Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 09 Jan 2023 - Page 9

I have not read all the posts today but replying to whatever little I have read on this thread.

Anuj can love and feed/pay for her grownup badtameez kids but she cant even attend both of their only child's dance competition on time? And I understand mistakes happen, but after repeatedly told by Anuj to look after CA as CA was having bad dreams and was being neglected.

What I didnt like is Anu saying atleast she attended the dance event. Anuj has never once said that he atleast gave a loan to samar or tries to solve all of her kids' problems. Even though those 3 kids are just Anupamaa's while CA is both Anuj and Anu's kid.

And fandom is okay as long as Anuj is running around taking care of Maa's kids with her ex husband even after the kids and all her ex in laws are insulting him/holding his collar for no reason. But fandom is upset when Anuj asks her to just spend time with CA.

He doesnt even ask her to do it alone. He is readily doing all the chores and also takes care of CA.

Don't u think it is unfair on Anuj, Surabhi? Just like Anupama suffered with her inlaws, Anuj also lived a lonely loveless life and is an adopted child himself. He understands CA's emotions more than any one of us.

When two persons are in love, they complete each other by what they r missing in life.

In Anupamaa's words, Anuj completed her. Then what is wrong in Anuj expecting her to give him a lovely family that he always longed for? And he is readily taking all zimmedari with her, with all the love/care/respect.

Originally posted by: Snowstrom

SmithandRam^Exactly, for a while before India and Pakistan separated, my grandparents couldn’t have kids. At the time of separation between both countries, my now late khala was brought to my grandfather at four years of age. My grandfather was told her parents had been murdered in front of her as she hid and survived, with no other family. She couldn’t even tell you her name. My grandfather brought her home and told my grandmother, we wanted a kid and god gave us this child, she will be ours. From that day on until my khala died three years ago at 90, she was my khala, my mom’s and her siblings' oldest sister. My grandparents didn’t treat her differently because she was not blood. I cried more deeply hearing of her death than anyone else that has died in my life except for my younger brother because my khala helped raises me until I was four and moved to the USA. When I hear Anu shouldn’t be asked or expected to love this child as her own because that is bull. Plenty of mothers and fathers do it daily.

What an endearing story! I can sleep well tonight because I know there are kind people in this world. ❤️🤗

Originally posted by: surabhi01

What disgusting mentality so saying truth is disgusting mentality and natural truth is disgusting mentality ?I did not know

And yes anupama has said that that she do not want to take care of another 4th child but anuj ka man delhte hue usne Haan boli the

It is very unnatural thing of anuj expect from anupama to that anupama will develop intense mother feeling of strange child when she has already biological mother of three child

I want to see which mother in real life will develop intense mother feeling for strange child so soon when she has already blood relation chidren

Choti Anu is a little child, not a toy. In many countries you can be thrown in jail for neglecting adopted child, courts give them right. You cannot change your mind after adoption and play with their lives

Many people treat their adopted children as their own. In fact some children adopted later in life have said their adopted parents treated them better than their real parents who abused them

Originally posted by: TheSunShine

Why is Anupamaa’s ghosla still the Shah House even after marrying AK. They have been married for more than 6 months, fostering Anu for 3-4 months, yet the ghosla is Shahs not her new family with Anuj and Anu. Anuj’s extended family toh bhul jao. Mukku and GK are gayab.

I read somewhere some birds prefer messy and dirty ghosla. While some birds prefer neatly woven ghosla. So i think anupama comes in first category 🤣

Originally posted by: DailySoapBai

I don't think Anuj has a ego. But ofcouse his friend will give a balanced opinion and advice.

Though I am not too impressed with Anupamaa or her reasoning recently lol but Rupali looks pretty in the saree with her hair down. I like her necklace as well.

Yes, she was looking pretty in between all that hyper ventilating panic attack 😆

She has such beautiful hair, why dont they show new hairstyles or just let her hair open. Every female lead gets makeover after marriage why hasnt anupama has gotten one yet or may be writers thought that makeover will remove that "abla bechari MAA" aura from her thats why.🤣

Btw for a change this time her saree was also pretty.