Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 09 Jan 2023 - Page 4

Kal ko anupama kahe ki agar tum ya mujhe baa bapuji ka khayal nahi rakhoge to main tum se baat nahi karoongi agar aise anupama shart rakhna lag aise deal rehne lag jaaye to anuj ko kaise lagega

Jahan pe shart pe kaam ho phir wahan pyaar nahi contract hai

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

What are you saying? RG bhakts are saying that Anuj gaslighted MAA. MAA is always right, but due to Anuj's emotional manipulation she is burning in guilt.

Swayam gaslighting queen ko bhala kaun gaslight kar sakta hai. Ye Shakti to bhagwan mein bhi nahi hai to bechara anuj kya hi karega 🤣

Ask Aisha🤣I skip their dance scenes and read the dialogues only

Originally posted by: surabhi01

My mother view about anupama .she said that ki anupama chodo baa ko chahe Kitna bhi Karo dusht insaan badalta nahi hai

She some how agree with anuj that anupama that line draw karke rakho but she totally disagree on anuj that anuj choti anu ki wajah se anupama se baat karna chod raha ..he can't force anupama to take care of little anu like agar tum little anu ka care karogi to hum tumse baat karenge agar nahi care karegi hum tum se baat nahi karenge

My mother told phir yeh pyaar nahi samjhouta hai Ek Tarah contract hai Matlab ek Tarah se tum anupama ke saamne shart rakh Rahe ho Jo ki galat hai

And also she said jub Anuj khud hi sabse pehle shah mein ghuste they ki mujhe parivar chahiye ab choti anu ke liye anupama se baat karna band Kar raha hai

My mother clearly told ki adopt aur orphan girl anuj anupama pe force nahi kar sakta . Kyonki anupama ke khud ke teen bache hai uski poti hai to anuj anupama ke andar adopt girl ke liye mamta jaagane ke liye kaise force kar sakta hai

She told that agar koi kahe mujhe mujhe apne bachon ke saath relationship ship rakhna hai yeh mujhe pasand nahi so Anuj should not told ki anupama ko poti Pari apne teen bachon ka khayal rakhna chahiye ki nahi yeh anupama ki marji woh apne bachon ke saath kaisa relationship rakhna chahiye

.mu mother was angry on Anuj ki because of choti anu .anu ko ek trophy nahi mili uske liye tum anupama se baat karna chod Rahe ho ?

And said ki ki Anuj ne itni. Jaldi adoption kyon liya ? adoption Lena tha shaadi se pehle batata

When did Anuj stop talking to Anu? He is talking less than usual as he is hurt. He dried her hair, hugged her, kissed her, and praised her in front of his friend. He never asked her to cut ties with her kids and grandkids. He only requested her to prioritize CA as CA is still a kid. He is handling the situation in a very mature way.

Originally posted by: TheSunShine

Dheeraj asked her how she fell for Anuj, iss mein pehli shaadi ka dukhada kyun aur kaise aaya. She is still stuck at Anuj naraaz hai, Anuj ka pyaar kam na ho. Behen woh naraaz hai because you are neglecting Choti. Yeh saare Shah criminals ko galti pakde jaane par mental health issue aur depression aa jaata hai aur Anu the Maa ko penick atteck aata hai. It’s like I am a tape recorder stuck on these lines.

yeh conversation hona jaroori hai but between the couple, yeh sab Dheeraj ko bataane ki jaroorat nahi. Dheeraj was talking to his newly married friend and his wife , who he knows had a love marriage and was talking about the current life of the newly married couple. Anuj, your husband, praised you to the moon in front of his friend, you didnt need to wash your dirty linen in public. Agar sach mein galti ka realization hua hota Anupamaa ko toh Anuj se baat direct and individually karti. Ya Anuj ne baapuji ko bhej diya toh she needs another champion to further her cause. This half assed apology comes across as manipulative and not heartfelt.

@bold this was my only complaint from today's episode. This conversation was supposed to happen between MaAn and she should have done that before trying to seduce anuj. The fight which hurt heart's feelings cant end up on bed with physical pleasure without any conversation involved.

Baki to mujhe koi ummeed nahi hai na anupama se aur na writers se kyunki honestly mujhe to ye bhi nahi laga tha ki ye anupama ko apni galti manwayenge. I thought at the end writers will prove that anuj has some serious ego issues and anupama is noy happy in this marriage also.

So I am just glad they made her admit her mistakes.

