important one always percieves others that way one is.

So because she is a straight forward and a kind hearted person she does not suspect them of stooping so low or so full of malice for her husband.

Usually in such cases either the girl’s mother or sister or some close friend who kind of reads people well can guide or warn her to be a bit wary of certain ppl or that they get some negative vibes. Like when Sara said she does not find Vedika genuine.. not sure why but she sees some issue with her.

Also, Meera Maa being Meera Maa, don’t expect her to guide or warn her in this regard at least.

Also in their monologues they assume a lot about each other and hence they don’t communicate properly. In fact Vedika & Neeraj are helping them to get closer because with each MU, there will be a fight which will lead to Ram & Priya to communicate what is in their heart and understand each other better.

Ok, question for the ones watching from ep-1…

What does Sarah’s husband do? What’s the story here? Do we at least have a name and age of her kid? Does she or anyone in family talk about them?Why is their cafe called baked with love? Any story of it?

Why is she at her maternal place most of the time?

I ve been scrubbing past videos of episodes... can’t seem to find anything….also Sony edits the episodes on YouTube as compared to originals telecasted to avoid copyright,I think. So.. I want to make sure I didn’t miss something here.

Ps: asking for research 🧐 I order to write an ff. Kindly let me know..if you know.