Simran & Abhi Officially Tie The Knot - Page 2

Originally posted by: IndYa4u

O hello Guys... come on now. You all sound so mean and backward thinkers.... come on.. every human being has right to their own happiness. NOONE needs to give up their life for a spoilt brat like Aastha.

And hey you all.. lets not think of this as 2 old pple getting married. Live in todays' world and think about 2 individuals that have gone through lot of pain and suffering and now want to be together.

Lets not forget that pple in US get married when they are in their 70s.... its all about what makes you at ease and live in peace. Now that they are married, they can take care of the brat and deal with her as parents and not papa and Dr. Simran....

I totally agree that in USA ppl are getting married even in their 70s, but lets not forget that so many other things also happened to be in USA like Gay-marriages,etc....we are talking about our culture in which children's problems are ALWAYS the first priority.If the parents are just concerned about their LOVE and HAPPINESS then they should be called MEAN...and u r right,in USA you can see so many ppl leaving their kids and family just to get love of their life.

Come on you guys!

Aastha is 18 years old. How long do they expect to pamper her and shelter her from the harsh realities of live?

My life has been hell too, but I'm glad that my parents and family have made me strong and though to deal with it.

Do you know which people end up in the asylum; these are the people who aren't emotionally and mentally strong enough to accept their realities. The worst thing you can do is not prepare someone to deal with the unhappy moments. This only happened when you shelter them and allow them to believe that there life is perfect and that nothing can go wrong.

Thinking positively doesn't mean that you should be oblivious to the world around you. The problem is that Aastha thinks that she is the only one who is suffering and that only she is being victimize by this situation. She feels that only she has had a raw deal. She is plainly speaking a very selfish person.

Love doesn't mean sacrifice all the time. She's wallowing around about the fact that her mother died and that Simran is not her real mom.....ok understand. Everyone was patient and gave her support. Look at Sid and his sacrifice. Her grand parents, masi and all.

She's luck that her father is back. Some people don't even have that.

I don't think that Aastha is unfortunate at all. She's got love, food, shelter and education. What more does she want?

Aastha is only looking for attention. I know these types of people that walk around thinking that no one loves then....and boo hoo..."I'm so lonely".

Maybe, just maybe if Aastha grew up a little big and was mature, then maybe Sid would start to fall for her. But no she's very childish.

I say that Abhi and Simran should be married, these are Aasthas nature. She has always had this problem to begin with. But these two getting married is not going to solve Aastha's problems one bit.

Also when they werre married the first time around it was in court w'o anyone's blessings this time they have a second chance and should do it traditionally with elders bolessing. Very happy yeah!

Originally posted by: peaches

Come on you guys!

Aastha is 18 years old. How long do they expect to pamper her and shelter her from the harsh realities of live?

My life has been hell too, but I'm glad that my parents and family have made me strong and though to deal with it.

Do you know which people end up in the asylum; these are the people who aren't emotionally and mentally strong enough to accept their realities. The worst thing you can do is not prepare someone to deal with the unhappy moments. This only happened when you shelter them and allow them to believe that there life is perfect and that nothing can go wrong.

Thinking positively doesn't mean that you should be oblivious to the world around you. The problem is that Aastha thinks that she is the only one who is suffering and that only she is being victimize by this situation. She feels that only she has had a raw deal. She is plainly speaking a very selfish person.

Love doesn't mean sacrifice all the time. She's wallowing around about the fact that her mother died and that Simran is not her real mom.....ok understand. Everyone was patient and gave her support. Look at Sid and his sacrifice. Her grand parents, masi and all.

She's luck that her father is back. Some people don't even have that.

I don't think that Aastha is unfortunate at all. She's got love, food, shelter and education. What more does she want?

Aastha is only looking for attention. I know these types of people that walk around thinking that no one loves then....and boo hoo..."I'm so lonely".

Maybe, just maybe if Aastha grew up a little big and was mature, then maybe Sid would start to fall for her. But no she's very childish.

I say that Abhi and Simran should be married, these are Aasthas nature. She has always had this problem to begin with. But these two getting married is not going to solve Aastha's problems one bit.