Bani Rahe choti anu kid choti anu is not blood relation of anupama so Anuj can't expect from anupama that she will very soon develop intense mother feeling of that child who is not blood relation of anupama .it is difficult for mother to develop intense mother feeling for strange child jub uske khud ke bache ho .and yes anuj is cold to anupama it does not matter whether he hug her but inside he is very cold to anupama

What on earth are you saying? What a disgusting mentality that she's a "strange" child and not blood relation so Anuj can't expect Anupama to care for her?

First of all Anupama should have said a clear NO to Anuj, he did not take a decision on his own, he asked her. She gave a long speech about being a "Maa" and agreed to it. Even Devika told her to tell him the truth if she didn't want to adopt a child. Is she not an adult, middle aged lady who can make her own decisions? Why did she agree? Just like if you have biological children, you can't neglect him or her even if you didn't want them or it was by accident, you adopt a child it's the same damn thing. You can't say oh I dont feel attached so I can't do this. It's your damn decision, you treat the child as your own. You can't differentiate simply because they're adopted! Please change this sort of thinking. Also regarding feeling mamta, she needs to spend time with the child to feel any sort of motherly feeling! If you keep neglecting her and focusing on your ex in laws and FULLY grown children, how will you get attached to her? Aapko lagta hain bacchi ko adopt kar lo, mamta ki feeling nahi ho rahi hain toh use apnao mat aur zimmedari mat nibhao? Who told you this difference between adopted and biological children? THEY CAN'T BE TREATED DIFFERENTLY.

And second any husband will get angry if their wife doesn't take care of their child! What nonsense that Anuj's love should be unconditional but Anupama's cant be? Use jo karna hain woh karti rahe aur Anuj ka isme kuch interest nahin? Unka husband hone ka koi rights nahin? What kind of marriage is that that only Anupama benefits from? Choti Anu is their CHILD. Doesn't matter that she's adopted. Him demanding time from her for their child and for him does not need to be justified! Aur woh bhi Anupama koi padhai ya kaam mein busy nahin thi. Apne ex in laws aur ADULT bacchon ke problems solve karne mein lagi thi. Woh log uska faida utha rahe the, woh saare kam ya problems khud hi solve kar sakte the.

Aur uska pura haq hain cold banne ka. Shaadi husband and wife ko equal rights aur responsibilities deti hain. Anuj ne itna kiya Anupama ke liye, uske ex in laws ko, puri family ko apnaya. He did so much for everyone with lots of patience, he handled Anupama through ALL her mental breakdowns, accepted everything. He even let her go to celebrate being a dadi when he had just come out of a coma for God's sake. Everything built up and that Shah parivaar's ungratefulness came out when they blamed him and he finally lost patience. INSAAN hain woh. Sab 24 hours ke andar hua. Use thode din toh do apne feelings process karne ke liye, apna khud ka hurt dekhne ke liye. Woh baaki logon ke tarah nahin hain. Immediately sab perfect ho jaaye aur khushi khushi hase.

Anyway SO many things can be said about how reasonable Anuj's expectations are and how wrong Anupama was which she herself realised. But if you can't see that little girl's pov and her pain, nothing can be said to such human beings. You don't differentiate between adopted and biological child, period. And anuj has done a lot for Anupama, he is a human and has the most basic expectations a husband should have - that his wife prioritise his CHILD, him and HERSELF. Let's see how many people will accept a marriage and not ask their wife for ANYTHING, not even time and allow her to just spend her time serving ex in laws and adult children. Noone can even do what Anuj has done..

What disgusting mentality so saying truth is disgusting mentality and natural truth is disgusting mentality ?I did not know

And yes anupama has said that that she do not want to take care of another 4th child but anuj ka man delhte hue usne Haan boli the

It is very unnatural thing of anuj expect from anupama to that anupama will develop intense mother feeling of strange child when she has already biological mother of three child

I want to see which mother in real life will develop intense mother feeling for strange child so soon when she has already blood relation chidren

Normally i don't post here or reply, kisi ko Anupama pasand hai aur defend karna hain kisi bhi situation mein toh woh unki marzi. Hum apna pov rakhte hain aur woh apna. lekin baat jab aisi behad galat ho toh bolne se nahin raha gaya. Humaare generation mein toh aisi mentality nahin honi chaahiye. Woh adopted waali baat bahut galat thi toh bata diya. Didnt mean to offend anyone, very sorry if I did, just take it as a strong value I hold dear to me and had to share..