Talking about separation

Toshu comes with Rakhi in the Shah house. Ordering Kinjal and Toshu to stay separate. Every forum member is saying that Rakhi did the right thing by taking the decision. But did she ask the Shah family too. She was ordering that Kinjal and Toshu are going. This is not done. Now when Kinjal was going away from her after the marriage, how sad she was. Now will the family won't get sad after their separation?

Rakhi wants them to stay in a panthouse. Please Rakhi, why are you being an obstacle in your child's development? Panthouse hai isiliye struggle nahi karna padta, really mein dekho bahut sare log akele rehte hai unko kitna struggle karna padta, tab jaake ghar milta hai. Let them earn their own house. Tum khud ki maid rakhogi, let Kinjal and Toshu hire the maid from their own money. Paise ki value pata chalegi

My parents have stayed in 7 rented houses and today now after years they have a house of their own. It is getting easy for both of them to go and stay separately. Vanraj said that they were poor and from that condition, he uplifted his family and made a beautiful house. Mehnat to karni padi hogi na

Anupama said one day a very beautiful line "Jo Bandhe woh moh, khole woh prem" That's why she didn't stop the couple. Leela as usual against it. I am happy that Vanraj didn't get very angry on it. Kavya as usual creates a useless Bakheda. Toshu, atleast should have talked to the family. It's not he should change the decision, but he should have talked to someone. As in Sanan's case how Anupama supporrted them, she would also have supported Toshu

Joint families se nuclear banana abhi achha lag raha hai. Par when Kinjal will have a kid then she will find a difficult job to handle a kid single handedly. Tab Toshu khud aayega ki bache ka khayal rakh nahi paye isiliye wapas aa gaye. How Dolly left Meenu to Anupama. As Toshu said, log alag rehna chahte hai, he is right. Rehna chahiye, phir musibat aaye to pariwaar ke saath wapas nahi aana chahiye

Toshu said that Vanraj worked hard for the family. But Toshu you are speaking everything so much over confidently because you don't have a kid. Kids make you do hard work. Every father wants the kid to live the best life style. He worked hard for you three. So I cn assume that you dont want have a kid. But what about Kinjal, she might wanna become a mother. You are in a marriage, consider her decision also.

Alag rehna paap nahi hai, par phir Pariwaar ke saath relation tod dena woh galat hai. And majority reality mein saare log yeh hi karte hai.

Toshu insulted the family members and that was much wrong. There is a way to separate and Toshu fought with all. I never felt before that that Toshu had this much problems with the family. It's Toshu's nature that agar uska man chaha na ho to sabko blame karta hai yeh. He uttered the truth but woh sirf Kinjal ko bolta to bhi chalta

Toshu and Rkahi were keeping their POV but did they ask Kinjal. Even Anupama didn't ask Kinjal what she wants. They are in a marriage and her POV also matters the most. But Toshu was mujhe yeh problem hai. Hello, mujhe nahi humko bolo,. Kinjal ko bhi problem hogi. Tum shaadi mein ho aur alag rehna hi tha, to shaadi se pehle rehte, agar itni family problems thi.

Today anupama serial complete 1 year

It's not not Toshu said but how he said it. But I understand his pov. Each person's need for privacy and alone time is diff.

Sometimes just to get away from the madness me and bro used to climb up and sit on the chickoo tree. 😬🤫

We used to go to the garage and sit to study when we wanted to get away from noise and many times we have sat on the porch.

It's a matter of perspective if they want to stay away for a few years away then it's their decision. See Samar has no room he sleeps in the hall. Kav keeps creating issue

All this causes emo turmoil and toxicity. He is just brave end to voice it out

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

It's not not Toshu said but how he said it. But I understand his pov. Each person's need for privacy and alone time is diff.

Sometimes just to get away from the madness me and bro used to climb up and sit on the chickoo tree. 😬🤫

We used to go to the garage and sit to study when we wanted to get away from noise and many times we have sat on the porch.

It's a matter of perspective if they want to stay away for a few years away then it's their decision. See Samar has no room he sleeps in the hall. Kav keeps creating issue

All this causes emo turmoil and toxicity. He is just brave end to voice it out

Anju, Shah family has the toxic environment I understand. So we all including me want that they stay separate. But this is not the case of every family.

But dont you find it illogical that till yesterday he was all OK and smiling and laughing with the family. Infact he he gave a sensible advice to Kinjal. But now he became nonsense all of a sudden

Why he didn't ask Kinjal, If Kinjal would have supported him, then I will respect all their decision. But he alone made the decision.

