Divorce after Adoption

After reading certain insensitive comments, I felt this topic needs a separate thread..

Adopted Children are already dealing with one type of loss.. They are at loss of their home life and birth parents..

Adoption gives them a “Hope of Happy Family Life”.. So, if their adopted parents decide to get divorced or separated, the adopted child is thrown into turmoil again..

Adopted kids are already dealing with the difficulties of knowing where they “BELONG”.. In addition, if adopted parents too get divorced or separated.. their life turns out to be more traumatic..

Feeling “A sense of rejection” once again from the (adopted) parents is extremely painful and the child develops panic attacks, anxiety and anger issues..

And “Anupama Bhakts”…..

This horrible pain is 10 times more painful when compared to Anupama’s pain on knowing that Vanraj is having EMA with Kavya..

The Good-news is.. The Court is not a Fan of Anupama .. Hence, the court doesn’t differentiate between an adopted child and a Biological child.. In the eyes of Court, Adopted kid is legally the same as Biological child and both the mother and father must take care of their parental responsibilities.. Unless one of the parent give away the entire rights and custody of the child to the other person..

Agar Anupama “Aadya” ka poora rights n custody Anuj ko dedi toh Anupama ka koi “Haq” Nahi hai to tell Aadya “ Maa, apne bachhon se zyada dher nahi ruth thi” ..

It’s a request to every blind fan.. Just to support the Female Lead or the Fictional Female Character, please don’t become “Insensitive”..

Originally posted by: vivacious

After reading this insensitive comment, I felt this topic needs a separate thread..

Adopted Children are already dealing with one type of loss.. They are at loss of their home life and birth parents..

Adoption gives them a “Hope of Happy Family Life”.. So, if their adopted parents decide to get divorced or separated, the adopted child is thrown into turmoil again..

Adopted kids are already dealing with the difficulties of knowing where they “BELONG”.. In addition, if adopted parents too get divorced or separated.. their life turns out to be more traumatic..

Feeling “A sense of rejection” once again from the (adopted) parents is extremely painful and the child develops panic attacks, anxiety and anger issues..

Yea!

That kid “Aadya” at the age of 7, sacrificed her happiness for her adopted parent’s happiness.

And such Huge Sacrifice (given her age) went unnoticed..

Nobody knows apart from “Anupama”, Why?

Why didn’t Anupama tell Anuj “Poora Sach?”

Blind Bhakts of Anupama wants Anuj to know “Poora Sach” that Aadya caused the accident toh Aadya’s Sacrifice should also come out..

Saree Kinjal ne pick kiya na? Toh yeha Anupama aur Anuj ka taste same kaise hogaya? Sachayi ki devi Anupama ye kyun nahi bataya ki, Kinjal ki Selection hai? Anuj aur Kinjal ki taste same hai..

If I’ve hurt you, am sorry about that..

Baat Anupama ki ya Aadya ki nahi hai..

Surabhi, agar is worst show ki wajeh se, logon ke dimaag mein Adoption ki prati negativity bhait gayi toh galat baat hai na?

Agar Anupama ki baare mein aap insensitive comments pade toh, aap unka reply bhi kiya na?

Ek 55yr old ki baare mein mazak mein kuch kaha toh insensitive hogaya toh..

Ek bachhi ke baare mein, wo bhi adoption jaise sensitive matter par, galat information dena, abuse karna (Gandha Khoon) etc toh usse kahi zyada insensitive baat hai..

Mai phir se keh rahi hoon.. Agar aapko bura laga mere post, toh very very sorry but mujhe zaruri laga ye likhna..

Take care!

And one more thing I have never call aadya n

I call aadhya as Ganda khoon

.yeh baat Kisne kahi mujhe nahi Pata but atleast main kabhi aadhya ke liye Ganda khoon word uss nahi kya j

I have call aadhya selfish rude because she has push anupama ahd use harsh word against anupama and putting wrong accusations on anupama that she is gold digger

But never use particular term for adhya that is Ganda khoon

OK aapne muje insensitive nahi bola to aap kiske comment ko insensitive bol rahi thi

Aap us comment ka link bhej dijiye jis insensitive comment ke baare mein aap baat kar rahi hai aapko sorry bol dungi

Agar aapne nahi use kiya “Gandha Khoon” word toh Bahot Achhi Baat hai..

Yes Maine kabhi Ganda khoon word use nahi liya aadhya so please check fact next time before accusing me that I have called aadhya Ganda khoon

I need ur suggestions that daily here personally attack being different opinion and moreover they have strong support to personal attack other members they are given full freedom to attack other person .daily we are accuse of being insensitive because we are crictise aadhya

I don't care what other say but main objection is that they are given freedom to attack members their post not even deleted

Reporting ka bhi fayda nahi hai yahan

There is so much biasness regarding rule in the forum

Some openly freely targeting members

So what can I do in such situations jub yahan Reporting karne pe bhi khuch nahi Hota so I need ur suggestions regarding in this matter

I mean all good and fair but what is the diatribe about divorce? Are you saying incompatible people should be stuck in a bad marriage because the child is adopted? Really?

Bad marriages fùck up children the most. Encouraging such bad patterns in the name of betterment of adopted children is cringe and in bad faith.

Like, should Shruti not break up with a man who catfished her because she is more of a mother to Adhya than Upma? And because Adhya is adopted and not her bio kid? Kya logic hai iska.

Haha.. No No

If two people are incompatible and wanna divorce.. Very well, go ahead.. But here my point is, if they adopted a kid then they mustn’t escape from their parental responsibilities.. That’s it!

Jaisa Biological kids ka dhyan rakhte hai after divorce, waisa adopted kids ka bhi Dhyan rakhna chahiye..

Originally posted by: vivacious

If I’ve hurt you, am sorry about that..

Baat Anupama ki ya Aadya ki nahi hai..

Surabhi, agar is worst show ki wajeh se, logon ke dimaag mein Adoption ki prati negativity bhait gayi toh galat baat hai na?

Agar Anupama ki baare mein aap insensitive comments pade toh, aap unka reply bhi kiya na?

Ek 55yr old ki baare mein mazak mein kuch kaha toh insensitive hogaya toh..

Ek bachhi ke baare mein, wo bhi adoption jaise sensitive matter par, galat information dena, abuse karna (Gandha Khoon) etc toh usse kahi zyada insensitive baat hai..

Mai phir se keh rahi hoon.. Agar aapko bura laga mere post, toh very very sorry but mujhe zaruri laga ye likhna..

Take care!

We cannot change how others think. All we can do is be an example. In this virtual world, by vocalizing our views and calling out what is not right, like you have. That is nothing to be apologetic about.