’’Life WiThOut WoRkiNg OuT’’...ArTicLe - Page 5

OK …. Things are getting too serious dearies 😕 … I am afraid if by any chance Gaurav gets to read the posts in this topic 😉 …. He will either decide not to marry ever 😭 (ohhhh poor poor soul will be so lonely 😭 😭 … I do not want that to happen to him ever 😊 ….) or will marry someone right away 🤢 (I am very afraid to imagine who that person might be …. ) and forget about all of us 😭.

Uffffffffffffffff girls you are way too much … trust me darling I came from a very large family with various kinds of people and a bunch of strong headed females 😃 … who are well educated, independent and gorgeous (yeah ...that's what others say 😆 😆 😆 … )…. The strongest non believers in marriage turned into the best believers 😉 when they found the right person 👏 …. and went to an extent only fit for soap opera scripts to get married 😆.

So don't say that you already know yourself where your heart is involved 😉 … exploring one self is a journey itself 😃 …. Let the journey surprise you with it's twist and turns 😉 ….don't let the hope for a miracle fade away 😃 ….. hope makes life worth living 👏.

And finally Shvetal ❤️ … no one is asking you to marry someone if you are not in love with that person 😕 …. I think I made it very clear in my other posts as well …. An woman who is financially and physically (society comes in to picture here …. see we are social beings at the end of the day 😕 ….) independent ….. does not have to marry if she does not expect to get the love, companionship and the fulfillment of her desires from her husband 😉 😃.

After all marriage is not any other relationship…it has very serious emotional dimensions attached to it 😃 … but to understand this, women need to be independent and need to understand their needs and dreams clearly 😃 .

OK darlings … friends now 😃?

hi shahnaz, yes discussion got serious, when I saw Shvetals' posts in the morning, I got too serious and wrote everything. But things are better now. Now we are our way back to Gaurav, Ekta and Narayni. 😊
You are right, I also leave somethings to the journey of life, it is full of surprises and everyday is very beautiful. 😃
I can write on and on, but will go now........ catch u later..... friends ofcourse 😃

Originally posted by: candyfloss

i dint go through the whole posts but if gaurav understands and realise true value of marriage reading our posts than he'll definitwly not marry N
I hope he marries saumya.She's the only perfect for him.
Someday he'll realise this and thank us. 😳

Candy ... what if Saumya likes someone else and does not want to marry Gaurav😕? It's possible you know. Would you still want Gaurav to go after her? Would it be fair darling for our jaan Gaurav?😭

Muneeza dear bade achche armaan hai aapke.... 😆 😆 😆... par soch lo, meri shaadi mein Gaurav ko lekar aaogi toh ho sakta hai main dulhe se shaadi na karo 😉 😆 😆.
Shahnaz dear, I think i got carried away partly because i dont like the equation of maturity and morality with belief in marriage... A is not necessarily more mature and more morally upright than B simply because A believes in marriage and B doesn't.... just as the female A is not necessarily superior to female B because she works and the other one doesn't.... i was defending both my arguments from the same principle you see....but beyond making these points, i wasnt disagreeing with what you and Teena were saying.
I agree completely that one is constantly discovering oneself in the journey of life.... and i'm not as rigid on the subject of marraige as the posts seem to have conveyed. Thats what i meant.... its not a big issue for me whether i get married or not, therefore i will get married if the person i'm with wants it (waise for all you know, i might get married to please my mom, so thats also a possibility).... and its not as if i dont believe in commitment.... i'm not a flings kind of person.... but my commitment would come irrespective of the marriage ceremony. In fact, unlike most non believers in marriage, my expectations from it are very high....bolti hoon na, i can turn a simple question complicated simply by responding to it at more than one level 😉 😆
Yes this discussion did become serious but i dont think it ever became hostile....thats one of the best things about this section... i've seen debates turn really hostile in other sections.... par hum sab toh mahaan hai 😉 😆 😆. Of course friends.... poochne ki bhi zaroorat hai kya?
And Candy dear, i know you have successfully predicted the marriage of previous tv couples.... but i think this time around you may be wrong. i dont see anything happening on the Gaurav Saumya front, irrespective of his relationship with Narayani.

Teena dear Gaurav Narayani Saumya toh hamare Prince Charles, Diana and Camilla Parker Bowles hai.... unke bina iss forum mein koi bhi discussion hua hai kya? 😆 😆

Muneeza dear bade achche armaan hai aapke.... ... par soch lo, meri shaadi mein Gaurav ko lekar aaogi toh ho sakta hai main dulhe se shaadi na karo
Shvetal honestly do you think I'll be bringing him to u'r wedding still a bachelor, how innocent . 😊 Not untill we've exchanged vows will we be coming to attend your wedding. 😆

Muneeza dear you're the innocent one here.... do you think wedding vows will deter me? 😉 😆 😆

Originally posted by: whynot

Muneeza dear you're the innocent one here.... do you think wedding vows will deter me? 😉 😆 😆

Shvetal Good point😉 .... but it will deter Gaurav ... right Muneeza?😆

Originally posted by: shahnaz12

Shvetal Good point😉 .... but it will deter Gaurav ... right Muneeza?😆

Well said Shahnaz 👏 👏 He's a very loyal person Shvetal I believe u'll havta suffice with your groom and leave Gaurav to my care! 😊 I promise I'll take good care of him.😉