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I 100% agree with you Sree 😊

It's wrong to blame Aastha for everything. Even till now, they haven't told her the truth about Abhi-Kiran. How long will they wait 😡

Originally posted by: coolgal

I 100% agree with you Sree 😊

It's wrong to blame Aastha for everything. Even till now, they haven't told her the truth about Abhi-Kiran. How long will they wait 😡

They will wait until the right time 😕, which never comes.

Originally posted by: innocentindian

yep - i agree with you sree!!
...and therefore by default, i now agree with some of the stuff wawa chikoo/scorpi have also been writing....how about that then guys?

Not that I wanted you to agree to my opinion, but now when you do, what can I say... 😳 😃 😉

Please do not agree with me, if you do not want, you have your own opinions, that's perfectly okay!

But please do not make assumptions about my sex. How can you assume that I am a guy 😕? Again, no offense 😃😳😳

Originally posted by: kamathrekha

I dont agree with chikoo and coolgal atall. In chikoo's case I have always felt from his statement that he doesnot know how mother plays important role in children's life and what is motherly feeling.

Chikoo please answer me how can you blame simran for aastha's present behaviour and also how can you say that aastha is hurt by simran? Thats totally wrong. Did you forget that simran has brought her up for 18 long years when her father was also not around. Simran has given aastha both motherly and fatherly kind of love even though she has not given birth to aastha and she is still giving her enough love despite hearing lot of cheap things from aastha. And this is a very rare case. And all of sudden when aastha came to know the truth she forgot everything for what simran has done for her and felt betrayed. Oh comeon! This is the sign of totally immatured and below average girl. Simran has not betrayed aastha and she didnot wanted to hurt her, thats it. And as for aastha's present behaviour, aastha herself is responsible for it because she is not an understanding girl and intelligent enough for all this things to understand the fact that simran has brought her up in such a way that she was about to teach her medicine and make her doctor. But aastha her again is not intelligent in her studies and failed several times in her exams. That makes her incompetent and immatured girl. And thats the reason people hide things from her and she gets to know the facts from an evil lady like kiran

And as for coolgal, how can you say that an absence of a controlling father is a reason behind aastha's present behaviour.-------completely wrong. That doesnot make any sense atall.

A father's absence should not be blamed for their kids present behaviour.

Comeon coolgal now tell me what about those children who doesnot have father since their childhood etc etc.
Ok lets talk about sia. She also didnot have father for 20 years since her childhood. But she is very matured and behaves like a grownup. She has a understanding nature and intelligent enough to handle situations. So how come you blame absence of father.

Thats not the reason. The reason is aastha is completely immatured and unintelligent and cannot handle the situation well enough.

Originally posted by: chikoo

Please do not agree with me, if you do not want, you have your own opinions, that's perfectly okay!

But please do not make assumptions about my sex. How can you assume that I am a guy 😕? Again, no offense 😃😳😳

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I partially agree with chikoo and coolgal, what I do not understand is Simran's behavior after knowing the truth. If I were her, I would hold my child by her arm and bring her home come what may. First thing I would do is to give her a tight slap and then go over her behavior and the consequences of that. I would not just come back home crying and wait to call my husband. At this point I do feel Abhi and Simran should act up if they really care for the child. They need to use 'sam, dam, dand bhed" as said in our scriptures, i.e. use cleverness, power, strenth, knowleledge, anything that works. What's the use of waiting until the child is toatlly addicted to drugs and then try to help. My Assc. Director had a teenage daughter who ran away from home, got into bad company and now is pregnant at 15. She has drug problems and is not at all ready to come back to her real mom. If parents do not actively participate in their children's life and do not pay close attention to their daily activities, it is a disaster. Both Simran and Abhi have high profile life styles and with both being famous personalities, their children are going to have indentity crisis. This is a good lesson for all the working moms, who sometimes places too much faith in their kids and are overly protective of them.

I do feel bad for Astha yes, but I do not agree with Sree's analogy of Simran. No parent or no mother for that matter raises her child for adversities on the earth. Every parent dreams of a bright and brilliant futre for their off springs. Bear in mind Simran had lost everything in life including her best friend Manas, Astha was her only ray of light, no wonder she kept her close to her heart. Any woman in her position would do the same. No body knows what future hold in store, if we knew what is going to happen in future, we would not do half the thing we are doing now. It is always after the fact.
I understand Astha's leaning towards Kiran and her dependence on her, I would still condone her hatred for Simran. In all fairness, Simran did bring her up with best of values, anyone even close to Simran cannot hate other human being, that is her personna. For Ashta to behave in such a way is strange, unless she has Radhaji's genes of madness. Radhaji had a history of mental illness and Neha though a very sensible and sweet person was very insecure at heart. She practically grew up without a mother. If you recall instead of Radhaji brining up Neha, it was Neha taking care of her mom from a very tender age. I do agree that Simaran did made a mistake in pushing Abhi into Neha's arms inspite of knowing that she still loved him dearly. But she has admitted to that and that is very believable. After being treated by Abhi so badly her ego was still bruised and she allowed it to rule her mind at the time.
Manas was very right when he told Simran that she is being "an other woman" in Neha's life but Simran was too proud to accept it then. Which again is very natural for a person of her kind. I think Ajai Sinha is on the right track. I do agree with his analogy of his characters.
But I too want to see some positive happenings in Ashta's life, maybe she will run into a young man who would re-introduce her to her real self. After all she was a girl of principles, only she has lost her direction for time being. It is only a matter of time before she comes back in her full colors.

I do feel sorry for Simran that she has to go through the trauma of seeing her daughter becoming wayward and of loose behaviour. But I stick to my opinion that Abhi-Simran and Sia are the real culprits.

How?

Simran..like Sree so correctly analyzed, she overprotected Aastha and never let her use her brain. Also, she lied to her on way too many occasions and hence lost her trust.

Abhi...firstly he was never there for Aastha during those crucial years when a child needs his parents the most. Suddenly one fine day he appeared out of nowhere. He does seem to give a preferential treatment to Sia, alienating Aastha further. Furthermore, he never told Aastha the truth abt himself and Kiran. Had Aastha been aware of the real nature of Kiran she would not have been swayed by her.

Sia...she's trying to play a goody-goody, sugary sweet good sister-kind character. Firstly, she distanced Aastha from her by not taking her into confidence on so many things..from her whereabouts to announcing her parents wedding. I dont even think Aastha was consulted when Sia decided to send her parents to Mount Abu for honeymoon. Also, Sia made a blunder when she went to Kiran and blabbered about Aastha. To complicate things, she never spoke up when she suspected that Aastha was meeting Kiran..she thought of doing so only when it was way too late!

So Simran-Abhi-Sia are really responsible for the mess Aastha is in. Maybe the three of them can put together their mature, refined brains and come out with some solution 😕

I agree with coolgal! Well said. 👏 👏
I' m now sick and tired of Sia-Simmi-Abhi mature trio. 😡 😡

Sia-Simran-Abhi should now live happily ever after, "The complete perfect family"........Sia does'nt have to worry about Aastha anymore,she is free to get close to Sid and noone is there to make Abhi-Simran life miserable.......who cares about the motherless child Aastha,they should just forget her and live their own lives 😡