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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: superbike

I am also posting my views , for discussion, not to bash anyone or to degrade anyone. My views may not be acceptable to everyone, but we all are different and lived totally different lives in different parts of the world, so our views are bound to be different. but I respect everybody who has struggled thru every moment of life and has a viewpoint of his/her own. Hey sweetie the fun of this forum is in the different opinions. When i said that do not make my post a reason to bash Narayani, i was not worried about you or Shahnaz or Muneeza or Shabnam.... i knew that i would get to hear different and interesting opinions from all of you.... i was wary that some other people would use my post to say mean things about Narayani, which is what i was trying to prevent. If you go to the old topics, there were times when writings against Narayani got really ugly, so was just trying to avoid that. 😊

To sum up, i just wanted to say 1) women who work sometimes adopt a condescending attitude towards women who dont... and thats not fair.

2) However, this attitude need not necessarily tie up with whether you believe in marriage or not... i dont believe but i can still understand and respect the adjustment and compromise that a wife makes.

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Posted: 18 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: whynot

To sum up, i just wanted to say 1) women who work sometimes adopt a condescending attitude towards women who dont... and thats not fair.

2) However, this attitude need not necessarily tie up with whether you believe in marriage or not... i dont believe but i can still understand and respect the adjustment and compromise that a wife makes.

Ok dear, if you say, tumahar case mein Ek hi believer maan leti hoon,( Hope over a period of time both become believer in love and marriage, my wishful thinking)

I agree, attitude of working women towards non-working women is unfair and they feel superior to non working . But to balance this, in hardcore India, I would say attitude of non working woman towards working woman is also not very good . They talk about each other as totally different species. Every woman is different.

Well what a wife does for the family , we know, whether working or non working, compromises, sacrifices are part of her life, which goes unnoticed at times. But that is life. Still it is worth living.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Teena, on that brilliantly mature note, i agree and doff my cap... "that is life... still it is worth living"... completely agree with this one 😃
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Posted: 18 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: whynot

Teena, on that brilliantly mature note, i agree and doff my cap... "that is life... still it is worth living"... completely agree with this one 😃

Hey shvetal, I am reallllllllly tired now, .........😆😆

It is so easy to discuss Gaurav, Ekta and Narayni, I never get tired...😆😆😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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👏 Shvetal and Teena hats off to you ppl really such elaborate explanations on the working and non working women, views and superb comments. Shvetal on a serious note whenever YOU find the right person for YOURSELF.Someone u'll trust and love unconditionally and someone who will uphold all your faith and love and return it tenfolds I'm positive you will marry him. Because the future is still a mystery and it has yet to unfold itself we never know what's next! 😊
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hey i agreed with you completely.... now why are you tired? 😆 😆
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: blind horizon

👏 Shvetal and Teena hats off to you ppl really such elaborate explanations on the working and non working women, views and superb comments. Shvetal on a serious note whenever YOU find the right person for YOURSELF.Someone u'll trust and love unconditionally and someone who will uphold all your faith and love and return it tenfolds I'm positive you will marry him. Because the future is still a mystery and it has yet to unfold itself we never know what's next! 😊

Thanx Muneeza darling .....😊

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Posted: 18 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: blind horizon

👏 Shvetal and Teena hats off to you ppl really such elaborate explanations on the working and non working women, views and superb comments. Shvetal on a serious note whenever YOU find the right person for YOURSELF.Someone u'll trust and love unconditionally and someone who will uphold all your faith and love and return it tenfolds I'm positive you will marry him. Because the future is still a mystery and it has yet to unfold itself we never know what's next! 😊

Muneeza dear thanks a ton for your heartfelt wishes... i can feel the warmth of your feeling through the screen of the computer.... hug hug.

On a lighter note, mere friends ki party mein mat shaamil ho... mere liye ladka dhoondhna chood do. 😉 😆 😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: whynot

Hey i agreed with you completely.... now why are you tired? 😆 😆

HI, I am tooooooo tired to explain even why..............😆😆😆, so next time before a serious discussion, I will explain why do I get tired .........😆.😆😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: whynot

Muneeza dear thanks a ton for your heartfelt wishes... i can feel the warmth of your feeling through the screen of the computer.... hug hug.

On a lighter note, mere friends ki party mein mat shaamil ho... mere liye ladka dhoondhna chood do. 😉 😆 😆

Oh dear I cannot perform such a difficult and arduous task! Finding a guy to your liking is like mining for gold dear as he'll be priceless! 😊 To find the gold you must bear the grime and so dear I'll be more than happy to catch the wedding bouquet and enjoy the cake with Gaurav by my side! 😉 We'll really enjoy the wedding dear ,do call us.😆 Who knows we might even gift you a laptop to keep in touch!!!!! I know , I know we're being thoughtful and modest but that's what friends are for.😉

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