Like seriously

Like seriously the way vanraj defending himself and putting all blame on Anu for what he did is soo disgusting

How can someone be this cheap ?

He is not even 1 per guilty for what he did is disgusting and totally ethically wrong but no he is audacity blaming Anu and saying

Masale ke smell ate han hold on jo aurat 24 hour khitchen mei rehte han iss se masale ke hi smell ayege na

Aur mr vanraj shah jo kisi ke haath ke khana kaate nahi siwaye anupama ke aur wo iss cheez ko as his defence use kare iss se disgusting cheez toh koi ho nahi sakta

Second what he said anupama ko menu b read karna nahi ata hold on agar iss cheez ke itna hi sharam thaa toh anupama aage padne dena chahiye thaa agar wo ab tak grow nahi kar paye its because of you amd your mother she try to change herself and grow ek hi job tha wo bhi vanraj ke wajah se gaya

Third she talk about her saree itna hi saree se problem thi toh hud usske liye shop karte simple

Agar anupama aise han all blame go on vanraj because he was totally controlly her

Ek simple sawal for all : In many cases family force guy to marry their choice of girl toh iss mein guy should blame his parents why girl is blame for this jisko iss baat ke koi idea nahi

Why guy treat that girl like sh...t after married

Even she come from poor family she is daughter of someone wo apne ghar jaise thee khush thi why guy feel ek ladki ko shaadi ke baad dress aur khana mil jaye bas inn ke responsibility ho gaye

With basic need girl want an psychological need too jo anupama ko kabhi nahi mila

Now how badly i want to see anupama getting more suceessful then vanraj in career wise and i want to see vanraj regreting leaving anupama how badly i want to see this now

Seriously yeh reason hote hain apni wife ko dislike karne ke? Aur tumhe masale ki smell nahi lage to kya anupama baar baar tumhare liye kapde change karti rahegi ?

Kavya to ghar ka kaam nahi karti to woh to hamesha ready ho ke rahegi but anupama ghar ka kaam karti hai for 18 hrs to kya anupama ke liye posible hai woh har samay bilkul costly kapde pehan kur ghar ka kaam kare?

Costly kapde pehan kur kaun ghar ke kaam karta hai

Anupama ne school mein cooking teacher ka job just for 2 hrs alteranate days pe kiya woh bhi vanraj se tolerate nahi hua

Intentionally vanraj ne anupama se chaar guest ka khaana banwaya taaki anupama school ke liye late ho jaaye aur yonki vanraj ko promotion milna tha aur school ke liye late karwaya aur anupama ki cooking teacher ki job chudwa diya

To yeh reason bilkul lame hai ki anupama mere match ki nahi hai agar aisa hota to anupama jub job kar rahi thi aur jub anupama ko food competition mein first aayi thi aur trophy mili thi to anupama ko support karte

Pur vanraj ne anupama ko ghar se bahar nahi nikalne diya aur 25 years mein just one day anupama ghar se bahaar apne friend ke saath ghumne gayi to vanraj ne anupama ko ghar se bahaar nikaal diya

Anupama bahut khuch kar leti but vanraj ne opportunity nahi diya ko anupama aur anupama ko discourage kiya uske saath maalik naukar jaisa behave kiya

Vanraj ne yahi chaha anupama kahin ghoomne nahi jaaye kahin job nahi kare driving nahi kare

Bus anupama ghar ka kaam kare Lekin isme bhi kami nikalni hai vanraj ko anupama mein

yes men are like that. They think that if he gives food,shelter and cloth,his responsibility is over!!! meri saas ,people around me think that yoi aare getting everything,what else you want?? A relationship without love and respect is zero...atleast for anupama,he rkids are supportive ,think about woman like her and mera future soch kaey khud mujaey dar lagtha hey.

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Seriously yeh reason hote hain apni wife ko dislike karne ke? Aur tumhe masale ki smell nahi lage to kya anupama baar baar tumhare liye kapde change karti rahegi ?

Kavya to ghar ka kaam nahi karti to woh to hamesha ready ho ke rahegi but anupama ghar ka kaam karti hai for 18 hrs to kya anupama ke liye posible hai woh har samay bilkul costly kapde pehan kur ghar ka kaam kare?

Costly kapde pehan kur kaun ghar ke kaam karta hai

Anupama ne school mein cooking teacher ka job just for 2 hrs alteranate days pe kiya woh bhi vanraj se tolerate nahi hua

Intentionally vanraj ne anupama se chaar guest ka khaana banwaya taaki anupama school ke liye late ho jaaye aur yonki vanraj ko promotion milna tha aur school ke liye late karwaya aur anupama ki cooking teacher ki job chudwa diya

To yeh reason bilkul lame hai ki anupama mere match ki nahi hai agar aisa hota to anupama jub job kar rahi thi aur jub anupama ko food competition mein first aayi thi aur trophy mili thi to anupama ko support karte

Pur vanraj ne anupama ko ghar se bahar nahi nikalne diya aur 25 years mein just one day anupama ghar se bahaar apne friend ke saath ghumne gayi to vanraj ne anupama ko ghar se bahaar nikaal diya