Rakhi didn't ask Kinjal what she wants, Toshu didn't, Anupama didn't as she assumed Kinjal wanna stay separate. Both decisions should have been mattered and then they could have reached in a conclusion. We talked about woman standing out but here Kinjal's decision didn't mattered

The way he uttered the truth to Vanraj. Someday Vanraj will also have felt frustrated of Toshu in his childhood, Vanraj love Toshu so much, but did he say Toshu that I am leaving you in the childhood days. Parents dont leave their children, when they need them. Then why children leave their parents when they need them? How easily Toshu said it I am tired of you, can Vanraj/ Anupama say this easily to Toshu, that he is tired of three children? The way Toshu argued I hated it, rest he can stay separate no issues with it. We need to remember we as kids were also a trouble to our parents, but they chose us over their freedom

Regarding Samar thing, I still dont understand how do they find a extra room every now then. That's illogical the CVs will show something stupid

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Today anupama serial complete 1 year

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Chalo cake cut karte hai🤣

Yeh toshu ko ek time bhi nahin laga apne parents se seperate hone mein . He immdeately agree to rakhi word. Btw yeh toshu ki khud ki iccha ki bhi iccha hai ki woh seperate rahe kinjal ke saath

Waise to anupama ko bhaashan sunaaya jaata tha ki specially by baa and toshu ki parivaar ka kya hoga. Yeh toshu bhi along with pakhi anupama ke saath rota tha ki hum parents ke bina nahin reh sakte

Anupama ko bhaashan sunaaya jaata tha ki bachon ka kya hoga bache ke bare mein socho

Anupama jin bachon ke liye ruki usme ke bacha toshu woh to bina, kisi if, but ke ghar se alag rehne chala gaya

Aur yeh anupama faltu mein bachon ki chinta karti rahi ki mere bachon ka kya hoga

I hope anupama see the reality and ab apne bachon specially pakhi and toshu ke liye jyaada emotinally attach na ho

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Yeh toshu ko ek time bhi nahin laga apne parents se seperate hone mein . He immdeately agree to rakhi word. Btw yeh toshu ki khud ki iccha ki bhi iccha hai ki woh seperate rahe kinjal ke saath

Waise to anupama ko bhaashan sunaaya jaata tha ki specially by baa and toshu ki parivaar ka kya hoga. Yeh toshu bhi along with pakhi anupama ke saath rota tha ki hum parents ke bina nahin reh sakte

Anupama ko bhaashan sunaaya jaata tha ki bachon ka kya hoga bache ke bare mein socho

Anupama jin bachon ke liye ruki usme ke bacha toshu woh to bina, kisi if, but ke ghar se alag rehne chala gaya

Aur yeh anupama faltu mein bachon ki chinta karti rahi ki mere bachon ka kya hoga

I hope anupama see the reality and ab apne bachon specially pakhi and toshu ke liye jyaada emotinally attach na ho

Bolded lines: Exactly Surabhi

The post I have written in reply to Anju usmein exactly yeh hi cheez meine likhi hai

Anupama saari zindagi mere bache mere bache karti rahi aur dekho yeh bachhe.

Jub akhir mein jakar toshu alag rehna hi tha to yeh toshu anupama ko bhaashan kyon sunata tha divorce mut do. Arey tum jaakur apna alag rehte kinjal ke saath khub shauk se rehte alag kinjal ke saathbut anupama ko force kyon karte they ki divorce mut

Yeh acha hai ki agar khud ki personal life mein baadha aa rahi ho to alag hona sahi hai tub bina kisi deri ke alag ho jaao

Aur doosra apne mental peace ke liye divorce bhi na de

I also want to say thing ki local mein matlab ek city mein rehte hue kaun bacche apne parents se alag house mein rehte hain

I have never seen jub parents aur bache ek city mein kaam kar rahe hon to parents aur bache ke alag alag ghar mein reh rahe hon

Yes maine anupama ko alag rehne ko kaha kyonki vahan jo main reason hai vanraj aur kavya bhi reh rahe hain

But if we leave divorce adultery and all. Support vanraj ne anupama ko cheat nahin kiya hota aur anupama aur vanraj shuru se happy married couple hote

To ek city mein rehte parents aur bache alag rahe yeh baat mujhe unrealistic and illogical lagi

Kyonki aisa maine aaj tuk dekha nahin ki ek city mein rehte hue parents aur bache alag makaan mein rehte hon

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Jub akhir mein jakar toshu alag rehna hi tha to yeh toshu anupama ko bhaashan kyon sunata tha divorce mut do. Arey tum jaakur apna alag rehte kinjal ke saath khub shauk se rehte alag kinjal ke saathbut anupama ko force kyon karte they ki divorce mut

Yeh acha hai ki agar khud ki personal life mein baadha aa rahi ho to alag hona sahi hai tub bina kisi deri ke alag ho jaao

Aur doosra apne mental peace ke liye divorce bhi na de

So true...

Alag raho, par aisa hypocrite behaviour mat karo. Toshu ek time par aisa dusri time waisa dikhaya jaata hai

Anupama ko alag na hone ka salaah deta tha aur khud ko alag hona hai

Waah