Divorce after Adoption - Page 2

Yea, thanks to Bodhianveshika that I edited my original post..

You are right, I learnt it today that we really can’t change how others think.

This show made mockery of so many sensitive issues.. But certain issues like “Rape” and “Adoption” are highly sensitive matters that I couldn’t restrain myself from posting..

Thanks Smitha for the wonderful message 🤗

Yes I just don't like aadhya behavior she is very aggressive she is very selfish controlling and dominating

Whether Toshu pakhi baa vanraj aadhya I just don't like them .all are ek hi thalli ke chatte bate all these are mean selfish greedy showing uncessary attitude

It is does not matter whether they are adopted or biological

Anyone has free to adopt children as much they want take care of them But khuch legal formalities bh hoti Hai jiske bhi dhyaan rakhna hota hai

Like no matter a single male has emotions for female child and can take good care for female child but still single male cannot adopt female child

To hum legal fact ko ignore nahi kar sakte

I don't know about others I have never said one should not take care of adopt child

I have always point our aadhya misbaviour should be called out

If I s alled out aadhya misbehaviour that does not mean I am against adoption and why would I against adoption

Yes of course I am against timing of adoption and I have talk About legal fact but I was never against adoption .I never said one should not adopt child ya phir use sadak pur chod Dena chahiye

So I want to say first read post properly understand post take some time amd then reply itni jaldi baaji achi baat nahi hai kyonki post bahut hi galat arth nikala Gays hai

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Edit

U want answer

See in. Aaadhya situation aadhya is staying with anuj

She want custody of anuj and Shrut

So aadhya will stay with Shruti and anuj only

Suppose even if anupama want to be mother of choti after divorce but what is use because she can't live with aadhya always and can't take care of aadhya always

She may visit to aadhya for few hrs may be once in week but what is use

Shruti will stay with aadhya always as she will be living In same house with aadhya most of time

So court may give preference to Shruti than anupama because Shruti can take care of aadhya easily than anupama because Shruti will be more close to Shruti than anupama

And also since aadhya,s feeling comfortable with that is why court may prefes Shruti

Since happening couple that is both Shruti and anuj mutually decided to fake care of Shruti to court may give right to Shruti and anuj

Agar daughter ya son father ki custody mein rehna hai after court order to technically father ko child ki responsibility subse jyaada nibhani hogi

Kyonki court ne child ko father ki custody mein rakhne ka order diya hai not of mother

And court mein emotions se kaam nahi chalta hai

There was incident where mother took custody of child. Woh bacha apne father ke godi mei Chad ke jor jor se ro raha tha but court ka order tha to police ne bache ko father se lekar mother ko diya because court ka order tha court ko ise farak nahi padta father son ke beech Kitna pyaar hai

Since aadhya will be under custody of Shruti and anuj to technically Shruti and anuj ko hi aadhya ki responsibility nibhani hogi

Suppose agar koi custody nahi Lena chahta hai to wapas orphanage bhej dete hai aur phr bacha phir se waiting list mein aa jaata hai

Waise aisa hota nahi hai ki mother ya father mein se koi bache ki custody na le father ya mother se koi ek bache ki custody lete hi Hain after divorce

So conclusion is court jiske custody mein bacha rakhna ka order degi usi ko bache ki responsibility nibhani hogi

Yes I will say again if couple decide to take care of aadys to technically Shruti ka legal right as mother rahega phir anupama ka legal right ad mother of aadhya band ho jaayega

Because in eyes of law Shruti and anuj will be legal couple not anupama and Anuj

Just some koschens:

Suppose a couple, married for a while with kids who are yet minor, (like Vanraj-Anupama) divorce and the woman relinquishes custody of her kids in favour of the man.

a. Will the man still be the parent of the child, having responsibilities towards the child?

Suppose a couple adopts a girl child (like Anuj-Anupama). Somethings go wrong with the couple and they divorce and the woman relinquishes custody of the adopted girl child.

a. Should the father not be granted custody of the child or will he also no longer be the father owing to the divorce?

b. Will the adopted girl child be sent back to the orphanage owing to the divorce?

Aapko mai kitna izzat de ke baat kar rahi hoon..

And.. Look at the way, you are replying..

Debate Karo, Fight nahi..

Agar mai abhi sirf 3 questions puchu na Anupama ke rude Behavior ke baare mein, aap seedha reply bhi nahi de sakte ho..

Mai jo likhti hoon, woh nahi padte ho aap.. Apne mann se jo maine nahi likha.. wo bhi padh lete ho aap..

Haan Gynan hi baant rahi hoon, kuch seekh jayengey koi bhi toh achha hai .. Atleast oral diarrhoea nahi kar rahi hoon kuch logon ki tarah..

Jagadne ki attitude se nahi, samajh ne ki attitude se padhiye posts..

Thanks for the talk.. Bye, Take care!

