::Bade Achhe Lagte Hai S2:: EDT #7 - Page 3

We need the smart Priya back who used to think logically and tackle sticky situations. We also want a much more logical Ram whose mind does not flip flop based on who influences him the most. He was always emotionally weak, so cannot change him drastically.

We definitely don’t need Meera ma’s intervention here with her stupid reasonings.

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

Ram is conditioned that way. He is easily manipulated by his family. In fact he was shocked when Priya signed the contract, Priya signed the annulment. She is someone he is unable to get hold of. Each time his family tells him something, he does it, Priya’s actions does make him question himself. By now, he knows Priya is not after his money. Returning 5% has hurt his ego too. She didn’t buy anything during Diwali too and she says that I know I don’t have hasiyat to buy these things. I will only spend according to my lifestyle. After becoming Ram’s wife, Priya remains Priya. He is unable to comprehend her. By the way, earlier episodes made me realize DP has played Priya with conviction. She shines in all her scenes. Simple look make her character extremely believable.

I wouldn't hold onto that idea. There'll come a day someone will tell Ram that Priya is a gold digger and he'll believe it. Maybe not straight away but from what we've seen, he can easily be manipulated.

Like others have said, even I want Priya to pay Ram back the loan money.

The changes in Priya are a result from Ram's views on her. Him constantly saying that she is 'khadoos' and is always taunting. That's why I feel she's toned down.

She hasn't seen Ram's family directly targeting at her family or at Ram hence we can't expect that she becomes the tigress we've seen earlier.

Unlike Ram, she doesn't jump to conclusions or she would have assumed about Ram and Vedika by now.

They just mentioned once or twice that she has a husband and a kid, nothing more… also once Priya mentioned that Sara’s marriage is also not a happy one.

On second thoughts, there is a risk even Sara may forget that she has a husband or kid and after the dance get going with Shubhu 😆

Only request to the makers is create some situations like the one when Ram fell sick etc where they get to know each other and the relationship progresses, rather than concentrate on the negative characters as it is robbing the time from some beautiful moments and a meaningful story.

They need to understand their audience and get rid of the archaic formula based ideas and stop putting so much efforts to rope in TRP aunties, because once they reject a show they don’t come back whatever changes are made.

Sorry for digressing.

Haha another mystery for sure🤣 Even Nandini raised this question recently.

Even for KC, Sarah broke her fast thru video call and nothing more was shown. In ep. 1,Sarah wants to go home and Priya mentions something like her chintu might not have been given food, I am assuming a younger child here. And with all of this, she stays in her mom’s home. Big mystery, may come out when CV’s are out of plots or may be never. 🤣

There was one epi where Sara was in distress and Priya asked if jiju was ok or something happened to Chintoo. So at least, Sara's kid pet name is Chintoo.

In another epi, Priya said 'bachey think hain?' which indicates that Sara has at least two kids.

I don't remember any other info regarding Sara's husband.

Originally posted by: Armansara

Priya needs to be the Priya she was before marriage smart and articulate…she needs to perceive the people around her better…if she has to leave KM to do that…she will hurt the kindest people…herself…Ram…her own family who will feel sad at her martial problems….

nothing could be better than staying at KM…being there for her husband who genuinely places others before himself and for herself she should be there to protect her marriage from the Ill intentional family members who would love to see Ram as their unhappy servant…

Ram has lived without a mom and dad…yet he has so much love to share…

both Ram and Priya are blessed to have each other…that is what we all love…they are such great characters that there is this hope of a great future…

If communication was better perhaps Ram could have been a better partner…when he wasn’t there for his wife…

if Priya knew Ram didn’t make annulment papers she wouldn’t have been eager to sign…

At Meera ma’s house when Nandini tells Ram to tell Meera that he will be leaving Priya Ram says I will discuss this Priya then decide what to do next…

yes Priya and Ram’s characteristics that we love have both diminished but with better communication both can be an immense support to each other and take care of both families.

Even when Priya decided not to give Shubum the 5%…she said it is for his good…I am a teacher I know you don’t just give things to a student the student has to earn it.

If Ram knew why Priya was returning the 5% he would have appreciated her more…

So together Ram and Priya could be great for each other without neglecting both families…

but then the writer wouldn’t be EK…

if Priya needs to leave KM for others (RAM) to appreciate her value…so be it

the way she is now she is better independent and alone…because in reality she isn’t alone…she has her self confidence her faith and a loving family…

Ram on the other hand…will be alone…no family…but he does have great friends and perhaps he was happy before Priya came into his life. He definitely did not sulk….

but together they could have a future only seen in fairytales ❤️

@bold I don't agree with this thought of yours. In my opinion he was not happy he just showed that he was happy exactly like a saying " fake it till you make it". Because a happy person doesn't binge on junk food, They usually do this when they don't have emotional support and understanding from family. And since priya enter she provided that emotional understanding to him which he has been deprived off since his father's death. that's why he doesn't disapprove of Priya's healthy food whereas before his marriage he would always dodge a conversation related to his food habits.

I always feel like if a person is only expressing a single emotion on every situation that means there is a very deeper psychological issue it him/her. Because a person who is truly happy will let themselves feel every emotion even anger and sadness because they have someone who they believe and expect from to understand them. And that's exactly what's happening with ram according to me. Before he won't let himself feel anything except happiness because he felt he didn't have a companion who would understand his other emotions but after his marriage as he says priya understand his wants and needs before he could express them so any emotional distance with Priya makes him sad, depressed, scared and restless which he don't understand himself yet. He is projecting all his emotions through anger. Because he is not used to let himself feel all these emotions.

Whereas priya is used to feeling all her emotions, so she is able to categorise all her emotions according to the situation. She knows when she is feeling what and why because her family always provided her that emotional understanding.

The TRP drop may knock some sense into the makers, otherwise we are in for more Vedika-Nandini-mama- mami-Shubham tracks.

How much can they drag a b’day party track just blows my mind.Next might be the Akki-Anjali track or the college FB track. The serial is slowly losing it’s plot.

Originally posted by: Balh2fan

They just mentioned once or twice that she has a husband and a kid, nothing more… also once Priya mentioned that Sara’s marriage is also not a happy one.

On second thoughts, there is a risk even Sara may forget that she has a husband or kid and after the dance get going with Shubhu 😆

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

They are just married for few weeks now. Yes, they have a communication problem because they never wanted marriage in the first place. They have been independent the whole life, so they take decisions on their own. No one has ever questioned Ram like the way Priya does, others have been just sweet talkers. Priya never shows her care verbally whereas Ram wants that because of the environment he grew up in. Priya is a big puzzle for Ram. She is able to read his mind, do small things that make him happy but when decisions have to be made she does it on her own. He is basically confused. He also afraid that Priya always tells that it’s a contract marriage, so any situation comes, she will just walk away. She had done it before during the annulment track. Now that Priya is ready to give up 5%, he thinks that Priya still doesn’t take the marriage seriously. He is getting mixed signals from her

I agree with you 💯.

Priya is a big puzzle for him as he has never met someone like her before. She is independent to a point that if Ram is not in her life the next day it won't really make a difference in her life. She can just continue it like before. And her reminding him this in small things that is not a big deal for her is a very big deal for him. He is used to people depending on him either emotionally or financially but priya is a person who doesn't depend on him in either aspect whereas he has started to depend on her emotionally way to much.