Anupama bahut khuch kar leti but vanraj ne opportunity nahi diya ko anupama aur anupama ko discourage kiya uske saath maalik naukar jaisa behave kiya

Vanraj ne yahi chaha anupama kahin ghoomne nahi jaaye kahin job nahi kare driving nahi kare

Bus anupama ghar ka kaam kare Lekin isme bhi kami nikalni hai vanraj ko anupama mein

Exactly anupama is perfect wife..an perfect mother and perfect daughter.in.law

Vanraj ko abhi kavya abhi iss liye pasand becoz wo wife nahi jab wo wife banege uss mei b keede nikalega

Abhi anupama uneducation ke taunt marta han kavya ko khana na banane ki aur ghar ke kam na ane ke taunt marega vanraj kabhi kisi se khush nahi ho sakta as he think he is best only

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

yes men are like that. They think that if he gives food,shelter and cloth,his responsibility is over!!! meri saas ,people around me think that yoi aare getting everything,what else you want?? A relationship without love and respect is zero...atleast for anupama,he rkids are supportive ,think about woman like her and mera future soch kaey khud mujaey dar lagtha hey.

Yaha pe i dnt trust toshu and pakhi both are really unpredictable

Yes I was totally appalled at his response....I can understand him not being in love with Anupama but what I cannot understand is how after being married to someone who has served you loyally and faithfully for 25 years you don’t have any respect at all for that person. How can he think of himself as being better than Anupama, as a matter of fact he should thank his lucky stars for having Anupama as his wife.

I blame his feeling of self entitlement and disrespect towards Anupama on Baa, as she had said that she never missed a chance to rebuke and belittle Anupama so much so that even Anupama own kids felt, with the exception of Samar, embarrassed of their mother.

I do hope that now Pakhi and Paritosh eyes open and they see who’s the real embarrassment is now.

Vanraj needs to understand that respect is not demanded it is earned, clearly his actions of carrying on with his affair shows he does not have any self respect, how does he expect his family to have respect for him.

Vanraj clearly has no guilt or remorse of his actions, he is a very narcissistic individual.

Anupama don’t deserve such toxicity in her life, can’t wait to see how much Anupama will succeed an grow in a world without Vanraj Shah!

Vanraj is just putting the blame on anu to justify his actions.. anu doesn’t deserve this.. love how strong will she is

Men like Vanraj will always blame other's for their mistakes. Even if he had been married to someone like Kavya he would have strayed. Then his reasons will be she does not care about his needs, family blah blah.....and the woman with whom he would have been involved would have some poor naive fragile woman who would boost ego.

It would be always woman's fault for these type of men.

Ghatiya aadmi full stop!!!

Excuses and blame - thats all he has. The silly excuses he was givingthat Anupamaa was this and that, is no reason to put down a person, and a woman just to justified his own selfishness

Bapuji was right, when one does wrong, they apologise but this man is making excuses.

Not once has he thought thats its his own doing that the family are ashamed off and not supporting him, and will be distant from him. Nope he is blaming Anupamaa. He thinks his family think he is cruel and cheap - he is, cos its his own doing, nope he is saying its Anupama who has made him lower in the eyes of his family.

One should ask Vanraj if Pakhi's future husband does what he did, is he gonna stand there and not think what a cheap and shameless man he is.

Dolly after hearing everything says Anupamaa should stay with her brother. No, thats wrong after hearing such vile words. No woman would say to stay with a man like that

Originally posted by: Lennie

Ghatiya aadmi full stop!!!

Excuses and blame - thats all he has. The silly excuses he was givingthat Anupamaa was this and that, is no reason to put down a person, and a woman just to justified his own selfishness

Bapuji was right, when one does wrong, they apologise but this man is making excuses.

Not once has he thought thats its his own doing that the family are ashamed off and not supporting him, and will be distant from him. Nope he is blaming Anupamaa. He thinks his family think he is cruel and cheap - he is, cos its his own doing, nope he is saying its Anupama who has made him lower in the eyes of his family.

One should ask Vanraj if Pakhi's future husband does what he did, is he gonna stand there and not think what a cheap and shameless man he is.

Dolly after hearing everything says Anupamaa should stay with her brother. No, thats wrong after hearing such vile words. No woman would say to stay with a man like that

@Bold Exactly, I think he believes doing EMA is alright - well why? because he is the one doing it, and in his head, all those shitty reasons are right!!

He doesn't given get the situation! As much as I am angry I do want to laugh at his situation. Wow, he is such a dumb for "educated" trash.

He is just delusional, I think we will be getting a lot of these excuses and blames in the future. That thing is selfish, we can't expect much from him anyway. His whole world is "me, I and myself". Every time it is his house, his parents, his kids!! Such a dictator, I would love seeing Bapuji kick his sorry 'As*'

I do fear Pakhi might side with him, and I badly want her not to. I do want Anu to ask Dolly -- if her husband had done it - would she still stay with him?