So what should I do for ur izzat

Pehle aapne muje insensitive bola

Matlab pehle aap mujhe insensitive bolo phir kaho hum. Aapse izzat se baat kar Rahe hain ??Yeh kya baat hui

Shrurwat aapne ki hai Maine nahi

Yes bye and take care

So some think we don't like aadhya just because she is adopted seriously what a conclusion ?? Matlab khuch bhi ?? and do.they real.think that I call aadhya with name

Really show me link where I call names of aadhya

Ii always call as aadhya as aadhya aur as chot never call by her name

And calling her batameej rude is not name calling

Name calling usko bolte hain when u change real name of person

I never change spelling of aadhya I have always call her as aadhya only so where u do u see I have cal.as aadhya with different name that u r telling that I have name calling of aadhya

And secondly u claim that I never bash toshu pakhi

So if i never bash. Toshu pakhi then yeh kya hai

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/164918661

21 day post pehle post banaya tha toshu pakhi ko bash karne ke liye Aur yeh post edit bh nahi hai

Aadhya ko crictise Karo to bada yaad rehta Hak jub toshu pakhi ko Bash karti hoon tub yaad nahi rehta ??

Any way I will show u more link tomorrow that I not only crictise aadhya but also toshu pakhi too

Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Just some koschens:

Suppose a couple, married for a while with kids who are yet minor, (like Vanraj-Anupama) divorce and the woman relinquishes custody of her kids in favour of the man.

a. Will the man still be the parent of the child, having responsibilities towards the child?

Suppose a couple adopts a girl child (like Anuj-Anupama). Somethings go wrong with the couple and they divorce and the woman relinquishes custody of the adopted girl child.

a. Should the father not be granted custody of the child or will he also no longer be the father owing to the divorce?

b. Will the adopted girl child be sent back to the orphanage owing to the divorce?

Good questions

Ok..

Maine “Insensitive comment” kaha..

Aapko kuch nahi kaha.. Phir bhi sorry bola and tab se ache se hi baat kar rahi hoon..

Galati aap ne bhi kiya toh aap bhi Sorry Bol dijiye..

Originally posted by: Blueeeee

I mean all good and fair but what is the diatribe about divorce? Are you saying incompatible people should be stuck in a bad marriage because the child is adopted? Really?

Bad marriages fùck up children the most. Encouraging such bad patterns in the name of betterment of adopted children is cringe and in bad faith.

Like, should Shruti not break up with a man who catfished her because she is more of a mother to Adhya than Upma? And because Adhya is adopted and not her bio kid? Kya logic hai iska.

.why do you deliberately keep missing the point each time. This topic was clearly about the child and responsibilities of a a child, not about divorce or not.

Divorcing doesn't mean a mom can abandon a child and run away.

You know what affects a child way more than bad marriage? Total abandonment where so call mom leaves and runs away.

These things should not be a man vs woman issue, it should be a human issue. Abandoning a child in the name of divorce is wrong both morally and legally, even courts look at custody and good of child while granting divorce.

Originally posted by: vivacious

After reading certain insensitive comments, I felt this topic needs a separate thread..

Adopted Children are already dealing with one type of loss.. They are at loss of their home life and birth parents..

Adoption gives them a “Hope of Happy Family Life”.. So, if their adopted parents decide to get divorced or separated, the adopted child is thrown into turmoil again..

Adopted kids are already dealing with the difficulties of knowing where they “BELONG”.. In addition, if adopted parents too get divorced or separated.. their life turns out to be more traumatic..

Feeling “A sense of rejection” once again from the (adopted) parents is extremely painful and the child develops panic attacks, anxiety and anger issues..

And “Anupama Bhakts”…..

This horrible pain is 10 times more painful when compared to Anupama’s pain on knowing that Vanraj is having EMA with Kavya..

The Good-news is.. The Court is not a Fan of Anupama .. Hence, the court doesn’t differentiate between an adopted child and a Biological child.. In the eyes of Court, Adopted kid is legally the same as Biological child and both the mother and father must take care of their parental responsibilities.. Unless one of the parent give away the entire rights and custody of the child to the other person..

Agar Anupama “Aadya” ka poora rights n custody Anuj ko dedi toh Anupama ka koi “Haq” Nahi hai to tell Aadya “ Maa, apne bachhon se zyada dher nahi ruth thi” ..

It’s a request to every blind fan.. Just to support the Female Lead or the Fictional Female Character, please don’t become “Insensitive”..

Never apologize for doing the right thing. You are completely right about this regressive show and it's andh bhakts. And such people should always be challenged.

If people cannot differentiate between a 9 year old kid and a 55 year old women that's wrong. The ONLY reason these people hate Adhya is because she is adopted.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

And one more thing I have never call aadya n

I call aadhya as Ganda khoon

.yeh baat Kisne kahi mujhe nahi Pata but atleast main kabhi aadhya ke liye Ganda khoon word uss nahi kya j

I have call aadhya selfish rude because she has push anupama ahd use harsh word against anupama and putting wrong accusations on anupama that she is gold digger

But never use particular term for adhya that is Ganda khoon

Anupama's bio kids are a million times more rude and selfish, even today they were laughing at her. But I have never seen you hate them so much or call them names so many time as you do with Adhya.

No one is fooled, some people just hate adopted kids and it's obvious.