Originally posted by: superbike
I am also posting my views , for discussion, not to bash anyone or to degrade anyone. My views may not be acceptable to everyone, but we all are different and lived totally different lives in different parts of the world, so our views are bound to be different. but I respect everybody who has struggled thru every moment of life and has a viewpoint of his/her own. Hey sweetie the fun of this forum is in the different opinions. When i said that do not make my post a reason to bash Narayani, i was not worried about you or Shahnaz or Muneeza or Shabnam.... i knew that i would get to hear different and interesting opinions from all of you.... i was wary that some other people would use my post to say mean things about Narayani, which is what i was trying to prevent. If you go to the old topics, there were times when writings against Narayani got really ugly, so was just trying to avoid that. 😊
To sum up, i just wanted to say 1) women who work sometimes adopt a condescending attitude towards women who dont... and thats not fair.
2) However, this attitude need not necessarily tie up with whether you believe in marriage or not... i dont believe but i can still understand and respect the adjustment and compromise that a wife makes.