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Hey Shahnaz wanted to respond to some things:
I like the fact that you use the term homemaker. good for you. 👏
Thank you ... actually this is the term now used in the West.
Also, your mom is really lucky to have a family like yours.... there are women who live their lives out for families where what they do goes unnoticed or uncherished.... what i'm trying to say is that the idealistic image that you're building... 'a homemaker hopes to stay beautiful to her husband whom she adores and to her loved ones who she knows find her amazing no matter what'... is not always true.
Yes ... I know that ... all the girls in our family are either working or in between jobs for family related reasons😃 ... and we believe we can have both 😊... things are different now ... my mom's life was different due to the family size and my dad's occupation .... she was not forced to stay home ... she chose to do that😃 ... but she was an active member of the society and still is👏.
Sometimes I do feel the amount of social services she is involved in would not have been possible if she had a job like mine😕. Anyways ... everyone needs a role model right? For me although I will never be a full time homemaker ever but I still respect her choice as she did an wonderful job being a homemaker👏.
As for actors having to look good, yes that is one of the demands of the profession and they have to follow it...what i mean is, lets not feel superior to Narayani because she has shown that looking good is imp to her....just as we get paid for how we perform and deliver our skills, she gets paid for looking a certain way... its part of her job and she has to do it... though i'm sure its one of the most stressful parts of her job.
I agree with you 100%.
Not at all ... I do not feel superior to anyone😊 .... it's a choice we made😉 ... creative people are different kind of people... it's a gift from God👏 ... you can not be creative if you just try it . Although I believe it can be encouraged 😃....
I just did not agree with what she said, that normal people like us need to workout 90 minutes to stay healthy and housewives are not conscious of their health😊. Also she forgot to mention other aspects of life to stay healthy😃.
in fact, in today's world, looking good has become a source of stress for so many people...it breeds its own insecurities as well.... struggling with a negative self image can be a long and lonely struggle.... i wish the world wouldnt depend on images so much (though as a student of lit and film i should be the last person saying this, since they're images too)... you know, once one of my students fainted in class becuase of the diet she was on.... yeh bachche pata nahi khud ko kitna damage karte hai.
I know that ... I am seeing that every day in my own family 🤢...
My post has become a long one too... shahnaz tum aur main pravachan mata ban jaayenge 😊
Now who is influenced by whom here?😆😆😆
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