As far as asthas behavior goes I am in complete agreement, I have again and again voiced my dislike for the way she is behaving and for her attitude, no kid should behave the way Astha has behaved with simran and to a large extent i am angry with simran for having put up with all this crap coming from astha. I certainly am not defending Astha but i do agree that simran and abhays marriage could have waited for sometime, now that they are together and have realized that they are deeply in love the marriage was inevitable but astha being their daughter at this stage should have been their main concern no matter how much of a brat she is, those of us who are parents realize how unreasonable kids esp teens can be but we just dont leave them and forget about their woes, we try to help them and clear their apprehensions and anxieties, in this case i think the marriage is just further alienating Astha who is already i feel on the point of breaking down, of course her behavior is nasty and she is selfish but ABHay and Simran are the parents here and need to put her happiness before their own, this is the only bone I have to pick in this whole marriage thing, IT COULD HAVE WAITED, maybe it would have taken some more time to get astha to see the light of day and reason but it was worth the wait, she is after all THEIR CHILD, I could'nt be happier for simran and abhay but as parents i am sorry right now at least their priorities are mixed up, when astha is not accepting simran on her own would she accept her as abhays wife, its like taking a knife which is already in her heart and pushing it deeper and harder!!!!!!!i just wish that they had solved asthas problems first and then included astha in their happiness.

I wish Simran and Abhi could have waited to settle Astha a little bit. She may not bend their way soon, but atleast calm her down. Get her insecurites and try to show her that people still love her.. if their attempts do not work for x number of months, which they can figure out themselves, get married and leave Astha to come around herself.

Whether they are married or not, for Astha, it is 'my papa' and Dr Simran. Sia's enthusiasm cannot be put down... who would not want to have their parents married. But I wish Abhi and Simran had taken their marriage decision, plans etc into their hands.

There is only so much parents can do to help their children. If the children do not want to listen..... how can parents help? There will be a point in time when Astha will realize that people still love her, care for her and that Simran did not kill her mother.

I am waiting for that day, when Astha realizes that her tantrums are uncalled for. Yes,she has a right to be upset. Life has not been fair to her... but it has not been fair to all of the others living with her either.

She needs to figure out why Simran did what she did and tell her she does not appreciate it . Nobody is stopping her from having a one on one with Simran... it is only Astha who is not willing to do this.

Originally posted by: wawahehe

I will not be surprised if Simran and Abhi are expecting after they are back from their honeymoon.

Oh! Come On! How can director of Astitiva even think of that. I hope you are wrong.

Originally posted by: wawahehe

You never know - when the director can think of showing Sia falling in love with her father and fantacizing about him and then later passing it off as father fixation. Then why cannot the director think of showing Simran pregnant at the age of 50-55. It is biologically possible.....

And quite honestly, why would something like that be wrong? My great grand mother had a child in her mid 50's. It wasn't a big deal!!!


Having a child is God's greatest blessing. This is all nature and destiny.

Come on friends, we all know that Love has no Age, love is Blind.....What is wrong in Abhi-Simran trying to get united to spend the evening of their life together? All wish for a companion for life. So i do not see anything wrong there.

As regards comments on they getting married after Astha is ok, tell me friends, did they not ask Astha to give her decision? Did Abhi not tell Astha that the BALL IS IN HER COURT? Why did Astha agree then, if she has to continue her ill-tempered behaviour towards Simran? Why is Astha doing this to Simran? Is it just bcos Simran has a weakness for Astha, bcos Simran loves Astha a lot. Astha could have plainly said you both NEED NOT MARRY. I think if hse had said that, things would have been different.

But when Astha agreed whole-heartedly to the marriage before all, what is wrong if ABhi and Simran get married? Do you think this is wrong? What do we expect them to do ? Do we want them not to get united even after Astha's consent? The only hope they now have is after marriage, things will turn for good, as Simran will be Astha's legal Mother. Is their thinking wrong? Do you all stil think they both are selfish???

Please do reply....

hey every1....

i don't know abt nebody else but I have no objections to abhi n simran getting married.....its for the better as sia made it clear that she wants to get them married so that they can meet and talk to each other openly (in other words the meetings in the hospital n late-night calls should come to an end) n THATS RIGHT!!!!......

as far as they-marrying-after-aastha-is-comfortable-with-the-idea is concerned i personally think its a no-no........making simran aastha's legal mother is much better than waiting for aastha to acknowledge it herself.....(if children start acting stubborn parents put a lil amount of pressure to make them do a thing...in aastha's case if she is not accepting sia n simran as her half-sister n mother respectivly then MAKING (read pushing) her do so is a BETTER way)......n lastly if aastha is living in the same house ignoring n avoiding simran will b more difficult......

hence their marriage brings with itself a new ray of hope that things will b better after it......

Actually we are not opposing the marriage, we are talking about the show off....whats the purpose of acting like a young couple as you remember after Neha's death when they both were getting married ,then that was a simple court marriage, so now in this age....acting like a first time married couple, wearing showy type cheap outfits .......these are some of the things which are making us feeling uncomfortable when we think of very sober,elegant Dr. Simran.
And even if Aastha agreed for their marriage, can't they realize by looking at her reactions that from inside she is NOT agreed to this marriage....children don't have to express everything in words as their parents can understand what they need, just by looking at their face.